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writes:I met a girl in a club at the weekend, and i'm not sure whether i should text her.I saw her earlier on in the evening, and was attracted to her, however i don't think that she saw me, and she was with a large group of friends so i didn't approach her.Later on in the evening, i saw her again, with a smaller group of friends. She looked at me, walked towards, and said hi.. we started kissing almost straight away, then swapped numbers, and went our separate ways. I looked for her later but couldn't find her.I'm now unsure whether i should text her, as she hasn't text me, and i think we were both quite drunk ( i definitely was). Also, if i was to text her, how should i word the message?Thnaks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Thanks for the advice. I text her last night (i didn't have the bottle to ring her). We've arranged to meet up next week sum time for a drink.Thanks again for all the help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): If she didn't like you why would she have given you her number...
Your not losing anything by txting her... for all you know you could be gaining something :)
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reader, skye +, writes (29 August 2007):
 I dont see any reason for you not to get intouch with her. Afterall, she might have just lost your number or perhaps she is a bit embarrassed about meeting you while drunk.
I agree about ringing her rather than texting, but if you insist on the latter, I would word it something like:
Hi, its Mark. We met the other night at the club. How would you like to go out for a drink with me?
If you ring her, I would simply say the same thing. See! Its not so very scary!
I dont see why she wouldnt agree; she obviously likes you.
Good luck,
Skye
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): You are not going to hurt anything by calling her.
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reader, duce00  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 I think you can assume she likes you by the kiss! I personally think that the whole "dont call the next day" or "wait 3 rings" philosophy on new contact is just a bunch of hooey. If ya like her and you have her number just call her ya knuckhead! If she is one to play by those silly little dating rules you dont want her anyways.
PS: I would call rather than text if I were you. Its more human and not so modern age cliche bla-de-bla.
PPS: I was just playing with you on the knucklehead thing. Just trying to get you to lighten up dude! Thats the best advice for sure :)
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