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writes:I am in my 20's.I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount.However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he wasn't someone I wanted long term, or seriously. However, the sexual chemistry was amazing, and yes, he's a good guy, great person too.So my question, being young, should I take the opportunity to embrace the great passion with this guy I dated? Live for the moment, and have an amazing one night with him, (be selfish so to speak, and do this for myself, unknown to my boyfriend?) I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): hey, i can understand what u must be going through right now. All I can say is that if I had been in your situation, I would've valued the relationship that I've got going and not done anything to endanger it. In the end however the decision is up to u. In my opinion there's quite a large possibility of your "secret" leaking out at some point in time and ruining your relationship with your boyfriend. Trust me, if u love your boyfriend and if he loves u back then you'd want to hold on to that as tightly as possible. If your "secret" slips out and becomes the cause for your bf to leave u, I can't imagine how much grief u would go through and how much regret u'd have in ur heart. Do u really want to take that risk? Think about it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Not many people have great burning passion for someone. I don't think you really love your b/f, you wouldn't even be tempted by this if you really were. You need to think about who you really want
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeyaokay, i think there is a bit of confusion, thanks for the answers though.What i wanted to have a reply to, was I love my boyfriend, we will most likely be married which we both want later in life.But before this happens, should i allow myself to once experience this crazy passion with this other guy ?it would be in secret. i know cheating is wrong, people get hurt. And i do love my bf, i just want to of had experienced this once..thanks, xxx
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reader, quarky  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 In a word- yeah. Sounds to me like your bf (ex?) ain't so serious anyway- you're young- enjoy while you can!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 So many things determine how u deal with such unresistable forces of nature. First how apart are u with your bf? Are u sure both of u are thru with each other? if yes then go ahead and see what might be in stock for you in the sexual magnet of urs. You never know, amazing things could happen in the sampling.
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