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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone. I'm a 16-year-old bisexual female, turning 17 in November.Anyway, I've become very attracted to a 28-year-old female friend of mine. She's actually one of my ex-teachers, but we get along great and have loads in common. I geniunely think there might be something between us.Would it be wrong of us to have a relationship because of the age gap and the fact that she was one of my teachers? Or should we just go for it? She makes me so happy.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Wait until you are 18 (or whatever the legal age in your home country is), and that she has no chance of ever being your teacher again.
Once that is out of the way...go ahead.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): don't listen to them! Go for it darling! Life is short.... But before u go for it.. can you tell us in a bit more detail to how you came to the conclusion that the feeling are infact mutual.. Im exactly in the same position as you.. and to be truthful, I would love it if my teacher felt the feeling i have towards her... i cant stop thinking abt her and its doing my head in... shes not ur teacher any more.. so its not disgusting or perverse... Neither of you can help your feelings. Thing about me is I can empathise with you... Keep posting back, i wanna no how it turns out =]
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reader, love-him +, writes (29 August 2007):
 hey chick, does she have the same feelings for you? it would be kinda wrong cos of the age, but u are of consent etc.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (29 August 2007):
 it kinda would honey your seventeen she may make you happy but both of you will want different things and have different experiances and times ahead of you becuase of the age difference she may make you happy but then i imagine you will find someone else who will make you just as happy if not happier you may feel that you would be able to cope with a relationship with this woman but she will be wanting commitment possibly marriage if she was still your teacher it would be illegal in addition to that babe i think it is rather perverse if she accepts your offer because she is almost thirty and if it was a thirty year old man he would be looked upon as a phedophile my friend like you is attracted to someone who is thirty and she is 17 like you but instead of pursuing him she flirts with him occasionally and enjoys the conversation they share which is what i advise you to continue to do enjoy her company but donot pursue her you are so young there are many opportunities and chances out their for you you know what they say at our age to it is healty to be attracted towards a person older than us particulary women because they are more mature and have more experiance too but it is more admiration for them than love/fancy x love x
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