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*hadiDori
writes:ok, i slept with a guy i really should not have, never thought anything of him before, but now i think i like him. nothing can come of it, but i dont know if i should talk to him about our encounter. He is alot older than me, and can be quite intimidating. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Hi, i recently started sleeping with a guy 17 years older than myself and things have been great between us. it all depends on the type of guy he is as to whether you should pursue him, if he's intimidating you make sure you don't back down to him, make it known that you don't just go round sleeping with anyone and that you would like to know where you stand! Be careful because (as i know only too well!) if a relationship begins, either of you could get clod feet at any time as you're bound to think about the age gap at some point. If you really like this guy go for it but don't read too much into it it could all end in tears if you're not careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Meet him and tell him that you dont like his being intimidating. If you enjoyed sex and he was an expert and got potency to make you happy and let you come, then ask him to have sex with you and have sex with him as much as possible if it is not against your social norms, religion etc. Woodcock.
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Do you like him because of the sex and the close intimate time you shared? You say you shouldnt have slept with him then that tells me you should not evenbe liking him. You gave him sex now without any relationship. i dont think he'll be bothered with you or will just use you for sex because you didnt set up any other requirements like a wedding ring or life together... Dont give yourself over for free to ANYONE who is not worthy of you. Hard lesson but something to live by.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 If he's so imtimidating then why did you sleep with him?
The fact that he's a lot older isn't really an issue as you are of a legal age and the decision to sleep with him was your own.
From your words I guess you feel you made a mistake so I wouldn't suggest talking with the guy but just letting it go and moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): If he's that much older and intimidating why did you sleep with him in the first place?
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