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30-35,
* might be a girl but i can help
writes: Okay I need help, I don't now if I should start talking to him again?You know when you get that feeling that pokes you tell you do it well this is that feeling. I guess I should start from the beginning - my mum has a best friend who has a step son (name is Jay) who is at the time 21, my mum was taking me and her home from work when she had to drop some bread off to her friend. I stayed in the car, when my mum told Jay that I was outside in car he came wondering out and you know when you get that feeling that you are going to kiss this person by the end of the night, well I got that feeling. Jay and mum's best friend asked me to stay for a drink and I did, we only live a road up from them. It was nice I spoke to Jay's step brother who I once went out with. I never met Jay till now but when Jay went to get two cups for us his step mum told me he has had a thing for me for ages. It was funny every morning he would wave at me when I was waiting for a bus and I never knew it was him till that night. We talked till one in the monring, out at night and we kissed a couple of times, he told me about his ex girlfriend and wasn't over her. I understood as I sort of liked a guy at work which I told him but now I'm kind of wishing I didn't. The next night I went round his house and in his room where we watched a flim and we were kissing and for some strange reason came out with this sort of makes as a couple than and he said no I wasn't surpised as he wasn't over his girlfriend. He took me home and kissed me goodbye. We texted each other a couple of times as I had an exam the next day and I caught a cold from him but I text him asking if he would like to go bowling, he never answered. Ever since then I haven't bothered to talk to him but I want to talk to but I keep coming up with excusses and plus I deleted his number by accident. I just don't know if i should talk to him again whether he thinks I'm a silly little girl or something. It's been 2 months since last time spoke or seen each other. HELP
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (30 August 2007):
Hunni if it is bothering you that much why dont you go over to his house and talk to him about it, and tell him how much it is bothering you that you 2 have not spoken. if its been 2 months since you havent talked to him and you are still thinking about him then you should go ovver there and get whatever is on your chest off, that way once you do that you will feel better. GOOD LUCK AND GO TALK TO HIM!!!
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