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Partner of 11 years dumped me cause i'm fat and i've taken him back but i cant forget what he said. what should i do?

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Question - (29 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

ok help my ex broke up with me said he dont love me. and im to fat. he moved out. we were together 11 yrs have 2 kids.but he only moved out for couple of wks then came back as he broke up with his new gf.but now his here sleeping in my bed and i cant seem to stop loving him i just keep remembering how it was with us 11 yrs ago im stuck plz help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007):

he dosn't deserve your love! get him out of your house!

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A female reader, LIERIN United States +, writes (29 August 2007):

LIERIN agony auntDon't make yourself so SMALL!

You are your own person. If he had the guts and heart to tell you,what he told you and than leave you for some other one, than he is a JERK and he doesn't deserve you or your percious time! You should get him out of the house and tell him,this is not right..and that he should think about what have he done and come back,when he is sure that he want's to be with you for who you really are. And make sure he will not do the same thing to you over gain, othervice, he is not worth your time!

You have your children to live for.

Trust me,you don't want to share bed with someone that is just using you!

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A female reader, Katie-ann United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2007):

Katie-ann agony auntHiya,

And doesn’t he just know it! He knows how much you love him and that why he thinks its ok to leave you and when it doesn’t work out with this new gf he knows that you will take him back. Your not wrong to love him, he's the father of your children and you have been together a long time, but its not fair for him to treat you like this. You need to stand up for yourself and say that this is not on! Maybe he went off the rails for a bit and know wants to come back or maybe not, either way you need to talk to him and tell him how your feeling. Stand up for yourself hun, no1 deserves to be treated like that! Hope this helps, take care.

Xx

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