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*ballchick
writes:Well...most of you know my story from past posts...the guy i love and i go to different colleges and after a great summer where we saw each other almost every day we are now both back at school and not seeing each other exclusively. Everyone on this site thought that was a good idea but i am sad... Last night he drunk, dialed my friend knowing that i was with her...he has every right to do what he wants but he said he loves me and i believe he does....i am trying to not over react ...but it is breaking my heart...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): I think that is weird. Ask your friend why he is calling her. She is your friend. She'll tell you what's up.
Um, furthermore, it sounds like you are trying to be a bit too nice and open about this whole break up and being "understanding" bit about him calling your friend.
If I was dating someone, even if just for the summer, I have already claimed that person. Even if we are no longer together I think it is understood that he is off limits to my friends, especially so soon after. So in that sense, he actually DOES NOT have every right to do what he wants.
And guys don't usually play games. So with that in mind, unless he was calling to ask about you, he might just like your friend too.
And even if he was playing games and doing this to irk you, that's mean! A guy who loves you wouldn't do that.
Either way, he just showed his true colors which suck.
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reader, bballchick +, writes (30 August 2007):
bballchick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell that was not the answer i had hoped for...lol
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 I think you need to consider that your ex is trying to get your friend into bed, which is why he calls her.
-Frank B Kermit
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