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writes:i use to live in miami and i decided to go to school in gainesville, i had a long distant relationship with a guy from gainesville i thought when i moved up here things would get better they have just gotten more intense and fights and we cant stand eachother i wish i could be with him but one day he looks like he wants to be with me and one day he cant stand me what should i do i cant take it i want to go back home because this is killing me what should i do?? its been constant and i have no one else but him and my guy bestfriend lives with him so its unconfortable for me to go over their because he trys kissing me but then during the day he dosent want to be with me i dont know what should i do? any advice on how to get him back or get over him?
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reader, penta +, writes (29 August 2007):
 Oh hon, the reason that "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is because they're not around to piss you off. Sometimes you put a distant guy on a pedastal because every time you see them it's a holiday, you're on your best behavior, and then you go back to your real life when you part. But when you get into the same location, you find that he's not someone you can stand day to day (this happened to me -- 9 year relationship, 6 in different time zones).
It sounds like this guy was more comfortable seeing you from a distance, and can't handle the closeness. Write him off. If you want to go back home, I recommend it. When I did I was much better off. I finally met the right man for me after I got over this guy. You will too.
Good luck.
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