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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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I felt like a complete twat!!!
Q. I met this guy through a friend of mine, ive only sopken 2 him on facebook and from what we have spoken about he seems a really nice guy, the reason why my friend said add him was because he was single, Anyway since then we chat on fb every day ...
A. 9 March 2010: You weren't wrong to ask. You didn't know whether he had someone. You can still talk to him, if both of you are mature enough. Don't worry and be happy.... (read in full...)
I hate my dark, dark skin
Q. I am Cuban and I am dark skin and I like to think that Im exotic with my foreign tongue and look. But all my life I have had people be mean and criticize me for who I am. The media in America portrays majority of the people being beautiful as white ...
A. 3 March 2010: Being you and not caring what people think. Many if not most of us Latin Americans (yo soy mexicano, chico) are not white, and we accept ourselves as we are. Do the same. There's no other way to put it, sorry.... (read in full...)
She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying
Q. on Dec 02, 2009 I ejaculated on a females stomach. I went into the bathroom to get a towel and left the room for a few minutes. I received a call today 03/02/10 from this girl stating she is pregnant and is due on july 9,2010. my question is--is it ...
A. 3 March 2010: I can conceive the idea that a woman could get pregnant by taking the semen from her belly and inserting those fingers into her vagina. What I can't conceive is why a woman would do that, and, on top of it, claim the baby is by you.
I believe ... (read in full...)
How often do men like to have sex in one night???
Q. How often do men like to have sex in one night? Would most guys be pleased if a girl liked to have sex a few times? Me and my new bf had sex 5 times our first night together - he said i was incredible. i thought it was great too but i heard that ...
A. 2 March 2010: Actually, most guys would LOVE IT if their partners of some time wanted to have sex " a few times a night".
Who's your source on -and I quote - "some men find girls that like sex too much a turn off"? THAT'S SUCH A BAD, UNRELIABLE SOURCE.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye?
Q. Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye? If the man is so satisfied at home...why would he look at other women? Does it boost his ego or is it just a male testosterone...being a hot blooded male that he can't...
A. 24 February 2010: Yes, it's possible for a man to love his wife and have a wandering eye. In fact, I think that's the rule. The fact that you're married to someone doesn't mean you've gone blind and insensitive to the opposite sex (or your own sex, if that's your ... (read in full...)
Dating sites... what a load of con men!!!
Q. Well I would just like to tell any person that gets involved with a bloke on a dating site to be very careful. I met one I actually thought was a decent one never met him just talked. I actually thought something was up so offered to leave him alone ...
A. 15 February 2010: I agree with Strontiumdog.... (read in full...)
Does he like me more than he's admitting?
Q. Yesterday was my birthday and my crush was blushing a lot more. I walked by him and his back was turned so I decided that I would give him a hug. I tackled him for an unexpected back hug and almost pushed him into someone. He was like what are you ...
A. 15 February 2010: It's hard to tell with this information. If you keep us posted, we might help you.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have blood in your pre cum?
Q. hi, a medical issue that i would like to share with you all and need some advice. ok as my girlfriend needs me to take a blood test, she came with me and i gave a blood sample for test for normal blood sugar, urine sugar, jaundice and also she insi...
A. 12 February 2010: You should see a doctor about that blood. The "precum" is normal; blood is not.... (read in full...)
Why do men like fake boobs so much?
Q. Why do men like fake boobs so much? In my country, guys seem to prefer fake boobs. These are some famous models in my country, which all men drool over (no nudity, just bikini clad, but probably NSFW): http://i48.tin...
A. 10 February 2010: You're asking the wrong question, my dear Chilean. Men don't like fake boobs; men like boobs, period, and big ones do get lots of attention. If the boob in question is big, the second question is "are they fake?". If they are fake, they are not ... (read in full...)
My husband got laid off and has turned into a couch potato!
Q. Ok please help me understand. My husband has been laid off for 3 or 4 month now and he has be come a couch potato. He is so lazy even our daughter sees it. She will say daddy you are a lazy butt. He sleeps till 11:00 or 12:00 every day and then ...
A. 14 January 2010: He is depressed and hiding it, and he might also be trying to "take a mental break". However, to put it in polite terms, he needs to move his ass, depression or not. I'm blunt and rude, so I would say something like "Hubby, I understand you didn't ... (read in full...)
I signed up for a dating website and now my wife doesn't trust me
Q. my wife no longer trust me we have been fighting for about 4 years because our daughter got pregnant at 16 by a loser and we both started pulling away i had been looking at a lot of porn and was feeling lonely i went to a dating web sight and signed ...
A. 13 January 2010: I can see your point about divorcing, but, since I'm not physically there, I can't tell you whether you should divorce or not. You have to decide that, poster and wife.... (read in full...)
Positions for the smaller man
Q. i love my boyfriend no end but the sex compared to my ex boyfriend is nowhere near as good.boyfriend has a smallish penis, 4 inches erect.it only just gets inside me and i can barely move on it as it will fall out. any advice on good sex positions ...
A. 13 January 2010: I think that you have not correctly defined the problem. You think that the problem is that his penis just isn't large enough for you to make love. Well, his penis might be small, but you are making love together, so both of you need to use what ... (read in full...)
I signed up for a dating website and now my wife doesn't trust me
Q. my wife no longer trust me we have been fighting for about 4 years because our daughter got pregnant at 16 by a loser and we both started pulling away i had been looking at a lot of porn and was feeling lonely i went to a dating web sight and signed ...
A. 13 January 2010: For starters, you don't have a time machine. So don't wish for one, and do what you can actually do. Be realistic.
Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I suspect that you and your wife argued about the pregnancy but there were other deeper problems... (read in full...)
She says her head is in the wrong place and doesn't want to be with anyone
Q. I love this girl, we are very close an she says she likes me alot, more than friends, when were together we hug an kiss, and we spend the best times together, i know its ment to be, but her head is all over the place at the moment and she doesnt ...
A. 13 January 2010: All you can do is accept it. This can be her way to say "I don't want a relationship with you, ever" or her way to say exactly what she said, "My head is not right at the moment". Whatever she is saying, it's not "yeah, let's have something", and ... (read in full...)
Do women enjoy their clitoris being "tapped" on
Q. Do women enjoy men "tapping" or hitting their penis against the vagina, especially near the clitoris area. A couple of my mates said their girlfriends enjoyed doing so because it stimulates the clitoris. I would simply like to know your p...
A. 13 January 2010: Why don't you just ask her?
q1605, what if all I have is a MasterCard with a very tight credit limit?... (read in full...)
"If you love something set it free"?
Q. You know they say 'if you love someone set them free, if they come back they're yours, if they dont, they never were' or something to a similar effect... what if you let someone go and they come back, and then they leave again? :-( X x ...
A. 13 January 2010: If they leave again, then they initially wanted back but they don't anymore. Move on.
q1605, I read somewhere that a pile of stones can be a very good way to hide this kind of excavations :-).... (read in full...)
Should I Choose Between My Boyfriend And Family?
Q. I am almost 20 years old, and female. When I was 16, I began dating a boy who was 18 and lived in California. I'm from Texas. We spent a lot of time with each other despite the fact we lived so far away from each other. I flew to see him and he flew ...
A. 13 January 2010: Granded, you two lived in different states and so one of you had to if you were to be together. It was really, really wrong to force you to go to California. He had to be as willing to move as you, and the decision should have been something you ... (read in full...)
I'm unsure what she wants from me?
Q. Hi. I'm feeling a little down lately. I've recently graduated from university with a degree in I.T. I want to make it perfectly clear that although i don't socialise often with friends, visit clubs and pubs or drink, i'm not a nerd! I'm struggl...
A. 7 January 2010: Well, at least you can move on now. Sorry for the bad advice, which in this case is good, as it resulted in your knowing where you stood with her.... (read in full...)
Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?
Q. I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...
A. 4 January 2010: If he says he can't get over that, don't push it, because he won't. Listen to him. I'm sorry, but you need someone with a more open mind. This man you can forget about.
By the way, he slept with many people, too. Not as many, but he's not a vi... (read in full...)
Another woman involved! HELP ME PLEASE!
Q. So.....I started dating this guy. He had just gotten out of jail. We were just friends at first. Spent Christmas....New years together. Didn't want him to be alone. We started dating right after christmas. He has moved all his stuff into my ...
A. 4 January 2010: Yes, dear, he's using you. When he came out of jail, he had nowhere to go and there you were, ready to give him support. He took it. Now that he's found other things to think about, he wants out. Don't let him use you anymore.... (read in full...)
I'm worried my masturbating is unhealthy!
Q. Hey, i am 14 years old, and i masturbating quite a lot, sometimes i can do it up to 4 times a day! is this to much? and also, I'm really freaked out because when i am masturbating, i find doing it over some really hot girl doesn't cut it for me, for ...
A. 4 January 2010: The masturbation is a stage you will go through, and I see no problem with it. Now, thinking about your sister when you do it IS a problem. FOCUS ON SOMEONE ELSE. You can do it.... (read in full...)
He has been seen with other women and taking drugs during our separation, and now he wants to be back in his children's lives!
Q. Hi All Please give me advice on this. Im so angry, hurt and frustrated at the same time. This festive season my husband and I had a separation, and he didnt even come to check up on his children. People saw him at this mall with a oth...
A. 4 January 2010: Being the son of a divorced couple myself, I fully agree with the anonymous poster above.... (read in full...)
As a male, does losing your virginity hurt?
Q. hi i'm 19 and havent had sex yet. and dont have a lot of expirience or know how about it either. i know losing your virginity can hurt if your a girl but what i want to know is is it the same for a male? thanks hope you can answer me...
A. 4 January 2010: It doesn't hurt at all.... (read in full...)
What will I do if she becomes pregnant?
Q. hi. my girlfriend and i had unprotected sex then she took a morning after pill. we had sex two more times and she took another dose. am afraid of her becoming pregnant. we are both in college. we are waiting. what will i do if she becomes pregnant? ...
A. 3 January 2010: Well, if the woman you love becomes pregnant you will become a very loving daddy.... (read in full...)
She dumped me to be with an old man!
Q. My wife dumped me, she is with an old man (63 years old), she is 41 years old, will the relationship work out? She is acting like 15 years old but I'm more worried about my baby who is 8 years old, I'm really not sure what to do, I'm heart broken. ...
A. 3 January 2010: We don't know why she left you or what she gets from the relationship with these older man. Age is obviously not a problem for her.
I think the only help we can give you is to suggest that you stay focused and try to move on. Sorry. It sounds l... (read in full...)
Will I ever be able to have a committed relationship the way I feel about sex?
Q. I am a masculine gay young man, but I fear that my sexuality is very *selfish*. I enjoy having anal sex with other men and receiving blow jobs, but I find being on the receiving end of anal or giving blow jobs utterly repugnant and a total turn off. ...
A. 3 January 2010: I'm a straight man and wouldn't know how to help you, but I assume you could eventually find a partner who would like to play the submissive role. Hiding what you want will certainly not help you.... (read in full...)
My husband leaves all family responsibility on me, how can I be happy again?
Q. i am married now for 2years i was married with two kids i work and he works also, my salary is smaller than his but i pay more bills than he pays and he spends his money in pubs with friends, i feel very bad, i am responsible for all, for my kids...
A. 29 December 2009: I'm with Country Woman.... (read in full...)
In love with my sister-in-law and afraid of losing her...
Q. i was alone with my wife's sister march of 2008. we were alone at a place where she used to live. i was and still am really in love with her, and i am pretty sure she feels the same about me. we were alone in her kitchen i froze. i could have stood ...
A. 29 December 2009: I will leave morals aside. From a strictly practical viewpoint, I seriously doubt you can ever have a relationship your sister-in-law. It means you have to leave your wife to be with her, and it also implies your sister-in-law agreeing to being ... (read in full...)
He's a good man but I think about leaving my husband every day
Q. I think about leaving my husband everyday. I hate myself for this. He is just does not make me feel good. Even so he is a good man. Sadly he is also impotent for no known reasons... Not medical. And this is not my primary reason I want to make this ...
A. 29 December 2009: One more thing: do you think his being able to sustain an erection would help the marriage?... (read in full...)
He's a good man but I think about leaving my husband every day
Q. I think about leaving my husband everyday. I hate myself for this. He is just does not make me feel good. Even so he is a good man. Sadly he is also impotent for no known reasons... Not medical. And this is not my primary reason I want to make this ...
A. 29 December 2009: I agree with the anonymous male poster above. I also think this is not about guilt. If you don't see a way to save the marriage, perhaps it's a bad thing to keep it and then make him feel like he's loved when he's not.
You don't want to break hi... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone says this?
Q. ..what doess it mean if someone says that they dnt ever want to lose you,and they will never hurt you,and when they say" i love you with all my heart"and when they say"we have a special bond"..and when they say"they will never leave you"...
A. 29 December 2009: If you're not in a relationship with this person, this means the person is in love with you and would like you to take the hint, as he or she can't tell you directly.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if this is how it is supposed to be?
Q. I'm just writing to ask for a bit of help on what i should do. The thing is, i have been in a relation ship for 9 months now, but the thing is, it is now starting to make me feel depresed being in this relation ship and i dont no what to do, all ...
A. 27 December 2009: Oh, and, dear, take care of yourself. If you don't stand your ground, no one will do it for you.
All the best,
Me.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if this is how it is supposed to be?
Q. I'm just writing to ask for a bit of help on what i should do. The thing is, i have been in a relation ship for 9 months now, but the thing is, it is now starting to make me feel depresed being in this relation ship and i dont no what to do, all ...
A. 27 December 2009: I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this guy. He doesn't respect you at all. Dump him now. It might hurt now, but a few months from now you won't understand how you wanted to have a relationship with this guy.
The good thing ab... (read in full...)
I'm unsure what she wants from me?
Q. Hi. I'm feeling a little down lately. I've recently graduated from university with a degree in I.T. I want to make it perfectly clear that although i don't socialise often with friends, visit clubs and pubs or drink, i'm not a nerd! I'm struggl...
A. 27 December 2009: I'm terribly, dramatically bad at taking hints, but I think this time this woman is being pretty clear. She wants something serious with you. As in "loving you and wanting you". Or, she needs a father for her child. You choose.... (read in full...)
She abandoned me for Christmas... who does this?
Q. In an effort to express and vent, release my story and pain out there and possibly with hope, get a bit of healing in return, I am posting this painful thread here. Her and I were real, serious. Just a few weeks ago, we spoke of marriage, life t...
A. 27 December 2009: Sad, but I agree with q1605. Maybe she's married, or has another guy, or whatever. Sorry to be this direct, but, don't put any hopes on her. She isn't coming back.... (read in full...)
Long distance and younger/older relationship...
Q. A while back, I met this guy online. Since then, we have been talking and we both believe that the relationship we have is real and it's begun to get really hard to cope when we aren't talking. We have a lot in common and what should be considered a ...
A. 27 December 2009: I have a bad feeling about this Christian guy.
I'm not surprised that he likes a sixteen year old. I don't like, however, that he's talking about marriage to a minor he hasn't met and isn't willing to meet. If he's willing to marry you and have... (read in full...)
Unmanly stance of my penis
Q. Hi Everybody! Could anyone help me with this problem? When my penis is erect, it doesn't lie down on my tummy; it stands upright, pointing at the ceiling. Then when I stand up, the penis , if it is very hard and if I'm very aroused, simply keeps ...
A. 27 December 2009: Now, if our poster Lapaya is 41 to 50 years old, he should know better than posting this question.... (read in full...)
Need advice on meeting someone, who likes me for ME.
Q. I just cant win. Men have told me to hold back when giving sex-but when one holds back then a man isn't interested in getting to know you! If I hold back they automatically think I am looking for a husband (I am divorced and dont want a husband) ...
A. 27 December 2009: Poster, I think you have answered your own question. I also recommend that you don't give in right away. The guy who is interested in you, marriage or not, will stick around.... (read in full...)
He asked me to masturbate in front of him but I feel so guilty doing it!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to masturbate in front of him, but I've never masturbated before. I started to rub myself but I had to stop as I was overcome with guilt. He wants me to try again but I'm worried that I will start to feel guilty again. He says ...
A. 11 December 2009: I'm with Double M.... (read in full...)
Should you live together before you get married?
Q. is it good for fiance and finacee to be living together before they get married....
A. 8 December 2009: This is a good question, one open to many answers because many people will look at it from different points of view. I will state the obvious in saying that I can only give you my personal opinion :-).
You don't really know a person until yo... (read in full...)
Do wonderful relationships just "happen" or do they take work
Q. Just curious on what your take is on this, because I've heard two different camps. A lot of people on this site say relationships take work and you need to work at it to keep it in good order; then there are other people who say that when you're in ...
A. 6 December 2009: Luck (or Satan the Devil) can bring you an absolutely wonderful person, and that person can fall for you, et cetera. But, if you don't work hard at keeping that person, the wonderful relationship will come to an end.
I suppose your friends ... (read in full...)
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