New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying

Tagged as: Pregnancy, Sex, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (3 March 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

on Dec 02, 2009 I ejaculated on a females stomach. I went into the bathroom to get a towel and left the room for a few minutes. I received a call today 03/02/10 from this girl stating she is pregnant and is due on july 9,2010. my question is--is it possible for a girl to take your cum and put on her fingers and get herself pregnant? what are the chances of that? this incident on dec 02 was aone time thing and she states she is pregnant by someone else but I am a little worried that maybe she is lying about the due date or something else, any help on this would be greatly appreciated

View related questions: ejaculate

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (3 March 2010):

If her due date is correct then she was already 2 months pregnant when you slept with her. So you are probably not the father.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010):

I'd say wait ....but your dates are way off buddy.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (3 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntWe have no means of knowing if she is telling the truth or not.

You will have to wait until the baby is born or you need to go and see her doctor to verify this fact.

Technically , it is possible to get pregnant if she inserts those sperms inside her vagina by herself using her fingers.

If she is pregnant by your sperms, her due date should be in September.However babies can be born prematurely by 7 months.

She told you that it was not yours and this means that she is not seeking any child maintenance from you .Maybe she is just too happy and let you into her secret.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010):

Get a paternity test done, and until the dna proves it's yours, it's not, and stick to that until the test it done.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (3 March 2010):

Carrot2000 agony auntIf the baby is due July 9,2010, according to the BabyMed conception calendar:

Your estimated conception date was between Sunday, October 11, 2009 and Saturday, October 17, 2009.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (3 March 2010):

Danielepew agony auntI can conceive the idea that a woman could get pregnant by taking the semen from her belly and inserting those fingers into her vagina. What I can't conceive is why a woman would do that, and, on top of it, claim the baby is by you.

I believe her.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010):

Yes, it is possible that the baby is yours. Why don't you go to the doctor and get yourself tested by DNA?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010):

While that is possible, I would control the worrying down to nothing, until paternity is established.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (3 March 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntHm...I don't really know what to say about this situation but like some, I've heard horror stories about women getting themselves pregant through sneaky means...You sound like a good guy-caring about whether or not there's a possibility you fathered a child. But you know, if you didn't use a condom, she could have still gotten pregnant from "pre-cum" so there's no telling. And what you described, well, it is a possibility. Talk to her again. She could be hiding the truth for fear of your reaction. Tell her that if it is your baby, you're willing to step up-if you really mean to. If doubt still nags you, respectfully ask her for a paternity test. Don't be accusing though, simply state that because you two had intercourse, you'd simply like to be sure. Hope this helps.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (3 March 2010):

Yes she cud have taken ur cum and inserted in herself. A simple paternity test will give u the answer u need. I wud keep this girl close by untill you receive a for sure answer from such a test

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony aunthey there,

well i went and tried to do a bit of research for you, the chances of this been your baby are tiny, once sperm leaves the body it needs to be the perfect temperature ( the temp of a vagina) to survive so while it was on her stomach it will have been dying any therefore even if she did insert it into herself it would not be able to make the journey required for fertilisation. i hope this helps =]

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Ich_liebe_dich Philippines +, writes (3 March 2010):

Ich_liebe_dich agony auntIm sorry but i dont get it much. you said it happen December 2, 2009 and now she is pregnant and the due date of this pregnancy is July 9, 2010. and you are thinking that this baby is yours? is my understanding correct or?? because i understand the woman carry the baby in their belly for 9 months not 7 months. 7 months only happen when the baby is premature. but that is not all the time. if the due date of this baby is july then its possible that she have sex with another man last year, month of OCTOBER"..So what makes you think she is lying? I think she is telling you the truth. because if its not you last October then it is another man. I think its clear situation that maybe she need you to help her in this case but she wanna be honest to you that you are not the father so in the end you are not going to blame her for something or at least two of you are not going into deep trouble. Think.... and i wish you goodluck..

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (3 March 2010):

janniepeg agony auntThe baby is probably not yours but someone else who impregnated her in October 09. It's possible she fingered herself with your cum, but also possible that some cum went inside before you pulled out. If that's the case, the due date should be September. Babies come out earlier or later but due dates are always 9 months after conception.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0468637000000172!