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writes:hi i'm 19 and havent had sex yet. and dont have a lot of expirience or know how about it either. i know losing your virginity can hurt if your a girl but what i want to know is is it the same for a male?thanks hope you can answer me Reply to this Question
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 bookoflove - I have no idea where you got that info from, but whoever told you that has no idea and would best not be consulted for sex info in future as you have been severly misinformed.
Being able to retract a foreskin, or having it removed at birth (circumcision) does not make a guy no longer a virgin. Likewise a girl braking her hymen does not make her not a virgin. Having penatrive sex with another person for the first time makes someone not a virgin.
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reader, thebookoflove  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Ok if you have steched your forskin back all the way and your used to it then your not a virgin because just like women men can lose their virginity on their own too but be don't pop a cherry or anything like that we just strech our forskin some ppl are lucky cz when they were born the doctors did something idk what its called but they do something so your skin is pretty much already streched idk what it is but I know they do something lol they ask your parents if they would like that but some Parents say no :( lol so that's pretty much it :) your welcome buddy
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reader, daletom +, writes (4 January 2010):
Like "The Dude" said, it DOES hurt if you're not aligned and positioned in the right place. My first time was with a similarly virginal partner who couldn't tell that I wasn't quite right, and yeah, it was a little painful (and rather humiliating) for a moment. In the long run, that hasn't prevented us from continuing to have sex (with each other) for over 35 years.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 It doesn't hurt at all.
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