A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Ok so I use to talk to this guy very heavy, and we were very close into making us official. But along the way he tells me that he just got into a relationship with someone else. So I took it upon myself to just go off on him, and make him feel bad. Because I really liked him and thought he's going to be mine, but all of a sudden he's with someone else. Like really, seriously. So he eventually broke up with her the next day for me. Thank God. But the problem is, that in public for example when we are at church he never talks to me, I have to speak first or their wont be a conversation, like a whole bunch of mess. But I have realized how funny it is when could text me all night, but barley speak to me in public. Like is this guy really for me. What I did to make him want me more I just cut him off. Like out of my life. I'm really starting to miss him a lot now. And it's making feel like I was the one in the wrong, like I feel like he was maybe just too shy, and I didn't give him a chance to get use to me. But then again I don't want to get hurt, or make excuses just to benefit him. Is he worth giving another chance, or just leave him along. If he is worth it how can I approach him when he really doesn't talk to me at all. How can I win him back, and keep him.
View related questions:
broke up, shy, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 May 2015):
 So he would talk to you at night, but totally cold shoulder you in public ?.. Easy. Elementary Watson. He never really broke up with the other girl and he was afraid that she might get wind he'd got a parallel gf.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2015): I don't think he was too shy. I think he was hiding the fact that he was texting you and he didn't really breakup with the other girl. Even if he did, he doesn't want anybody to know it was for you. So he doesn't talk to you in public.
You were right to cut him off altogether. If a guy likes you and wants you to be his girlfriend; he will talk to you in public, and would be proud for others to know that you chose each other. He can't have two girls at once.
The other girl may still be in the picture somehow; and maybe he's not being totally honest with either of you.
Cutting him off was hard for you, I know. It was the right thing to do, if a boy doesn't show you the proper respect; and hurts your feelings in any way. You don't want to be kept a secret.
...............................
|
