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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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What support and advice can I give to my friend who has been trying to break up with her married lover? He does not want to let her go.
Q. so my best friend is involved with this married man. she is very naive and had just spent the last 3 years healing from a very bad emotional abusive relationship. she joined the military as an officer and at her first duty station, she was paired w...
A. 12 February 2018: I think yoir friend should keep it simple , and " surgical". She should not indulge in overanalyzing and doing the post-mortem of the relationship, and combing through all the hows and whys. Why ask why ?..What is the point ?
The bottom line is t... (read in full...)
Why? He hates when I become sexy and flirty with him.
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A. 22 March 2016: No, I do not think he wanted you to give up drinking completely. I think he only wanted you to stop acting up , making a fool of yourself and embarassing him.
Naturally,though, if you are the kind of person who, unluckily, can't handle alco... (read in full...)
Good connection but he stopped initiating. Did he suddenly lose interest?
Q. I posted last week but would appreciate some further advice. I don't have much dating experience especially post-school and I think I'm having a hard time. I've been on 6-7 days with a wonderful guy and we have an amazing connection. I thought we ...
A. 18 March 2016: Ah yes, disappearing acts are sort of common in online dating , plenty of people with a short attention span around :). Maybe, like I said before, it's easy even for a person with the best intentions to behave like the child at ToysRUs and feel ... (read in full...)
What support and advice can I give to my friend who has been trying to break up with her married lover? He does not want to let her go.
Q. so my best friend is involved with this married man. she is very naive and had just spent the last 3 years healing from a very bad emotional abusive relationship. she joined the military as an officer and at her first duty station, she was paired w...
A. 18 March 2016: But that's because this man's wife is a wuss! She found out.. and there were no consequences. She may have objected , but, at the end of the day, she obviously is not leaving, he is not leaving, they agreed the show must go on, and he knows he ... (read in full...)
Good connection but he stopped initiating. Did he suddenly lose interest?
Q. I posted last week but would appreciate some further advice. I don't have much dating experience especially post-school and I think I'm having a hard time. I've been on 6-7 days with a wonderful guy and we have an amazing connection. I thought we ...
A. 17 March 2016: Ah the joys of Internet dating ! :)
If he is updating his profile, I guess he is still looking around ( which, technically, he is entitled to do )
It seems it is a problem of expectations. Since the dates went well, you had assumed you had seal... (read in full...)
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Q. My bf is so negative and downright weird. Like I know I have my own issuse that I'm dealing with a pyschologist, bt his shit is next level. Everytime he gets mad, he'll either insult me, break up with me or tell me he'll take the wii from me bec he ...
A. 17 March 2016: Maybe you COULD live like this for the rest of your life, but why SHOULD you ? It would be stupid bordering with insane.
So what if he is nice and loving " some times " ? Not good enough. You need a partner who is consistently nice and lovi... (read in full...)
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A. 17 March 2016: It must be a pretty relaxed place where he works, if his bosses do not mind that he hugs the customers :)...
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Good connection but he stopped initiating. Did he suddenly lose interest?
Q. I posted last week but would appreciate some further advice. I don't have much dating experience especially post-school and I think I'm having a hard time. I've been on 6-7 days with a wonderful guy and we have an amazing connection. I thought we ...
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A. 16 March 2016: Why would you have to cause a scene ?!
At somebody's else wedding who has been so corteous to invite you sharing the most memorable day of their lives, and to wine and dine you and entertain you ? ...
How can you even conceive the idea ?
Unle... (read in full...)
What support and advice can I give to my friend who has been trying to break up with her married lover? He does not want to let her go.
Q. so my best friend is involved with this married man. she is very naive and had just spent the last 3 years healing from a very bad emotional abusive relationship. she joined the military as an officer and at her first duty station, she was paired w...
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He poked me in the side , is he into me??
Q. Was travelling home in the bus. I saw a guy who has started being friendly with me. I am usually quiet and reserved but I always greet people in a friendly way. Today , as I was getting off at my stop, he poked me in the side of my belly and smiled. ...
A. 16 March 2016: It means that, while his chronological age may be the same as yours, his mental age has stayed at 2nd or 3rd grade level when , to signal attraction, you poke the girl, or pinch her, or pull her braids.
You basically do not even know each... (read in full...)
My friend slept with my FWB gal. Do I have the right to be upset?
Q. So I would like some opinions on this topic. This is an area I've never treaded into before and would like some perspectives. I've had a friends with benefits relationship for the past 5 months. We have a bit of a different style relationship than ...
A. 16 March 2016: Yes and not.
I mean, I think your reaction is pretty natural and normal , the instinct of possess is quite radicated in most people. I find myself very annoyed when I go for my morning coffee break and I found that MY usual table is occu... (read in full...)
Why? He hates when I become sexy and flirty with him.
Q. I'm normally like this but he seems to have a go at me when I've been drinking. He hates it. Like even if it's behind closed doors and only to him, he would hate when I dance for him sexily and strip so to speak. I don't drink much and never g...
A. 15 March 2016: Well, OP, I must say that your ex might also have been an uptight prig with a " my way or the highway " attitude, but you aren't a model of mental flexibility yourself and not too great at seeing things from another perspective than yours....
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Am I right to feel offended my friend has been ignoring me?
Q. I am so angry and very hurt with my so called "best friend". We have been friends 30+ years, since grade school. She is an intensely private person who hates phone calls, she NEVER calls, when she can be bothered to get back to me she texts. S...
A. 14 March 2016: I agree that this friendship is not offering you much right now, and if for whatever reason your friend or ex friend is not doing even a minimal share of cultivating your relationship, it's time to let it go, and stop flogging a dead horse.
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Why? He hates when I become sexy and flirty with him.
Q. I'm normally like this but he seems to have a go at me when I've been drinking. He hates it. Like even if it's behind closed doors and only to him, he would hate when I dance for him sexily and strip so to speak. I don't drink much and never g...
A. 14 March 2016: If this is the ex.... let it go. Move on. Asking yourself all the time if he was right or wrong doing X or Y won't bring him back , and won't make him like you more than he does now.
If you are together again... I am afraid it won't last long... (read in full...)
Are we actually together or just exclusive FWB?
Q. A few months ago I started a friends with benefits relationship with someone at uni, it went on for four months and we saw each other regularly. Eventually I started developing feelings and i thought it was only fair to tell him. He actually ...
A. 14 March 2016: I am with Danielepew.
It sounds to me like he is responding to your request of two weeks ago, that he should not sleep with other women. He did not commit to that , but then he realized that what's good for the gander is good for the goose too,... (read in full...)
He's not hit me. But could the other things he does be called abuse? what should I do?
Q. To be blunt and simple, when my year long boyfriend and i argue, he pushes me around. He'll grab me and squeeze my face, throw me down, he'll push me in front of almost anyone.. All throughout the year, he's never hit me though. He will punch...
A. 14 March 2016: Of course it's abuse ! He is pulling your hair, he's biting you, he is shoving you around... just because you do not hear a " slap " sound, or the crunch of broken bones, it does not mean though that you do not feel physical pain because of his ... (read in full...)
Why do people take advantage of "soft" people?
Q. I find people take the mick out of me for "soft" I have always been like this, people have said I need to toughen up but I like who I am so why do people need to take advantage? I hate the fact that basically I'm going to have to turn into a twat to ...
A. 12 March 2016: Why would you have to turn into a twat to get respect ?!
People respect those who respect themselves and show it- which, you are not doing when you let them take asvantage of you or walk all over you.
If this has been going on since a while, o... (read in full...)
Is this friends with benefits or what?
Q. Hey everyone, im going to try and make this as short as possible. I’m 22 and I recently got out of the most horrible relationship I have ever been in 7 months ago. I started talking to this guy in September we have hung out a few times since th...
A. 12 March 2016: No, when you only talk to make an appointment for sex it's a fuck buddy. Or a booty call.
Friends with benefits are supposed to be FRIENDS, not enemies with benefits or strangers with benefits.
There's nothing strange if someone who shares s... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong because I don't want my jobless boyfriend moving in with me and depending on me to get him a job?
Q. My LDR BF said he wants to move in with me and asked me to find him a job at the company where I work. He has been working as a part time delivery boy for a local restaurant for about a year after I've known him. Then he hurt his toe and said he ...
A. 11 March 2016: Are you in the wrong ?... Honestly ?...
Yes , you are in the wrong ; you are in the wrong in HAVING a 30 y.o. lazybones, freeriding boyfriend whose most impressive accomplishment so far, and highest aspiration if any , is a part time deli... (read in full...)
It's over. Is going no contact the best way forward?
Q. My boyfriend yelled at me. In his words, not yell but was speaking curtly. He used expletives and went on about how he wants nothing to do with me. I am a little unnerved and shocked. Right now, I don't want to have any contact with him. I am tr...
A. 10 March 2016: Just out of curiosity :
he said that he does not want anything to do with you ever. You say that you do not want to contact him and you do not want him in your future.
At this point, what other possible way forward there could be rather t... (read in full...)
Was it my fault or my ex boyfriends?
Q. Am I in the wrong here or is my ex boyfriend? I invited him to my sisters bbq at her house. When we arrived my sister asked me what I was drinking and if I wanted some wine so she poured me a glass. My boyfriend said he didn't want a drink, I ...
A. 9 March 2016: It seems , also from your previous questions on the same subject, that you are really keen to find somebody to blame, either your ex or even yourself, but there HAS to be a culprit, someone who did it all wrong.
I do not think it may be so clea... (read in full...)
How do I normalize? What do I ask him to stop wondering? Help me with understanding, this long term crush and that moment you can’t stop thinking about!
Q. So I think I will try and start at the beginning, I found after about three years of friendship that I had developed a crush on a friend. We became friends at a 6week summer camp we worked at each summer since we met. We started passing letters last...
A. 9 March 2016: Look, make it simple . Assume it's a NO. Which most probably is , IMO- so, if I am wrong... when he'll make up his mind and ask you out, you will have a wonderful , heartwarming surprise. But in the meantime, and in lack of any encoragements from ... (read in full...)
Questioning my sexuality ( female ) help!!!
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A. 8 March 2016: And what about your boyfriend ?
Whether you cheat on him with a woman or with a man, it's always cheating. Does he deserve to be cheated on just because you want to indulge a curiosity ?...
The time to experiment with your sexuality is when you... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I'm in a relationship! What should I do?
Q. I am not sure as to how to describe my current circumstance. I do not feel as if i am in a relationship. I have 3 children, 2 have left home. My youngest is 13. His dad and I have know each other for over 30 years. He has been a great dad to a...
A. 7 March 2016: I am not sure I got this right, but if you and this guy have been hanging out for the last 30 years, and you also had a kid together at one point... but he never wanted to talk about the future,.... well, what makes you think that he will even ... (read in full...)
I'm speechless after my husband's reaction to my wearing my mother's ring!
Q. Hello! My mom, who was my best friend and to whom I had the closest relationship you could possibly imagine, passed away 5 years ago. A few days ago my dad gave me her engagent ring telling me she has always wanted me to have it. So- I have been ...
A. 7 March 2016: No he does not.
I think he is more embarassed about not having bought you an engagement ring, that he ever let on, or that you realized.
Such a strong and preposterous reaction, IMO, could be only explained by his fear that friends and acquaint... (read in full...)
I just don't feel involved in this relationship anymore. Is this normal?
Q. I need some advice regarding my LDR. During the first 2 years of our relationship, I was very eager and excited to visit him and for him to visit me. We saw eachother every month. I looked forward to our phone calls every night. I loved to see him ...
A. 7 March 2016: I am not sure what exactly you are asking -
If all people lose interest in their relationship after two years ?
If all LDRs go belly up after a while ?
Well, no. Some do and some don't. But of course that does not make the people who do get f... (read in full...)
Is it possible to live happily ever after knowing that my husband occasionally sleeps with other women on side?
Q. Is it possible to live happily ever after knowing that husband sleeps with other women on side occasionally(paid sex with high end escort/companions)? He always use protection and is very hygienic. I've got him n myself tested few yrs ago when I i...
A. 7 March 2016: Maybe you can't. Maybe you should not ! ( accept your fate ).
Your husband got himself a very expensive hobby and he is financing it with money which is also yours.
I don't care if he makes twice as much than you, or if in fact he is the sole... (read in full...)
Would you ever be friends with an ex bf/gf who 'broke your heart' ?
Q. Would you ever be friends with an ex bf/gf who 'broke your heart' ? I was in a relationship for 3 years with a guy who I was really in love with and saw myself marrying one day. We talked about marriage and kids in the future, it was a pretty ser...
A. 6 March 2016: Heck no !
How would you proceed, then, with this "being friends " ?
Would you be introduced to his gf so that you could make friends with her too and hang out all three together some times ? Would she tell him " Darling, I am so sorry that I h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is hiding 1/2 naked photos of women in his locked app on his phone
Q. I've been with my partner for a year and a half. There were trust issues before the relationship started as he was seeing myself and my work colleague at the same time. We eventually got through the issues and all has been fine since. Recently ...
A. 4 March 2016: Anon reader :---erm ?... FBI can't compel Apple , as hard as they try, to unlock the IPhones of terrorists, because the Court won't allow it !,... and this OP can hack her boyfriend phone because he keeps naughty photos in it , which is ... (read in full...)
Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?
Q. I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...
A. 4 March 2016: Male anon, I know the study you mention, but the way you summarize it ; " Men like nice girls, women do not like nice guys " is oversimplistic and quite misleading ( not your fault. Most magazines and newspaper journalists did exactly the same and ... (read in full...)
Is 4 months of dating too soon to ask her to marry me?
Q. I am in love with my girlfriend.. I can't imagine life without her. She is everything I could have ever asked for and more. We have only been dating 4 months but it seems like longer. We have known each other for 4 years. I know she is the girl for ...
A. 4 March 2016: Wait. If she is the one, she will still be the one in 4 more months or 8 more months.
30 is not too old to still have on rose tinted glasses :).And knowing someone as a friend is totally different than knowing someone as a romantic partner and ... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 4 March 2016: I would not follow your friend's advice to make the dog vanish suddenly , behind your husband's back. Trusts issues ? I think that could be the kiss of death for any couple .
How come it's all HIS dog this and HIS dog that , HIS pet, HIS prop... (read in full...)
Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?
Q. I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...
A. 3 March 2016: OP, I did not say you are boring, I don't know you and for all I know you may be a barrel of laughs and a joy to be around.
I was simply making a point, that no woman in her right mind is turned off or repelled because a man is " nice ". She will... (read in full...)
How do women perceive a guy with a beer belly?
Q. Have a few questions about dating and wanted to get women’s perspective. But if any guys have input would appreciate your advice as well. Thanks in Advance. I'm a guy who is 24 years old and currently in Uni. I’m finding it difficult dating...
A. 3 March 2016: Not very positively, I suppose :). But you can confirm me that, since you say that you have a pleasant, winning personality which gets you some game, - what fails to be totally appreciated is the outer package.
Not surprisingly. Current soci... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 2 March 2016: Wait a minute ; I am getting confused !
"When my husband came BACK, he stated he would rehome the dog ":
So, isn't this much ado about nothing ?.. Your husband accepted AGAIN to rehome the dog. Just as you wanted.
Now just let him the mate... (read in full...)
Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?
Q. I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...
A. 2 March 2016: Male anon : the truth about what ? Which truth about women did you want to be told at your mother knee's ?...
The truth is simply this :
that both males and females are humans, and humans some times ( but not always ,of course ) will mak... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 2 March 2016: Right, it is your husband who allows the dog into the house- but he can do that because you allowed HIM into the house, when he showed up with the dog after , what ? 24 hours ? 48 hous ?... from your "ultimatum ".
My personal surmise is that... (read in full...)
Did my boss proposition me?
Q. I had this wiered convorsation with my boss. Think he might have propositioned me but not sure. I now feel very awkward at work. Him: Do you ever think about doing something you shouldn't do? Me: No never I'm a saint. Do you? Him: All t...
A. 1 March 2016: Yes, he was. He is very obviously hinting just at what you think he was hinting.
But, - since you DO think that he was hinting at something very unprofessional, otherwise you would not have wrote to DC,- frankly I am surprised you dragged the conv... (read in full...)
He didn't offer his jacket--was I in the wrong to get upset?
Q. My guy and I have a lot of problems, one of them being that I feel he doesn't show he cares when it really matters. Today we were sitting in a classroom that was incredibly cold. I was taking a test online and couldn't leave the desk. At times I got ...
A. 1 March 2016: He is right. If you are cold and want his jacket, tell him : I am cold and want your jacket. ( Actually , tell the school stuff to crank up the heating. " Hey guys, it's too cold in here, we can't even type properly ! " )
Yes you were blow... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 1 March 2016: You can't " make" anybody do anything which they do not want to do, unless at gun point- so you should check first if there's room for compromise. I.e.
- Would he be willing to let go of the dog instantly once an unbiased professional assess her ... (read in full...)
I need to break my duck with girls
Q. How to get over being a virgin? I'm turning 23 and no matter what I've tried it hasnt worked out. I've dated a couple girls in high school but we were "too young" to have sex according to the girls. We loved each other when we were dating but ...
A. 29 February 2016: That poor duck again :). Second time in few weeks. OP, you need to convince the mods that you don't want a new down comforter, you just want to have sex !
Anyway, as you know I have answered your posts various times in the past, I have alre... (read in full...)
Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?
Q. I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the wa...
A. 28 February 2016: Yeah ... but what if this guy is less pliable than your dad ? What if he is adamant and won't ever accept to have children with you ?...
If you really care about becoming a parent, if the kid issue would be a dealbreaker for you- then the deal... (read in full...)
Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?
Q. I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...
A. 28 February 2016: Lots of interesting opinions. Mine is slightly different.
I say: because being a " nice guy " is nothing more that the bare minimum acceptable. It's no exceptional feat ; in fact, it is the "minimal wage " of dating. Nothing wrong with mini... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 28 February 2016: I think you misunderstood me, OP: I never said, nor implied, that you should accept shoddy treatment or prevarication by your partner just because he was generous enough to accept, and love, someone else's kids.
( Although, let me be brutally hone... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 26 February 2016: OP, I do not intend to "unleash " ( very fitting word, in the situation :) upon you . Everybody can make a wrong judgement call , hindsight is 20/20. Moreover, I like dogs but I like humans more, so if I had a "difficult " dog and children at ... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...
A. 25 February 2016: That's the problem with giving ultimatums. That you have to be totally convinced about their absolute necessity, totally aware of the consequences if the ultimamum is not accepted, and totally prepared to enforce it if needs be.
You said " eith... (read in full...)
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