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Crush revealed he had a g/f on our date and now he's ignoring me

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Question - (10 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2012)
A female Singapore age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all I'm feeling pretty upset over this guy I have a crush on. We recently went on a date and everything went well (at least I think so) Before that we've been texting non-stop. I did not expect that because I only knew him for a day. But he was really sweet to me on my first day of work. It sounds cliche but I definitely could feel that he was interested. Whenever we texted, he'd say good night and good morning and if he replied late he always sent long apologetic texts. However during our heart to heart talk he revealed that he had a gf and he was having troubles with her. When I found out he was attached I was crushed but I never thought of breaking them up. In fact I'm just contented being his friend cos, well, after all it's just a crush. In any case, after our date he texted me if he bored me etc. but after I replied him, he abruptly stopped texting me even though my last text to him was a question. I don't even know how to feel now but feel led on but he really doesn't seem like that kind of jerk! I just wanted to know why he could possibly abruptly not reply my messages. It's probably something trivial but it's really bugging me!

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2012):

Miamine agony auntHis girlfriend probably found out and didn't like it. If he has a girlfriend he can't go on dates, that is cheating. If he is still with her, then he wants her, no matter if they is having problems. I am sorry, but he didn't make things clear, he is a guy in a relationship and it was not right for him to give you false hope. He's probably feeling very guilty right now and wants to forget what he has done. He shouldn't be texting you night and day, that's what boyfriends do, not friends.

Sorry he has hurt you, but never get involved with guys who say they have girlfriends.

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A female reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2012):

Xx-Scorpio-xX agony auntMaybe his girlfriend feels uncomftable with him texting another girl and asked him to stop so he's respecting her wishes? I know if my boyfriend suddenly started texting a girl i never met i would be very jealous/suspicious about it. Give it a few days and if he doesn't reply call him and ask him why he's 'ignoring' you. it could also simply be that doesn't have any credit?

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