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anonymous
writes:This man says he loves me. This man called and said he is going to a two week study and must learn. No talk and no text for 15 days. I'm wondering if he is trying to end the relationship. He tells me he will marry me in the next few years. He also tells me I am the only one and not to worry.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 March 2012):
 That is just odd. You can't call him either? I would call that a red flag.
Unless he is studying 100 ft under the ocean or at the moon, I really can't see why a good morning call/text or goodnight call/text is out of the question. VERY IFFY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2012): I'm sorry, but at your age I would imagine a guy would be mature enough to explain his situation. From the sounds of this, I'm wondering if this is a LDR with some foreign guy you met on a holiday. If so , it's a load of bull and you guessed right. I doubt however that he is trying to break up with you, sounds like he is wanting to be meeting someone else for this time and doesn't want the complications of you interfering with things.
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (10 March 2012):
How long has this two week studying course been booked? Is it suddenly out of the blue that he has told you he is going on it? Is it in a different country and he won't be able to use his phone?
Some people do need to focus harder than others when studying. However, he will most certainly have some chill time on an evening where he will no doubt be having dinner with other people on the course and switching off - and surely he would want to hear a familiar voice to discuss how it is going for him etc!
Ask him why he can't/won't be contacting you? Is he on a secret mission or something? It does sound rather odd!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 March 2012):
 Not even one text or call in 15 days ?...
What is he studying for that's so demanding.. is he studying for becoming the next Pope ???
I'd be skeptical . It does not sound, to me at least, as if he want to end things with you, it sounds as if he wants to keep you nice and quiet and out of his way, while he is doing something that you are not supposed to know...
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