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If my husband doesn't want to have sex with me as much- does that mean he is not attracted to me??

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Question - (10 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, *ENEE84 writes:

If my husband doesn't want to have sex with me as much- does that mean he is not attracted to me??

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (10 March 2012):

The Realist agony auntThat may be the case but it may also be him. Some may be quick to say that he is cheating or something like that but judging based on the age maybe he is developing some sort of erectile dysfunction and he is too embaressed to bring it up. I would say this is most likely and it is very commom that the man will not want to talk about it until it is forced out of him.

I would bring up the fact that your sex life isn't what you would like it to be and see what he says. If he shys away from just be very delicate about how you bring up the conversation about it being an issue with him.

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A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (10 March 2012):

It could mean any number of things. He might be bored. He might be having performance issues (often goes with aging) and so hesitate to initiate. His hormones could be out of balance (something else that can go with aging) and so have less interest in sex overall.

Two things to do. 1) talk to him!

2) have him see his physician for a thorough physical.

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