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anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,My girlfriend has been super busy with her thesis and work and has kept denying me to see her. I keep getting frustrated cause she always takes time to hang out with her friends instead of me. Now i am in the process of med school interviews where i need alot of support how can i convey to her that i need this from her and to stop being selfish cause it feels like i'm being ignored. Am i being stupid and should just give her her space? or should i just call it quits and go on my own? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): Girls can never avoid the temptation of sitting with other girls and talk talk talk. Apparently, your girlfriend is the same. She is busy so she puts you in a lower priority, but can't put the "girl talk" in the lower priority because she can't resist it, even if it ruins her thesis!
And, please, don't be a girl yourself! What do you mean "I need support" and "I feel ignored"? These are girlish words. Just concentrate on your interviews. Make yourself busy and ignore her for a while. See what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): I can't tell you to just call it quit but I can tell you that my son was going with this women but after she decided to go back to school she kept telling my son that she need her space because of school, come to find out she was cheating on my son, my son called it quit and moved on.
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reader, Wise_little_elf  +, writes (11 March 2012):
 You need to be honest with her. Tell her straight out, that you are feeling pushed aside. If she can make time for friends, then, yes, she can make time for you. Although i always value a person who makes time to maintain their friendships while in a relationship, she also should be making time for her relationship. Spending time together helps a relationship evolve and flourish, if their isn't any time to do this, their is no room for your partnership to grow.
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