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anonymous
writes:im so self conscious about giving my guy head because i worry he doesnt enjoy it, i'm quite a shy person and am too embarrassed to ask him about it! what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): Just ask him. If he likes it he should not be afraid to be a man and admit it
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 March 2012):
 Listen to his breath, the sounds he make, and watch his body language. It will tell you whether he likes it, or is having a mind blowing experience. And don't worry, there is nothing to not like. Whatever you do he will like, but some things he will love more than others.
Just avoid the obvious: don't bite him, pull his hairs, or scratch him with nails or teeth. Stick to licking and using your lips until you feel comfortable to do more.
And do this to satisfy your own curiosity. If YOU can draw pleasure from it, then he'll feel even more pleasure from it. So do what you feel comfortable with doing.
And, in case your boyfriend is inexperience with blowjobs (that's right, not all guys know what to do when they are given blowjobs!) tell him to lay still. He's not to move, thrust, or hold your head, not unless you tell him to. He's to lay completely still and enjoy the experience, nothing else. You're in charge, and you decide what will happen and what is licked to touched and when.
That's the great thing about blowjobs, you're in charge and his pleasure rests in your hands (and mouth). If you want to you can blindfold him, so he can't look at what you are doing. This gives you extra freedom as you don't have to worry about how you look.
I recommend you give him a blowjob while he lies down, because that way you can sit over him and reach everything. You can also start by just touching his inner thighs, giving him a massage, and you can use your hands. You don't have to always use your mouth. Working him with your hands gives your mouth a break (as it can get tiresome), and it's a part of a blowjob.
Decide beforehand if you want him to come in your mouth, or in a towel, or if you want to start with a blowjob and then continue to intercourse.
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