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writes:Hi everyone sorry if this is long I have been in a fwb for a year now I told him how much I like him he says he likes me to but then we always end up having a disagreement over something mainly lack of not seeing one another he says he is going to delete my number we don't talk for a few weeks then we are back in touch as though nothing has happened its like we can't stay away from one another but we always end up back in contact anyway this recently happened I got that fed up of the way he was treating me (very badly) so I kissed another man in front of him we didn't talk for 5 weeks now we are back in contact but haven't slept together again yet anyway he came round mine on monday and my daughter walked in the kitchen when we were talking and he turned and said to her daddys just talking to mammy what can this be any suggestions would be greatly appreciated thank you very much Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 March 2012):
 Dump him. He wants sex only and you have fallen in love and want to be his girlfriend. You can't stay away from him, he is not bothered, he can easily not see you for 5 weeks without no problem. Your making dreams in your head and convincing yourself that this guy has feelings. Guys that like you try to make time to see you, don't treat you (very badly) and if they see you kissing someone they dump you, because you break their heart and hurt them. Guys that are FWB don't really care who you kiss, they might make noise but they will stay, because it's your body and sex that they want. They aren't really that bothered who you is kissing, as long as they can get a piece of the action.
The guy told you some sweet words, but what does his actions say? Is this a guy falling in love, or is this a guy who comes a piece of ass whenever he has the time available?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012): Have you not dated anyone else in the year you've been seeing him? You can you know, you can date who you like instead of focusing on some bloke who messes you around and only wants sex from you.So can he.
Your Friends with Benefits not girlfriend and boyfriend.
As for what he said, probably a slip of the toungue, I would tell him its a relationship or nothing.
And read some of the other FWB questions/answers on this site.
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