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Ex is trying to get into my good graces again. How to I stop this?

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Question - (10 March 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2012)
A female United States age , *ashful3 writes:

Hello everyone me and my ex boyfriend who I dated 9 months lived with 8 broke up last August remained friends not a good idea he came on weekends well he is separated and has 6 kids me I have an 18 year old daughter well to make the story short on yesterday I decided to end our friendship, he had been staying with me for 6 weeks due to his ex and other kids of his staying with their older daughter no heat and lights.

He was to go back to the older daughters once the heat got cut on I had been told 3 times in the last few weeks it was on well he said yesterday when I told him he could pack his things and go on back up the street I told you the other day I did not hear you he drinks heavy we were nothing alike I am ready to move on.

Now he has called me twice and yes I have answered I know I got to stop he still has a televison here to get I know what he is doing try to twist my arm no not this time we broke up because he was demanding I do not see how he can keep thinking something is going to stay the same noway I did tell him how someone told me I was being used and I felt it he is jealous and thinks I am trying to get with some guy knows them visits my older neighbour next door which I visit him also.

I wont to avoid another man like him I say I always miss the red flags so please advice on how to avoid him he does have to get his television which I understand that

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (10 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntHave a neutral 3rd person come pick up ALL his stuff at your place and drop it off where he is staying. GET rid of his junk!

Or give him 1 week to come pick it up. (and make sure he calls first so you can have someone there with you).

After he gets his junk, BLOCK his number. If he shows up don't open the door. You need to truly cot the contact with him, it sounds really toxic for you both to continue and he sounds like a really unhealthy individual.

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