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female
age
36-40,
*ibongile
writes:Yesterday I bumbed in to my ex colleague she also a female.I haven't seen her in three to four years.wen we aparted is because I had found another job as I was on a learnership and sher was permanent.we hang out together as we were on same age group coz most of other colleagues were older very old than us and sometimes shared our personal life or even meet on weekend.as I was on a learneship I was only earning R1100 in she earning 6 times of wat I was earning.I used to bring my lunch box at work as I culdnt afford to buy food at cafiteria and she sometimes used to ofoffer me lunch.she felt preg and I also did that the following year n wen aparted neither of us was preg n she gogot fortunate n find another well paying job.okay let me get to da point.wen I bumbed in to her yesterda she gave a very bad attitude even now I still cnt believe.she told me how fat I was.I look like sum ones granny even said dat maybe my babys dady no longer luvs me n she was laughing n even mention dat she use to put food on my table in public.n my respond was" I think its best if I cut u out of my life"I'm so hurt.why did she do that and what must I do?
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reader, Wise_little_elf  +, writes (11 March 2012):
 It's obvious this lady is bitter over something, maybe something not even to do with you. Maybe she thinks she is better than you because she was higher in the rank at work, some people leave success go to their heads. The best thing for you do to do is pass her with her with your head held high, you may not have as much money or as good a job as her but that doesn't make a person. Job's and money don't last forever, a good person with a good heart does. Have your pride an dignity, let her have her ignorance.
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