A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey...i have written messages to my bf's ex and his good friend to whom he says was just an friend but they used to say love you and blah blah... and i wrote message to his ex being himself from his account that now i love my girl more and don't try to contact me back... Than her friend called her and said your fiancé is saying me bullshit .... he called me and insulted me badly that who am i to write her a letter and i am sure that girl would also contact her... and from 3 to four days we are in no contact and he doesnt wants to and even i am not coming up with ego i just cant bend my self now infront of him.... and now i want him to be sorry because after a month we are getting married and i am hating him more than anything in this world! and i am being frustrated more and more i cry all night he never gives me time to0 :( please tell me what should i do
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (11 March 2012):
 You behaved badly, the guy is probably frightened that you are a jealous manipulative person who will ruin his life.
Even now you refuse to apologise. You think you have the right to steal his identity, lie and manipulate and make people think badly of him.
If you behave like this now, over a "friend", what will you be like when you marry. He has nothing to be sorry about. You are the person who lies and tries to destroy his friendship and his reputation. If you hate him, he probably doesn't hate you, but he is very, very scared of you and he probably thinks your crazy.
Don't apologise, don't get married, let the guy go and find someone to talk to about your problems.
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (10 March 2012):
 I think you need to apologise. You had no right to contact his ex/friend pretending to be him and telling her to back off. That tells me and him that you have no trust in him. You have just shown him how insecure and immature you are. He is marrying YOU not her. What more proof of his commitment or love do you need?
I think you need to "bend yourself" and say sorry, before it is too late. The longer this goes on the worse it will become.
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