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writes:I am dating a guy of 16 for like 7months now but somehow i kinda of always screw things up.Am kinda too sensitive and take things too personally and he hates things but most times i can't help it.Now am scared that he may soon get tired of me and break up with me but the truth is that i love him and trust him very much and he has shown me in so many ways that he loves me too but am still scared.What should i do,i need help urgently? Reply to this Question
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I just think you should think before you speak in this case, rethink whether your just being sensitive and paranoid, which most girls are.
He should love you for what you are though if you can't help it its not your fault, its in your nature, and if he loves you, he should be able to love that part of you too.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 There is a word for that:
High-maintenance.
No one likes someone who is oversensitive, touchy, and needing constant reassurance. It's exhausting and draining.
Instead of focusing on yourself so much, how are you showing HIM that you love him? What are you bringing to the relationship? How are you making his life better by being in it?
Don't be high maintenance. Enjoy each other's love while you can, and leave it at that! You're putting too much pressure on him to be your everything, and that will break your relationship.
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reader, damn him  +, writes (12 July 2012):
i dont think you are the only girl walking the planet that could be accused of taking things to personally. im one for starters and i undertand your concerns about it affecting your relationship..but what are the things that up set you are you sure it is not the relationship itself? is he at all anything to do with the problem that is having you feel insecure or over sensitive?heres a quote a friend posted on facebook that really made me think:before you go diagnosing your self with deppression make sure its not because you are spending time with arseholes!i laughed out loud for real when i read this and at the time i was feeling very defeated and unsure about myself and started to blame myself for feeling miserable. then i took a look at what was around me and how my partner was treating me and how i was responding. i am not saying find fault elsewhere i am saying take another look...good luck
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