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writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half now and get on so well in every area of our relationship. Am I just seeing her through rose-tinted glasses or do people like her really exist? I keep thinking something's bound to go wrong sometime, but we just get on so well all the time and have never argued about anything. Sure there've been things we disagree on and I've done/said things where anyone else would fly off the handle, but she always approaches things so maturely and discusses things with me rather than having a go at me.She's always so content and happy, always pleased to see me. We text/email each other regularly during the day and see each other most evenings.We are so open with each other and talk about everything.We are both very similar with how we manage money in that we're both quite cautious and don't like spending too much.All my friends like her and say how lovely she is. My parents love her too, as do my kids from a previous marriage.She's stayed round my place many times when I've had my the kids over, so we've seen what the other one's like to live with. We're both quite tidy people and don't seem to have too many annoying habits.We both connect on a physical level too and fancy each other to bits, so it's a heart thing as well as a head thing.Could this be just a happy phase we're going though that will fizzle out in time, or are are people really like this? I often have to pinch myself to check if this isn't some dream.We even communicate with the same Love Languages (if you know what that means).Heck, she doesn't even get PMT!! I'm not joking!My marriage didn't work out, so maybe I'm just really cautious this time round, but she just seems to be perfect and I don't get it, I seriously don't get it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 July 2012):
 I choose to believe that they exist. But it's magic to me: Hard to imagine, but the world would be a sad place if we couldn't hope for such romantic connections.
You're lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your thoughts. I guess i should just carry on enjoying it. I do thank the Lord, literally, for her. She has been such a blessing to me and i shouldn't think of this as being odd.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (13 July 2012):
 Awwww..this is sucha cute post if I can say..I'm happy for you that you have found that one special person who you can click with in ever aspect..if I were you rather than worrying about what will go wrong,y is it soo surreal I would just enjoy my time with her,and have a blissful life..
You don't have to worry about this,its natural when things go just as planned or just too perfect people start wondering is this real or am I dreaming?but pinch urself twice as hard;) its truee and your living it..
So enjoy and don't worry about a thing..
God bless
Have a nice life x
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reader, young-man  +, writes (13 July 2012):
Wow it's great that you can consciously acknowledge all these good things you have with your girlfriend. You have been together for 1.5 years and yet you still sound as though you're in the honeymoon period! Which you may or may not be.
You say your marriage didn't work out and suggested this may have made you cautious.. cautious about what? You don't sound cautious to me. I do think your prior marriage is important though. I believe it may have made you into a person who is better able to appreciate the value your current relationship has.
It really sounds as though for you the grass is greener on this side, and it is really heart-warming to hear about it. With your relationship experiences you might make for a good Agony Uncle :)
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reader, Basschick +, writes (13 July 2012):
 I think you have been truly blessed! Thank the good Lord and don't let this one go.
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reader, Impartial_Opinion +, writes (13 July 2012):
Awww your post really warmed my heart :) I'm sure people like that exist the world over but you're just lucky enough to have found each other.
With regards to worrying if things go bad, who knows!! Maybe they will but maybe they won't. Life is full of surprises. Don't live in fear of thinking that things will go wrong and at the same time dont hold back because you're scared they will. Just roll with the punches, see how things pan out and consider yourself blessed. Nobody knows what is round the corner which can be very scary for some and exciting for others but it sounds as though you have a solid mate who will stand behind you no matter what lies ahead.
Wishing you every happiness
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2012): Good luck to you both seems you have found your soulmate
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