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Are there any decent men out there, how do I find one?

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Question - (12 July 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone I am feeling very down lately every boyfriend I have had has cheated on me I've got a daughter who is 3 her dad didn't want to know and left me as soon as I told him I was pregnant we were together for over a year I met another man who had been in prison I met someone else and fell completely in love with him he moved 10 mins down the road from me and he never got in touch with me even though we were together 18 months what can I do how do I change this cycle and how do I go about finding someone decent thank you

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A female reader, suzysunshine United States +, writes (14 July 2012):

I think you are tryin too hard. You need to work on your

sef and raisin your kid. Work on you and the Mr. Rite may arrive.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012):

The first man,the father of your child,clearly didnt want a baby that soon.So a condom by him with birth control by you should have been used.I hope he pays child support.

The 2nd, somebody who has been in prison doesnt equal a bad boyfriend.Not ideal no but you must have known he had done time beforehand and it depends if it was just once and theyd changed

The third guy you were in love with you say, so not the first two? Plus you don't say exactly WHEN these 3 cheated on you either ? YOU didnt end the relationships so you must have just put up with it

I think you definately need something to treat depression and counselling to help you.Until your feeling good about yourself do not date.See your family,friends,look after your daughter,go to work as per but keep away from men till your feeling better

Remember its human to make mistakes part of growing up, but your here to break the cycle,so do go see your doctor

and put a stop to your pity party

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