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*aydilla11
writes:I currently started talking to my ex-fiance again but things are a little complicated and i don't know what exactly to think....I was with my ex fiance for 6 years we broke up 2 years ago and then she contacts my sister saying she wanted to talk , i was relationship then now i am not. I called her and we started talking went out twice and made out like crazy a couple times during the first 2 weeks of talking to each other again since out break up, we texted each other every day or every other day but recently she has seemed distant and we go days without talking. I asked her once if everything was ok and if there was anything wrong, i am a understanding guy and she can talk to me about anything she said everything was fine and she was just busy with her friends wedding (she was her maid of honor) and that may be the case but what should i take from her current behavior i know we are trying to take things slow am i just over thinking or do you think something is wrong? This had been going on for about 2 1/2 weeks
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I think its clear she obviously missed you, but there must of being a reason you two broke up, and although it was really nice to have those two weeks with you where you was almost inseparable and talking all the time, I think she might like her space again and remembers why you two aren't together anymore.I wouldn't waste time hoping for you two to get back together when she's being distant, she could of called you for a few minutes and let you know how she is and if you could briefly have lunch or whatever, but she hadn't bothered.I think she might just be wanting you when she's bored or nothing else to do because she's still single and stuff.Its probably time to move on, you hadn't spoke for two years and was fine, so I think you can do it again, and cut off.Hope it goes well though.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 She felt you were important enough to want to talk to you but right now she is making you wait, like it's on her terms now. I don't believe being a maid of honor takes up the whole day. Texting takes little time. It's not difficult to tell you when she would be available again. It could be that she's looking for you because she broke up with someone and needed you to ease the loneliness. I don't think something is wrong and you are not overthinking. Some people just get back together to see if they still have the hots or not, but realize if they got back together they would make the same mistakes again. I would not waste more time with her. My rule in dating is that if a person is distant for 2 weeks, then I am automatically single again and I don't need to wait for that person to get back to me. That person has to deal with the ambiguity and it's not my fault that I don't feel a need to reassure that I am there for them to fall back on all the time.
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