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writes:I started dating my best friend (of three years) two weeks ago. She is currently in a different state and has been gone for a month. I have seen her once in the month, and I think not being able to see her more often is causing me to become depressed. I stay up way to late because I can't sleep, and when I finally get to sleep I have a very difficult time getting out of bed. I leave my room maybe three times in a day. I have no interest in being around people because I don't feel like talking. On top of that I really don't have an interest in anything at all. She knows I'm upset about the situation but I haven't told her how bad it is. She has always been the only person I can call my real friend and I miss her dearly. What can I do to make myself less upset about this?
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reader, anonymus2012  +, writes (13 July 2012):
You need to talk to her like on a daily basis, skype or txt often, never argue and you will feel better, also really have to find a hobbie that distracts you or keeps your mind off her. eventually things will be better but it takes time. I felt the same way, it took me a little bit more of a month to adapt. good luck.
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I think you need to just hang out with different people, get a hobbie or something, take your mind off the fact that you're missing her, I think its normal to miss someone this much and when their usually around and there to call all the time its worse because you've always had that of being able to be in touch whenever you want.
Its good to try different things though, it'll be easy to know what your relationship can go through and what it can survive, probably talk to her and tell her you miss her a lot, and sort something out.
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