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writes: Dear Aunts. I got a problem here with myself. Why is it that i always like guys who dont like me and ignore those who really like me? Then at the end i always get heartbroken and i dont know how to deal with this matter. I know i might be young for this but i really wish i could just meet a guy who likes me the way i do or even more than that. This might affect my future and i dont want to end up being in the wrong arms for the rest of my life and regreting it. Please help
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I think you are young, why think of the future now when you can just have fun and whatever will be will be, and your not affecting your future if you just live your life and stop looking for love, it WILL come looking for you eventually.
You'll wonder one day why you ever worried about this, but you don't need to worry about finding the one right now, because right now isn't going to be the right one in about 10 years, because young relationships are hard to keep, because of the amount of people just wanting to do whatever the hell they want.
Be happy.
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reader, MissTellAll  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 Not to sound cheesy but y'know, "the forbidden fruit doth taste so sweet'? You want what you can't have, it's really just a matter of you looking in the wrong places I think. Next time you meet a guy who isn't really your 'type' figure out why you don't like him. Do you have a taste for jerks? Shallow guys?You're young, your heart is going to make stupid decisions for you that you'll later think "Damn, why did that happen?" but you have to go with it really. You can't make yourself like those guys who like you and it is not fair to date them without feelings for them, and the guys you like are the same way.You're not doomed to want what you can't have, soon enough you'll find a guy who you like that likes you and everything will be fine :)Hope this helped!
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reader, AbigailBradbury +, writes (12 July 2012):
 You ARE young like you said. You need to just go with the flow honey. There is nothing wrong with you. You will learn from your experiences and your mistakes. You will come to realise what kind of person you are compatible with and you will strive to be the best you can in life. You don't NEED a partner to be the best you can be. Just focus on yourself and the rest will follow x
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