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How equal should things be? I give her oral, but she just gives me excuses for why not, when I seek same from her.

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm wondering whether I should expect oral sex for giving oral sex. Me and my girlfriend don't have sex often, but my sex drive is a lot more than hers, so she uses her hands to satisfy me. I've told her I really enjoy oral sex and she gave it to me twice. But now ... (228 words

I'd jeopardize my actual relationship if I allowed this infatuation to take hold. What should I do?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I am almost 22 and I have a boyfriend and I know he loves me, he is so kind and sweet and caring and we have been going out for over a year or so. But about April last year, I met this man one day, and he was fascinating and charming and I have never been able to keep him out... (200 words

Sex! Why, so far, has it all been so unsatisfying?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - hey ive been sexually active for about a year.. ive just been wondering.. I don't know if im sexually frustrated or not but i think i am. I've had sex about a good fifteen times in the year or so since i lost my virginity and it just doesnt feel good, i just never really s... (138 words

I know I've done wrong! But how can I fix it? I still love my ex too.

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - Okay well for a start im the Darth Vader, Joker or Lex Luther of this whole thing! I was with a girl for 2 and a half years , She was very pretty typical blond petite girl, i was clearly under the thumb! Doing everything for her! we had our break ups! over another guy!... (169 words

He will not admit when he is wrong. He shouts. My self esteem has been affected. What can I do?.

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys, my husband never apologizes to me, even if its clear he is wrong and he is always blaming me for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. He always finds a way to make me feel i am to blame. I do apologize to him whenever i am at fault and even for his own... (143 words

How can I make him see that I've changed since then and that I am the right choice?

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - ModNote: The OP has implied that this question could have more detail added - the OP is welcome to add that details as follow ups to this question, herein, to assist others to answer this question. The reason for him not liking me was mostly my fault. I used to pretend I did... (328 words

I love my husband but he never initiates sex, and sometimes pushes me away. Does he not love me anymore?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - Hi. My husband I are married fr 2 years now. But we dated for 7 and half years before marriage. We had sex after 2 years into the relationship. My problem is that he never gave me oral sex. But I have recently started giving it to him. He doesn't even initiate sex. Its I who ... (150 words

If my gf is pregnant, she says she does not want to keep the baby but is afraid of the guilt of an abortion. What can we do?

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - I've got a real dilemma here. Me and my girlfriend have been together for less than 2 months. About 3 weeks into our relationship we started having sex. We used protection each time. Anyway, her period was supposed to begin at one point during the valentines week but it didn... (231 words

What happens to single girls at "singles" tables at weddings?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I'm attending my first wedding, it's my cousins wedding. I'm 19 (almost 20) I'm a college student and i live at home with my family, so i'm not sure if i will be seated with my family? or the "singles" table. do they have "singles tables? haha i'm not a good dancer, i'm awful ... (85 words

The girl I have a crush on keeps teasing me about a blonde girl I danced with. What does this mean?

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - I am 18 [male] and have a crush at work [a girl my age]. We have gotten friendly before on a night out, but nothing has happened since. I have sort of fallen for her since then, and wish I had made a move at the time. Before we got friendly that night, they made me dance wi... (119 words

The Cody Chronicles, Part 3: Should I reject Cody simply on the basis of the rumors about him (like him having sex with a goat)?

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - Sorry if the questions about Cody are annoying but the people of DearCupid are my only resource for advice that I take pride in and trust. So I know that y'all know what's right. Well anyways, Cody has a horrible reputation. Every time I mention his name to someone, they ask me ... (215 words

My deceased ex-bf's son wants to date me--and he looks just like his dad!

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - My exboyfriend died in 1993, when he died he had a little son by someone else. Now the son is 23 years old and wants to date me. I like him to but I don't know if this is right, the thing that is nagging at me is he looks just like his dad.What should I do?... (57 words

How do I encourage my boyfriend to get more involved in my fantasies?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone, how do I encourage my boyfriend to take part in my fantasies more? He's supportive and says he enjoys it too, but I feel he's playing it safe... Thanks!... (34 words

I hate my stepfather he hates me!

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - Basically my mum married my step dad when i was about 7 or 8 but when he proposed to her she would ask me if i was ok with it first, and i stupidly said yes because i liked him at the time he was nice to me back then, but then my mum had his son (my step brother) and everything ... (218 words

I'm with my partner because of our daughter but I want more!

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - Is it wrong to want more? I feel like I should try to make myself love him because of our daughter and given time that this may happen. He feels similarly and I know if it wasn't for our daughter we would have taken seperate paths a long time ago although we have only been ... (154 words

Why is my vagina this color?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I've recently become quite concerned about the colour of my vagina. Its a very dark pink/red colour, as far as i'm aware it has always been that colour, it doesn't hurt, I haven't slept with anyone in years and I always use protection. Is it normal? When I've seen other gi... (78 words

I told our friend that I like him, his girlfriend find out. What if my boyfriend finds out?

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 3 and a half years. I have been talking with one of our friends a lot. we told each other we have feeling for each other through a message, his girlfriend read the messages. now i cant eat or sleep stressing about my partner finding out. i w... (111 words

How can I get my guy friend back (whom I have a crush on)?

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - I have a guy friend who I have a crush on. We have stopped communication after we had problems going on with the whole crush deal. He didn't like me back, he had a girl with a boyfriend who he liked, so we had a on-and-off friendship this year after being friends for the entire ... (524 words

What keeps people in marriages when they are no longer in love?

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19 February 2012 (? - When you have been married to your husband for 35 years and are no longer IN LOVE with him but Love him as a person, is it possible to continue to stay married? What is it that actually makes a person stay in a marriage where you are NOT IN LOVE with them?... (53 words

Can some people turn their love on and off?

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19 February 2012 (F age 51-59 - If you do some very bad things, more than once, to your partner, and then break up over it, do you think it can make them stop loving you? or do you think they still love you really, but just act like they dont like you? Can some people just turn love on and off? ... (55 words

Is the girl this guy likes me?

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He been tellign em how much he ... (227 words

Why won't my boyfriend come clean about how many people he's actually slept with?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner a year but we were friends before that. I'd say our relationship is good, we talk, laugh have a good sex life (the best I've ever had actually)and can tease each other and have fun. we have discussed serious things too and he told me he was sexually ... (470 words

Guy is leaving abroad soon, but still wants to spend a lot of time with me before he goes. Is he leading me on?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles!... Me and my friends went out to a student night at a nightclub a couple of weeks ago. My friend introduced me to one of his friends at the club. My friend told me his friend had seen me a week before and was attracted to me. We hit it off ... (259 words

Complicated situation I got myself in! Two guys now - but which or how do I pick?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - I am 33yrs old. My boyfriend is 20yrs old. When we first met, he thought I was younger (I look 23) and I thought he was older. When I found out his age I told him he was too young. But he was convinced I was "The One" and he followed me all over the world trying to convince me. ... (1108 words

Girlfriend no longer interested in sex at all and I feel like I have to close down a part of myself

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I've got a sort of luxury problem I suppose. I've been dating a girl for a few months now, and everything was perfect. We met up often, texted naughty things, said suggestive things over skype, even went a little further than just that. Had sex regularly, almost ever t... (462 words

How can I figure out if this guy likes me when we only see each at parties?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Hi, so my story: I have a pretty big crush on a boy i met a few months ago. When I run into him on parties we always hug and he is very flirty, but we never really talk about serious things. I am getting very interested in him because of this and I really want to know w... (190 words

Do I tell this guy I'm pregnant?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I might be pregnant. It's outside of a relationship, although we're good friends. I don't have anyone else to talk to this about and I'm freaking out. I'm two weeks late. I've already gone to the doctor and discussed everything which you could suggest I do (testing, waiting, ... (245 words

How do you avoid feeling second best when your significant other has an ex-spouse?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - How do you deal when your significant other has an ex-wife (or ex-husband), and they have a reasonably pleasant relationship? How do you avoid feeling inferior or second best?... (29 words

B/f is dating 2 of us at the same time. He says he's just "pretending" to date her!

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I'v been dating a guy almost a month now, recently, he told me that he was dating a different girl and he's doing that to please her he disclosed to me that im the one he loves even though he's pretending to be dating her. Should i believe him? I really love this guy. On vals ... (103 words

Girlfriend told me she sometimes doesn't feel passionate about me

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19 February 2012 (M age 36-40 - I've been with a girl for about a month now. Yesterday she told me that she sometimes doesn't feel connected to me when we're kissing/cuddling and that she thinks about other stuff. We haven't had sex yet because we're waiting for STD test results. She said it's really ... (382 words

My father doesn't like my boyfriend because he has kids and he thinks he's a bum

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - Hiya! Hope you can help me. I am 31, nearly 32, I have been with a wonderful man for nearly 8 months and he just completes me. I don't have any children. However, here goes, my dad doesn't approve at all because he has kids..he won't let me speak about him as he goes ma... (245 words

The Cody Chronicles, Part 2: Should I get involved with Cody, when I know he mainly wants to do sexual stuff with me?

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - So this question is a follow-up of my previous question about this guy Cody. Well whenever me and my sister showed up at the dance, he was smokin' weed in his truck. I was so astonished that he would do somethin' like that in public, especially on a "first date" Of course he ... (367 words

My boyfriend is really cheap and it really bothers me

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am very confused and bother now. Advice would be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend had been together for almost two years. His cheapness has recently gone to a degree I can't stand it. When we go to CVS he bought three dollars of candy and I bought 2 dollar tampon he... (267 words

LDR boyfriend called me lazy and now says we don't have a future together

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Some relevant background: I have something akin to either PMDD or a thyroid disorder, having really bad luck with doctors but trying to work through it. My boyfriend, for his part, is bipolar, but medicated. We had a conversation yesterday where he kept calling me lazy ... (403 words

Is the shape of my vagina normal?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I'm done worrying about this, so I'm just going to ask a few questions about my vagina and whether or not it sounds unusual. I've always thought I looked odd down there, but i figured that was just the way it was meant to look. I find vaginas incredibly ugly anyway. ... (215 words

Guy said I was too small for him so now he doesn't call anymore

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy in facebook...he asked for my number...called me several times...and we had a date...after our first date he stopped calling me....when i asked he told that he felt im too small for him...he is 9yrs older than me....but i love him and i cant forget him...pls ... (50 words

He's a nice guy but doesn't live close and its quite tiresome to try to see him. Should I end it already?

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19 February 2012 (F - Hi Everyone, I really need to vent and I need advice about my dating dilema. I met a guy from online who lives 3 hours from me. The date went pretty well. It takes me time to really like someone but I wasn't in a rush to leave so that's a good sign. We also kissed and they ... (604 words

I told this guy twice that I was too busy to see him. Does it seem too needy if I ask him out myself?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - If a guy you like has asked you out twice already, but both times you have been busy so you couldn't go, would it be desperate or needy if the girl asked him out when she was free? Because this guy, I do like him and I have said we can go out another time, so he doesn't think ... (136 words

I don't understand how he could like me so much one minute, then go cold the next!

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I am very, very frustrated. I met a guy last year from uni, and we hit it off. It blew over before Christmas, but just recently we've started speaking again. We went on a kind of date last Thursday which was lovely, and he said he wanted to see me again. On Friday, some... (142 words

Boyfriend thanked everyone but me for help with his b-day party!

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - It was my bf of 5 years 21st birthday last night! During his speech he literally went around the whole room thanking people but left me out when ive been the one to help him organise the whole thing! my heart literally broke i felt so hurt! Through out the whole night i wasnt ... (101 words

What made my friend want to change the person she is?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Why would my friend just suddenly wake up and say I want a change, I don't like the person I am? There was nothing wrong with her, but she obviously felt there was.. Before she was very confident, she'd walk up to guys easily and be in conversation, she's the one girl I know ... (242 words

Is oral sex ok with a UTI?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - Hi , Im 18 and I`ve got a urinary tract infection and I was told to avoid sex for a week but Im just wondering is it okay to have my boyfriend just lick me out instead of sex?... (42 words

Why do I keep thinking about this guy who I've only met a couple times?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I don't understand whats happening this week. I met gorgeous funny guys who liked me and asked for my number and to take me out. And of course at the time it's nice and find the attention great! I've even gone on dates with them and they've been good... But then I have thos... (248 words

My girlfriend's friends are boring

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19 February 2012 (M age - Hi all I have a bit of a problem regarding the friends of my girlfriend. Our relationship is generally good, and she has a lot of friends. I'm a naturally friendly man, very chatty, and very interested in people. To be honest, I was hoping to make some new pals, maybe wit... (196 words

I cant believe my B/f has been talking to this girl behind my back, even though he promised he would have nothing to do with her

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and at the start of our relationship, he was receiving texts from a girl he used to fancy before we got together (the same girl that actually delayed us getting together). Igot upset when I found out and asked him not to ... (369 words

Is there anything I can do for my friend who has a cheating wife?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - This is a bit of a different question as i am coming from the friend prospective rather then the spouse, and I really could do with some input. I have a really close friend who i have known for a long time (a man). Like many friends we can talk openly with one another and ... (304 words

Why does my ex say things like this??

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - My ex confuses me at most times. Lately he always says how he misses me etc. Me and him are friends now, and we talk often. However, I haven't bothered lately because I've been extremely busy. So he always says how he misses me but I don't really say it back. He always calls ... (273 words

Lies stacked upon lies and now my ex doesn't trust me

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - I have been with this girl for 2 years and we have been very much in love. The problem is, when we first met I told her some lies about my past and as time went on I didn't know how to take them back. so I told more lies and things are in a very bad place now. We broke up... (132 words

I can't take the rest of my life to get over a relationship that only lasted 6 months!

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - The guy that I was in love with and I broke up for good nearly a year ago. We had a good relationship for about 6 months, and a really shitty, alcohol-fuelled, rocky, dramatic, on-again-off-again, booty-call relationship for about 6 months after that. Then, he started dating ... (303 words

Split with my partner of 12 years, its been only 2 days yet I'm lost! How do you ladies do it??

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - So..... I just split up with my partner of nearly 12 years! We have 5 kids together and I am finding myself quite lost already and ut's only been 2 days :( So how do you ladies do it????? Any ideas or tips for me would be so so appreciated, I usually write my feelings down... (86 words

Why do I get so angry at times at my LDR boyfriend?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - i,ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and right now we have a LDR . i love him and he loves me back. he is faithful and caring but as most men he doesn't show it all the time upto my expectations nor does he have the time for it. i don't know if i have a hormonal ... (355 words

Should I send this email to a girl who stopped talking to me a month ago?

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - Long story short, me and this girl went from talking to each other every day to completely stopped talking the next day. One day its all fine then, she starts ignoring my messages... Please dont judge me. Also I havent sent this email. I have written this message, I wrote it... (300 words

My mom's death is taking a toll on all of us. How can I help my younger sister and sort everything out?

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - I am a 13 year old girl. I am quite mature for my age; however I really don’t feel ready to handle what is happening to me right now. My mother died a few months ago, after her 2nd struggle with cancer. My dad was obviously incredibly upset when it happened, but he had to stay ... (422 words

Can I send a message to the wife of the man my sister is cheating with to tell her of the affair?

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - My sister has a affair with a married man, it was a lovely affair, and they had slept together one night, from that day he is not talking with my sister and she suffers lot from that. Because he had told my sister what he did for my sister is not correct and now he also suffers ... (147 words

How can I get my crush's attention without going up to him?

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - So im a quiet shy girl yet I'm friendly. I want to get my crush attention without going up to him. We text but I am always the one to start the conversation. I have church tomorrow and want him to want to talk to me in person. What can I do?... (52 words

He won't emotionally divorce his ex-wife...

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19 February 2012 (F age 51-59 - I've searched for answers to my question and haven't really found it so here it is... I've been dating someone for 2 years, we were both ending marriages and in a way, left for eachother...BAD I KNOW BUT we didn't meet each other then leave, we've known each other for years as... (535 words

I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?

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19 February 2012 (M age 30-35 - Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke about there past sexual ... (193 words

Boyfriend unexpectedly broke up with me because "relationship ran its course"

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - My exboyfriend (25 years old) of 2 years unexpectedly broke up with me (23 years old) recently over the phone and I am completely devastated. I met him when I moved across the country 2 years ago for graduate school and things were great. I was really lonely when I first mov... (681 words

My parents want to press charges if I keep contact with this older boy! I'm depressed...

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - I'm 15 and have been talking to a 19 year old guy for about 3 months. (yes I really do know him). My mom and dad found out, and their making me stop talking to him, or they'll file a police report, since he's over aged. What do I do? I'm really depressed after not talking to ... (61 words

My rich, famous and good looking husband is deceiving everyone! Its obvious that he's cheating on me, then why this show that everything's fine?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - On my birthday we left for Hawaii and my hubby announced this trip as 'Family vacation' on twitter(11th Jan) but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday,instead he wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together! whats this nonsense??? After marriage... (581 words

Why are women so bitchy to me? Why am I a threat ?

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19 February 2012 (F age 36-40 - In my other post people had a go at me for being platonic friends with a guy . Well so why is it I try and be friends with women and it never works? I'm friendly and easy going, and don't treat people like garbage. For some reason women always see me as a threat. I've tried ... (69 words

Why am I still sleeping with this married woman despite knowing that out "relationship" is headed nowhere?

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19 February 2012 (M age 51-59 - I can't believe that it is still going on after four years! I posted a question regarding this affair a while back when I thought this whole ordeal was finally coming to an end, but it isn't. We stared flirting, going to lunch. etc., back in the late 2008, and in 2009 we t... (290 words

How can I get bigger boobs and better hair?

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19 February 2012 (? age 30-35 - I was just wondering...how can I look more attractive? I feel I look good but how can I get bigger boobs naturally? Also how can I make my hair thicker and volumed?... (36 words

I'm 16, pregnant, and I don't know if I should be with the father of the baby

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - im 16 and pregnant, yes i know your thinking im crazy. But, what im here for is to ask for advice.So im living with my boyfriend and this following month we have two years of relationship. Alright, so during does two years we've broken up plenty of times. So their is this one ... (320 words

I had a vaginal delivery and havent had sex since. How will it feel now? Will I be loose down there?

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19 February 2012 (F age 30-35 - My ex bf and I broke up 16 months ago I was 8 months pregnant at the time. We recently got back together and I am kinda nervous about the whole sex thing. When we dated last we has a great sexual relationship but the last time we had sex I was well into my 8th month of ... (124 words

My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and that's the problem. To t... (657 words

I've split from my G/f but she's going to have our baby in 6 months time. Am I entitled to be at the birth of our baby?

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19 February 2012 (M age 51-59 - I have just split up with girlfriend and she is having our baby in approximately 6 months time. Please may I ask for anyone's kind advice in regards to if i I am definately entitled to be at the birth of my baby? I would very much apppreciate any advice At your earliest ... (69 words

Have my daughters inherited their streak of violence from their father?

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19 February 2012 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I'm looking for some thoughts/advice re a situation that is really stressing me. My daughter is 20 and she says she is bisexual and has a GF, who i've allowed to stay here for nearly a year (she lost her job and landlord evicted her). I said she could stay here a bit ... (404 words

My friend preferred to hang out with her sister and cancelled on me and now I feel left out

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19 February 2012 (F age 26-29 - Well first of all I should let you know I have depression issues, social anxiety and am soo paranoid and self conscious. I have this close friend who is funny enough, exactly like me in these areas, but the thing is she has a family of a mum, dad and two other sisters. I have ... (259 words

How do I distance myself from a friend that only uses me?

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19 February 2012 (F age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old woman and I have a friend whom I really love. I just have one problem. I dont think he really cares for me and I need to seperate myself from him, I just dont know how. Everytime he ask me for something I do my best to get it for him. He has never bought me ... (148 words

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