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*appy_Heart5
writes:Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles!...Me and my friends went out to a student night at a nightclub a couple of weeks ago. My friend introduced me to one of his friends at the club. My friend told me his friend had seen me a week before and was attracted to me.We hit it off straight away. He got my number. We met again on the dance floor and kissed. I went back to my friends and had a few drinks with them. He text me twice asking where I was and when I got home he phoned me.Since then we'd been texting, he'd asked to take me out on a date. We had an amazing time, we were together for 12 hours. I met him again the night after at the nightclub, we spent most of the night together again. I told him that I liked him, he said he felt the same. But then told me he was going away to work abroad at a bar. My friend told me that he didn't want to get with me in case he hurts me.But he's texted me saying he wants to spend as much time as he can with me before he goes.I really like him, I can wait, I doubt I could trust him though.I'm confused as to why he's led me on :-/
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 He is not leading you on because he told you he would be going away for a year, and he did not make any promises to you. He is attracted to you and is open to making out with you and create fond memories. What you do with him he has no control over. Trust goes both ways, he does not have any say to what you do during the day. I don't think it's practical to ask for exclusivity after just one meeting. He is not leading you on, though I don't see a point in dating someone just before moving away.
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 It's really simple. He saw you at the club and thought you were hot. His main goal is to get into your pants before he leaves abroad.
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