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What made my friend want to change the person she is?

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Question - (19 February 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why would my friend just suddenly wake up and say I want a change, I don't like the person I am? There was nothing wrong with her, but she obviously felt there was..

Before she was very confident, she'd walk up to guys easily and be in conversation, she's the one girl I know that is fearless with guys! She loved drinking and because of all the attention she gets, she always had a guy, whether it was just texting someone or going on a dates. She was crazy, loved going out and having fun, trying new things.

But now she is still very confident, but she doesn't walk up to guys as much or even care for them when she's out, so she doesn't seem interested in all these gorgeous guys or any of them really. Saying that, she's not crazy over going out as much, she said it's not as exciting anymore. She has one maybe two drinks instead of her usual bottle, pints and shots.

She's still fun and crazy, but it's like she changed how she see's things. I don't know what happened that night properly. But she just said it wasn't a good night out, it made her realise a few things and she didn't like the person university has turned her into? She's been out so many times before, why now has she wanted to change...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2012):

Maybe something happen to her that night and she is very ashame. Sometimes an individual doesnt change their way of acting until something trastic happens to them. It just but her in check that she needed to slow down. Maybe some day she will tell you but dont push her bring it up sometimes in conversation but dont hoar her with it. Maybe you can says something like " I love all these changes you dont with yourself, what was your inspiration or point that made you want to make these changes?

Do you get where I am coming from just rephase it?

Good luck!! Hope this helped.

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