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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a guy and I hate sex with my fiance

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do anymore. I hate having sex with her, and the thought of it now sadly, turns me off anymore. Whenever I try to get her in the mood, I am always shot down. And I mean always. So I stop wanting it, and then my fiance complains that she "feels she i... (196 words)

Is he just talking her up because he's in jail or is he marrying her for conjugal benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my ex and I broke up about 8 months ago since then he got a new girlfriend and they have been dating for 8 months now she 17 and he's 21. Everytime I see her all she does is brag about him infront of me and try's gives me attitude and supposedly they are getting marr... (218 words)

He swears on the kids that he will be back before May!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband left me for his mistress about two months ago and he doesn't think he is having an affair. I did send divorce papers right away but know I'm regretting it. We have been talking and he swears on the kids he will be back before may and wants to see if we can make it. ... (271 words)

Useful advice needed on this age difference!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this is confusing some people may think its absurd others may think its okay, but basically in 2009 i was in year eleven and i was going out with a year eight BUT his birthday was right by the dead line of the year thing, i cant remember what its called but if his ... (354 words)

Even though we aren't really ready for a baby, I'm terribly sad I'm not pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I were not trying to get pregnant, in fact we were trying to prevent it, but I had suspicion that I could be pregnant. I was having fatigue, upset belly, dark sensitive nipples. Then my period was several days late (incredibly unusual) and I was almost certain I ... (200 words)

I'm scared to start a new relationship because I don't want to hurt my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 20months 3 weeks ago, the relationship had started to go downhill at around the beginning of november, he still felt the same about me but I was starting to notice the spark disappear. In the beginning of December I started to have feelings for ... (177 words)

I wish he came with me to see my doctor!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I am probably being really selfish but tomorrow I have got to see my cardiologist (had heart surgery when I was 5)and my boyfriend goes to judo like every Wednesday on the dot! I am happy if he enjoys it and it doesnt bother me at all usually but tonight I have been really ... (343 words)

Obsessed with my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm happily engaged to a man who loves me. I do love him, more than I love anyone else in the world. (With the exception of my little brothers) He gives me everything I ever wanted and any normal person wouldn't be on a relationship forum complaining when they have the perfect ... (776 words)

Did or did he not cheat? Is he still?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was away for two weeks in September, while I was gone, apparently my boyfriend and best friend were doing alot of talking. It caused a huge argument and I stopped talking to my friend for a few months. Recently, I started talking to her again. I have had nothing but bad ... (337 words)

How woulda guy react to this news?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I tell someone that I've only dated a few months and had s?? with only once (recently) that I've been diagnosed mild dyskaryosis? I've been seeing him 6 months. It takes me ages to trust and get to know someone before I get intimate with them. I've had the treatmen... (210 words)

Emotional affair and got caught

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please give me advice as what to do. I had an emotional affair with a married man... I am married too. We never saw each other after the affai began but we had met previously thru work. We talked everyday and I loved him deeply. His wife caught him and things ended abr... (355 words)

Is the fact that she's pretty a good enough reason to ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this girl i like and want to ask out but i dont know if i should. The only reason i want to ask her out is because she's gorgeous, i dont really know much about her. We see each other once a week due to work, and because we are working we only really get to chat ... (123 words)

What's stopping him from asking me out????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am talking to a guy i met online a few weeks ago (about 3 weeks) and he seems really nice, and it seems like we have many things in common. He has told me he thinks i am really pretty and asked when he can start taking me on dates and we joke around but he hasnt yet asked me ... (117 words)

Should an ex still be attending family functions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it proper for My Husbands Ex to attend his neices Quinceanera (Sweet 15)? They have a 12 year Son together and he will be in the party? (kinda like a groomsmen) They were only married 1 year and we have been together 13 years (married 9). We have 2 kids of our own. I really ... (80 words)

I'm sure there's something wrong, but she won't talk about it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't work out what i have done or am doing, i am at my wits end emotionally and its because me and my wife are fighting over pretty much nothing. When you love someone, you know them, almost better than what they know themselves, so you know when something is wrong and how ... (260 words)

Breakup up, becoming friends and getting back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a few questions regarding my relationship. I would love to hear your opinions. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years after a nasty argument because "she couldn't love me they way I want her to" - She studies a full time post grad course so she's always stu... (630 words)

Lately it's all excuses

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone :\ i am really upset and need some advice with my relationship... Me and my gorgeous boyfriend have been together for over ten and a half months now, at the beginning of our relationship things were amazing. We always spend a lot of time together but recently... (202 words)

She is so ungrateful!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in this relationship going to 3 years now. Recently she told me something that really shocked me, she told me dat am stingy. Anytime she do ask me of something , in terms of finance, I make all my possible best to provide for her. Recently I was extremely broke ... (114 words)

How do I tell the truth? I lied about my name and my religion online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really need help. I have been talking to a girl I met online and we are good friends. We have been talking for about 3 months and I lied about who I am. I told her a fake name and religion and now I feel so guilty I want to tell her the truth but I do not want her to be ... (71 words)

Ideas needed please for my June wedding? I want to celebrate Irish and German culture at the wedding.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married in July and marrying a german man, im irish. In germany the wedding is 3 days and we are doing that but i have to bring irish and german culture together but It is difficult to plan it because we are from two different countries, the wedding is in Ge... (160 words)

Based on my personality what animal could I use to best describe me for this job question?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Lol. I've been asked an unusual question on an application form, and i'm not sure how to answer it. I'm applying for a job in a Pet Shop, and the question is to describe yourself as a pet, what would you would be and why!. I guess i need to think about my personality, and ... (107 words)

I'm curious to know if any of these girls ever liked me. Should I ask them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Got a good question for you. I'm still in contact with a number of girls that I used to like, with most of them we became friends. I'm very curious even though I have found a wonderful girl that I have asked to marry me. I still wonder if any of those girls ever liked me. I... (129 words)

How can I get him to understand why I messed up and get us back to how we were?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This sounds really pathetic considering I am so young, but hey, relationships are a big deal at my age. So here are my questions: 1. I have always had a soft spot for two of my closest guy mates and now I know one of them has developed even more feelings for me. We flirt all... (165 words)

Au naturale...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion.... (34 words)

A German in the middle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi and help I need your advice please. My name is Mr Birmingham, and I met Mr Poole on net 16 months ago and I have always been trouble because Mr Poole came out to his wife and accepted him for gay a couple of years before she died, 22 months ago, but before she died ... (599 words)

Why cant he be honest with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why cant he be honest??? Been seeing this guy for 15 month and I am coming to a major cross road, I am fed up. I feel I am getting nothing out of the relationship. He has been on several dating and sex sites off and on and when I address him about it he didnt take them down h... (408 words)

Sexual woes bode ill for my romantic life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've got a question which might seem a little silly but nevertheless, it pertains to a matter of some importance for me. To give you the rundown, I'm someone who watches porn on a daily basis and I fear this might have had insidious consequences on my ability to maintain ... (247 words)

Why is his friend trying to muscle in???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy, and one of his friends, who i have never met in person, has contacted me a few times. The guy i am dating wasn't aware that his friend did this until i told him. The first time his friend contacted me, he told me that the guy i am dating couldn't wait ... (275 words)

Why did she taste different???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hello I just have some simple questions. back in the second month me and my fiance(which is about 6 months ago) had sex for the first time and even though I knew a lot about foreplay and what to do and what I should do, I didn't know what I liked to do and whether to do certain ... (264 words)

What is the proper role of sexual attraction in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - OK Aunts, here is something that has been troubling me. How important should sexual attraction be in a relationship? The reason I ask is because sometimes I think sex and sexual attraction is a distraction and sort of leads us down the wrong path. How often does someone e... (172 words)

On a scale of 1 to 10, where 1=not important and 10=most important, how important should sexual attraction be in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

Am I his friend... or is there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (?) age 41-50 - What does it mean if a guy told me that I can stay with him at his mother's place when I visit his country? Does this mean he's treating me as a friend, did he firend zone me or what? I did not even suggest visiting with him at any time soon? Any ideas? thanks in advance. ... (60 words)

Why did my FWB lose his erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my new fwb eventually lost his erection yesterday when I gave him oral and then when we had sex the first time. he was fine when he was dominate but as soon as I got on top or gave him oral for a while, he loses it. I asked him why this happened and if I did something wrong, ... (127 words)

Was he offended I didn't take a drink off him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello Cupids! this question is probably silly but is confusing me nonetheless! I was just wondering about the meaning of a guy mate's, (call him bob), behavior towards me. basically, we went to the cinema, where he paid, and afterwards we went to the pub and he thought it wo... (156 words)

I'm bisexual, and if my mom gets to know she's going to kick me out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is that i'm bisexual, i haven't told her about me and my mom thinks that it's wrong. And yes, i know tht its wrong.. but i've dated 3 girls and more guys thn 7. Should i tell her? she might kick me out or tell my whole family and my aunt will report it to the ... (67 words)

My boyfriend's way too busy to settle down, but I don't think I can wait 4 years for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help soooo bad, and don't know what to do. About 3 1/2 years ago, my husband passed away from a tragic accident and left me with three kids. I dated a little afterwards, but never found anyone worth while. I stumbled upon an old friend from high school I graduat... (405 words)

Should I see this band? My ex might be there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I joined a meetup that meets to watch live music. The thing is it's at the place where my ex used to hang out. We had an ugly breakup. He dumped me by text after dating a year. Then he verbally abused me by text. I'm 110% sure he had someone else already lined up. He never gave ... (80 words)

What are people's thoughts on how to go about ending a LDR when the partner has health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All For the last six months ive been unhappy with my LDR, the relationship itself is great when together however time apart is hell. Neither of us will give up our jobs (weve discussed it many times) because we both have safe jobs and the job market is awful. We loo... (328 words)

Is he shy and only rings me when he has a few drinks for courage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need your help I met this guy back in September 2011 and I really do like him and we only got together in November 2011 but my problem with him is that I only ever hear from him when he is out with his friends and having afew drinks this is really annoying as I do like him... (139 words)

Should I tell him how I feel or should we stay as FWB?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem with this guy who i used to cam sex with, and he doesn't know that i still like him. Whenever i see him i always feel a certain feeling in my stomach. i don't know if it is butterflies or a stomach. should i tell him how i feel or stay FWBs?? (friends with ... (60 words)

If it turns out I am pregnant, should I tell him? I know for certain I will have an abortion and I'm afraid he might want to keep it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So about a 3 weeks ago, I had a friend of a friend who was visiting from overseas. We had sex, and although I've been on birth control for about four years, we did not use a condom. I was supposed to get my period this week, but did not. He is the only guy I've slept with ... (311 words)

My mum is being so immature and inconsiderate towards my dad now they have separated, how do I get her to stop?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum and dad separated over a year ago. Now my mum's trying to get revenge on him by putting flirty lovey dovey statuses on her fb. It's making me and my brother irritated. I want to tell her to grow up and leave my dad alone. I'm sick and disgusted with her immature crap. I ... (94 words)

Why does my boyfriend like to choke me? How "rough" is normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, So my guy and I have been together for two months or so now, and things seem pretty great. We see each other about once or twice a week, and usually we go out to dinner or to a movie. We have moved very fast emotionally and sexually, and to be completely honest i... (290 words)

Should I take him to court for paternity issues and child support?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well hellooo... its been awhile and I'm back! I'm now 38 weeks pregnant and my childs father still has nothing to do with us. I'm not entirely over it because its hard to understand how he loves and acknowledges his first born but not mine? How could he love one child and not ... (94 words)

I'm becoming obsessed by my BF's ex and cyber-stalking her. Should I tell him and how do I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, a little advice would be nice. My bf and I have been together for a year and a half, and I've been having this obsession with his ex for a quite a while now. I can't explain why I get this urge to know more and more about her, look at pictures of her, stalk her down on ... (377 words)

Our eight year relationship just broke up. Lost and sad. What can I do? .how do I get rid of hope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone ive been asking many questions about my 8 year relationship ending just recently. we were 14 when we met and broke up at 22. I realy love her so so much and want to be with her because she is an amazing person, almost like we deserve eachother. We are both just suc... (810 words)

I'm in love with my first cousin, I tried to push him away, but it only hurt us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, When I first moved to this country, I never imagined it would turn this bad. Everything was going so well, I found a boy who liked me a lot and we started going out. I was so happy. Then I went to my home town to visit family I had not seen in over 12 years, a... (224 words)

A guy online sends me raunchy messages. Should I stop talking to him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i met this guy in a Chatroom and he seems really nice but he's 21 and I'm 16 he texts me kind of raunchy stuff like where he wants to have sex with me but I told him I'm a virgin and he lives in NY and Im in Ohio he says he wants to hook up when I visit b/c I visit ny ... (100 words)

I'm in a horrible, controlling relationship, and I want to get out, but I cant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay. So this is going to be quite long but here goes. .... Iv been with my boyfriend 3 years. We live together. I love him, and iv got strong beliefs about relationships, I'm not the kind of person to just walk out on them. I'm by no means perfect. I'm human. I make silly ... (375 words)

Should I be worried about the lack of romance in this new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about five months. We are grown- I'm almost 30, he's 35... Our relationship is fantastic and I am very happy with him. But there is this one thing that keeps bothering me a little bit. He's not romantic, or lovey dovey, at all, really. ... (255 words)

I've completely ruined the most amazing thing I ever had just because I freaked out!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this amazing guy and we seemed to hit it off from the start. We spent every day together, having fun just doing anything..we just enjoyed each other's company no matter what we were doing. He told me all the time how much he loved me, how amazing he thought he was, ... (385 words)

I really would like to just go up and talk to this girl but I don't know how, nor can I work up the courage to say hello

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

8 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently began seeing this girl at different functions at my out of school activities. Being at an all boy school, I do not get as much girl interaction, but when ever I see her at events, I just gawk over her beauty. I know that I am not as attractive as so... (156 words)

If a guy writes that he is in love with you on his status message on facebook, do you think he really means it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy writes that he is in love with you on his status message on facebook, do you think he really means it?.He has told me that in person too. Would he only want everyone on his facebook page to see it if he really meant it?... (48 words)

I'm afraid I inadvertently told him to back off and ruined everything with my dumb response!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Going to try to keep this short--need some insight on how I can rectify this situation. I'm a 30 year old female, really like a guy who's 39. Due to our current situation, we can't fully say we have feelings for each other, but the signs have kind of been there and we're ... (384 words)

Why are his responses getting shorter? Is he into me or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had what appears to be a nice guy message me on a dating site. He initiated the contact, so that's a plus in my book. We've each replied once a day for a few days. I'm keeping it light and trying to ask him questions to get more info out of him. But for some reason each ... (130 words)

I lied about my age and now I'm afraid I might get caught in my lie

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I kinda have a problem. So I have been talking to this guy i met on the Internet for a while now and we want to meet up. He lives I a different state then I do but we are having our parents talk about maybe having me go to him, or him come to me. But I met him on a ... (172 words)

Do I text him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I'm recently single so have been going out with the girls as par. i met a guy on a night out took a while but he came up to me told me i was outstanding. came back to mine then day after his is manically texting me asking me to meet up again. we arranged a date few days lat... (411 words)