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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel so guilty for missing my ex and wishing I was with him. What can I do? It feels wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have no idea what to do, I have a boyfriend who I love and I see when I'm at school. But also I see my ex everyday at school. I think I still have feelings for my ex, I don't know if they're love or just miss how we were, since my ex I have been with 2 guys.... (247 words)

Does this guy like me? and how do I respond?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Seriously confusing guy here aunts. i've known this guy for some time from school. he's a bit of a show off and a clown who likes to make fun of people. hes never really noticed me (we never were friends and we never have seen each other outside school) but all of a sudden he w... (198 words)

Why can't I just erase everything from my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have deleted my ex's mobile number and all his/my messages to each other. Why/what is stopping me deleting him from facebook? He has a girlfriend but I believe he has restricted my access to his wall. Why can't I do the final 'nail in the coffin' so to speak?I know w... (100 words)

Is he annoyed with getting with me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello:) I've got a few questions, but first, here's a quick overview. Basically i'm almost 16 and i had my first kiss last weekend. It was at a party but the guy and i had been talking for about 3 hours, during which time i had tested him to make sure it wasn't a quick t... (277 words)

He came to visit so we could meet in person, but I caught him talking on the phone with other women during his visit.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I finally met the man I was talking to online, and that was afraid to meet because I am too shy and did not drive. We met in person two weeks ago, and he is the sweetest and most gentleman man I have ever met; he drove the whole time so I did not feel uncomfortab... (828 words)

My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. The other night, however, he ... (118 words)

How do I let him go, when I'm not even sure that I can?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again aunts and uncles. Title speaks for itself really! How do you let someone go from your life, when you genuinely don't think you can do it?? I know what people will say as i have commented on many posts just like this, "keep yourself busy", "take up a hobby you enjo... (283 words)

What to do with old sex tapes? When to get rid of them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I think it's fairly likely that I will be in a new relationship soon and I'm not quite sure what to do with sex tapes that were made with about 7 or 8 different partners over the past ten years or so. I suspect that if we become a couple she'd be really upset if she fou... (185 words)

Strange situations cropping up make me think my husband is fooling around

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

- There are three things I'm concerned about. 1) There's a woman at my husband's job that's always texting him. I've seen her messages a few times when we're together(sometimes he tells me to grab the phone and see who it is). I haven't said too much about it but I don't like ... (414 words)

We are going on a walk for our date. I need tips so its not boring!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I fixed a meeting with a girl whom i really like.we plan on taking a walk when we meet,but i'm so shy and i don't know want to mess up this date.please help me with tips that i need to make this walk with her the best and not a boring,one sided conversation.thanks ... (57 words)

Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother as he told me he had. He ... (222 words)

How do I meet someone new and not compare them to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, in need of some help as I'm at a total loss right now. I've not long come out of a long term relationship with a married man and my self esteem is at an all time low.he left her for me but then carried on seeing us both behind the other ones back. Well after finnally c... (174 words)

How do I tell this guy I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There's a possibility that I could be pregnant. The father of the child is a friend of mine who when I first met a few months ago, I really liked, but then we decided to just have casual sex- no labels, no commitment. We became good friends and we intend on being good friends ... (154 words)

Boyfriend has so many girls that he calls sweet names!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too,but he has so many female friends dat he claims dat they're just his casual friend while he always call some sweet names.wen ever i complian,he'll say i'm hyper-jealous.wat should i do.... (42 words)

My Fianceé is still in love with his ex Should I break up ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i have been really chocked about something here it goes my fiancée was with his ex girl friend these days and littarly he begged her to come back to him he lied to me that he did love me he lied to me about everything then he tells me that ti wasn't his fault he could... (348 words)

I am trying to help a girl, but I don't know where I am at

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys. I got a problem, and will try to keep it short, for the sake of sparing you time.. I got to meet a girl who is having a bad time in her relationship. I have a protecting instinct, so I blew up her relationship with her boyfriend a week ago and we started to co... (606 words)

Is masturbation harmful to a man around 80 years old??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age - is masterbation harmful for an old man,say 80 years old? ... (12 words)

Is it possible for an interracial relationship to be successful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Could it be possible for a black girl and a white guy to have a succesful relationship? Or is the cultural differences too much? I'm an African American girl and i've being thinking of going out with this guy i'm in college with but i've asked a couple of my friends this ... (79 words)

Retrospective jealousy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a woman seriously for close to a year. I recently found out she had slept with a few guys I know (I wouldn't say they're my close friends, but we run in the same circles.) When I asked if she had been with them, she responded by saying it was years ago, and i... (148 words)

How do I become close to a girl who is in a relationship with another? Should I?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What should i do in order to win the heart of a girl who is in a relationship, even though i might not be able to see her often because of her studies? how do i become very close to her?... (42 words)

How can I encourage him? My boyfriend is not affectionate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months. We have only held hands once. I just find it wierd that he does not want to hold my hand, hug, or kiss me. I try to hint to him that I want him to hold my hand, but I don't think he gets them. What should I do?... (61 words)

Is this dating? every time we meet we end up in bed together

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy who is 16 years older than me. I say dating loosely, it seems like every time we meet we end up in bed together. He is a nice guy in general, but as time goes on I feel like he likes to spend more time with his family and friends more than he like... (122 words)

25 years together. What does this cheating ex want from me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age - Four years ago I caught my husband of 18 years cheating with a online woman, I took him back, but never got over the pain and the betrayal. I thought we were destined to be together forever, because of the way he treated me like a princess, One yr and half ago he walked o... (297 words)

He's sexually experienced while I'm still a virgin by choice. Can we work out a compromise for our relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for several months now, and we have come to really care about each other a great deal. We are almost inseparable. We have spent weeks at a time together, and still missed each other when parting ways. There has only been one real problem: He i... (188 words)

He says this other girl has a crush on him. Can I trust him, that it's normal for this to happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf says theres a girl who likes him, and i asked him if he liked her back. he said yes, as a crush. i got upset and said 'so basically youre close to loving her, you like her a lot more than a friend' he said no, that he just likes her, but not even close to being in lov... (124 words)

All the girls like him. I do too. But I'm not allowed to date. He's asked me out. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, this will be long so just stick with me. I'm 15 and i've been head over heels in love with this guy for 4 years.(we've known each other ever since like, senior infants.) he's had many girlfriends and has many girl friends (get me?) because hes so popular and good looking.... (257 words)

He's 26, I'm 18. Do you think he's thinking about asking me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once... I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Later he started messagin... (184 words)

What are the best tips top get to sleep and sleep well without medication?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never slept well, not for years . And I just accept that this is how I am , but can anyone give me any good tips on how to get some uninterrupted sleep? 4 to 5 hours seems to be my limit. I talked about it to my doctor but he seems to think I am doing fine and that thi... (96 words)

Why do these women at my office think that its OK to be so bitchy to other workers? And can anyone tell me what I can do to not let this 'get' to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I work in a mainly female work area. There are some much older very experienced men. But then men seem to stick together and that bothers no one. Some of them are dinosaures. One has to get help to look at his emails and none of them like using the computers much. And one f... (875 words)

I do not want to be pushy. I'm confused. But does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm kinda confused about a situation with a guy. We're both 17. He's in the same grade as me, but we are in different classes. My best friend goes to his class. So we went to a party together, him, my friend and I. We had a lot fun, and we spent a lot of time together... (466 words)

How can he so easily forget what we have? I'm blonde. His blonde jokes offended me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunts. This guy and I met 4 months ago and things have been moving really smoothly infact, better than I had predicted. He checks on me a lot, calls me often and its the first time I've been in a relationship where the guy is so into me. We haven't had sex yet and are ... (257 words)

What does he mean? Is he flat out caring for his Mom or is he married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age - I was having a conversation with the man I have been involved with for quite a while now and i told him that at times "I felt as though I was involved with a married man". Based on past behavior patterns that a lot of married men exhibit. His response to this statement w... (172 words)

Do you know any links to good artices in DearCupid please re fellatio?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started dating after getting out of a 15 year marriage. My ex never liked blow jobs and really zapped my confidence with his criticism so I need a step by step guide of giving a good bj. Thanks!... (40 words)

Is he just flirting with no intention of taking things further or is there hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with this guy whose league am totally out of. He basically has all that life has to offer(money, looks etc) while I am from a simple background. We have a career match though because we are both finishing grad school in the same subject in a few months. The prob... (251 words)

Do you think he likes me? By his body language?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! :). I know this may sound stupid but I am head over heels with this guy so I'm just asking. :) I'm a 15 year old girl in 9th grade. We just started new classes and in my 2nd block I have Spanish 1. Well, this boy sits in front of me on the other side of the room. E... (204 words)

My past is haunting me. Who DO I love really?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey,well im 17 and im feel very lost right now.well heres my story I used to date a guy about 2 years ago "yes i know young" but the problem is now im dating a NEW guy He's like everything a girl could ask for. He treats me like no other guy can. I'm his world. We're like ... (137 words)

He's Flirt-texting another woman. Is he thinking about cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been living together for over a year now but we also have a roommate, my boyfriend's best friend. (I'll call him R). Now R has had this on again/ off again relationship with a girl (I'll call her A) for months now, and at this point they're more like... (571 words)

Am I trying too hard to spice things up on Valentine's day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so another advice; For valentines day I bought this really sexy little outfit ( btw, today was the day my bf moved into his new place and our offical 1 yr ann. Is comming up on the 28th) anywho, so I bought the outfit and a lamp he likes; told him for vday he gets the lamp... (102 words)

Why does she involve her friends in making decisions for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok i have loved this girl for over a year or so she goes to my college and everything but i have lost trust in her over these months. We share fb passwords and i realised that she has often told her friends somethings i would of liked to be between us and she has called idio... (318 words)

What can I do to avoid or discourage this teacher's creepy actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this teacher in my school who is new this year. I do not have him as my teacher so I don't understand why he constantly tries to talk to me all the time especially in the hallways. Half the time he ends up walking into school around the same time as me and insists he h... (156 words)

Virgin question: So should I be the one to expect more out of a woman who is experienced?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Its becoming more and more apparent everyday that im going to be the only one where I live who is still a virgin. Day by day the chances for me to find a woman who has the same values as me is dwindling. It would be a real bonus I found someone who hasn't yet explored that aspe... (160 words)

He seemed keen but never asked me out. Now he ignores me completely. Is it just that I am not really his type?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story shot. This guy really liked me, put in a huge effort. Text me everyday always tried to hang out with me, always invited me out to eat. However he never made a move, nor did he ask me out on a date. Anways after a few months he made a comment to my best friend t... (143 words)

Instead of being concerned when I was stuck on the road with a flat tire, my B/f messaged "lmao" and asked if I could hang out on Friday night! I'm so mad at him!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and we just got back together after a breakup. He promised me he would change anyway, yesterday i was on the freeway and got a flat tire and was stranded. When it happened my boyfriend text me and asked me what i ... (155 words)

Every time I ask my partner to change positions or try something different, he goes limp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been engaged since mid september and my fiancé and I truly love each other. There is one problem. Every time I ask him to change positions or say lets try this... He goes limp and can't get up for like a hour if it at all. I always say it nicely and try getting him up ... (73 words)

Should I pursue my ex again? I cant live without her yet a part of me says its a huge mistake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I am in a lot of pain. My ex broke up with me after a 4 year relation when I immigrated to USA in Feb 2011. She was my life. She ended up with a sorry ecard and the reason being our lots of differences. The whole 4 years were a period of constant fights over religiou... (640 words)

It's complicated, but she doesn't want to put in the effort. I really do care for her!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an issue. I am complicated with a girl that I've since highschool. We have gone out our senior year for a year into our freshman year of college (which was long distance) until complications got in the way. After our breakup, for about a year now, we have been very c... (353 words)

Extremely insecure about my wife and very depressed because I cant give her a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

11 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 and married to a 31 year old Irish woman. We are together 3 years and married almost a year and a half. I have never felt insecure about a woman ever i always felt no never im divorced 8 years and with my ex i never felt insecure but we divorced when she cheated but ... (590 words)

He rejected me, now he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What do I do if a guy who rejected me, is now asking me out? First he said he just liked me as a friend and couldn't see me in a romantic way. He said that last year if I had asked him earlier, he thought things might've been different. He started pursuing other women who ... (159 words)