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writes:My ex confuses me at most times. Lately he always says how he misses me etc. Me and him are friends now, and we talk often. However, I haven't bothered lately because I've been extremely busy. So he always says how he misses me but I don't really say it back. He always calls but I don't really call him at all..he was saying he feels "emotional" because he misses me and feels he hasn't spoken to me in ages. But I said to him "we only spoke the other day and I message you nearly everyday". He said "but I miss you" and when we were talking on the phone he kept saying "(my name) I miss you". Anyway, he has a girlfriend but almost all the time denies her existence. About a week ago (2 days before valentines day) he was telling me how he's no longer with his gf. I don't get what his problem is to be honest. I said to him "don't be silly, you love her and of course your with her". He kept saying he ain't and then 5mins later he said he's joking. I just don't get why he makes out as though he ain't got a gf or that he's single. He's said to many times before "how do you know I ain't single and I'm not lying?" Which guys denies he has a gf when he blatantly does?!So I'm just wondering, does my ex still have feelings for me?? Why does he say things like him not being with his gf no more??Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo you think he wants me? Just don't see why he says things like that. Just no need for it. I have tried to distance myself hence the fact I don't bother. But he's said before in the past, it'll always be him who contacts me even if I stop talking to him. He'll run back to me.
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reader, bardia  +, writes (19 February 2012):
 Because he's a selfish, noncommittal, attention-whore who wants what he can't have. There are so many guys who seem to do this (I'm sure girls, too). But like you said, he says he doesn't have a GF but then says he's "joking"? How pathological is that? Even though it sounds like you're ok with being just friends, I'd honestly stop all contact. It's not fair to his GF that he's contacting you like this. And you don't need to encourage this kind of drama-seeker. Just ignore him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): He is trying to tell you he wants you back but as yet has not plucked up the courage just incase it backfires
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