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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Controlling ex has made it difficult for me to talk to people

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a boyfriend who was really controlling and he stopped me from talking to anyone but him. Obviously i ended it with him, but now i'm finding it really hard to start conversations with people and i'm no where near as sociable as i used to be. I even find it hard to have a ... (72 words)

Should I stay with him and give him an opportunity to prove himself?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so this is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. When we met, he was having problems with his girlfriend and I was having problems with my boyfriend. We both dumped them and started going out. Everything was great! Feelings of love sprouted... (642 words)

Relationship gets worse - emotional girlfriend is never happy about what I do

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I am together with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and we moved together 6-7 months ago. She is in a medical doctoral program (class based) and I am in a Engineering doctoral program (research based) as well. School is very stressy for her and about a week ago... (396 words)

B/f gave me his password to facebook but I seen messages I didn't like should I talk to him about them?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about a month now, and he gave me his facebook password yesterday when i was at his place. I looked at some of his private messages when i was with him at his place, but i looked at some more when i got home too,and i didn't like some things i ... (641 words)

Do you think these are signs that he likes me?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I was just wondering as there's this guy I like as to whether these are signs that he likes me to we were talking the other day about when you are not looking for love you find it he told me when you are not looking it is staring you right in the face he always ... (92 words)

Why is he playing with me like this?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is this guy playing with me like this? is this some sort of a sick game? So there's this guy that I like. He'd stare all at me all the time. I gave him my number and he'd ring me and text me. But whenever we made plans to go on a date he'd stand up. So I gave up... (320 words)

We dated, he dropped out of sight and then told me he fell for me too hard?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age - I dated this man for 3 months. Then all of a sudden he just stopped calling. When I finally did talk to him, he told me that he needed a break. So for 2 weeks I didn't hear from him. Out of the blue last Friday, he called and I wasn't able to get to the phone, so he left a ... (183 words)

My parents are starting to ask about my boyfriend's family, what do I tell them?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem regarding my parents and my boyfriend's background. Long story short, my boyfriend is adopted and his real parents are in a different country with the rest of his siblings. His foster mom is currently fighting a deathly cancer. Before his mom was diagnosed with ... (283 words)

16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text messages facebook etc. I went ... (172 words)

I like him but I'm wondering if he's gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need some advice, I've met a really lovely guy who is in tbe military. But I'm concerned he might be gay. He can be camp at times, loves cleaning and ironing it took 7 dates for him to kiss me which I instigated and also said his male boss massages his sho... (150 words)

Husband are I are moving back to his hometown where he has alot of ex girlfriends!

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are in a situation where we need to move closer to his work. Unfortunately, that move will take us to the small town he grew up in. That town has LOTS of his ex girlfriends in it. (He was quite the cassanova) I am upset about this move since I won't be able to ... (140 words)

I'm always there for him but he doesn't want me as a girlfriend

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He been tellign em how much he ... (228 words)

How do I survive a long distance relationship?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help agony aunts! Very soon, I'm going to be in an LDR with my fiance of 2 years. He plans to move where I am as soon as he finishes up his bachelors, which is about another 2 years. It doesn't seem like his family agrees with this decision, as there are few career ... (86 words)

Our relationship is already trouble, how do I now tell him I had a miscarriage?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had a misscarrage and me and my boyfriend have just been through a rough patch and the things are still a bit awkward how do I tell him?... (30 words)

What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work today and many of the woma... (167 words)

Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me? When I was young.. I was 15 and she was 17 There was this guy that liked me but I didn't like him I liked his friend. He asked to hang out so I brought my cousin for him and I got with his friend and he ... (273 words)

After being raped, are women ever able to enjoy sex?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Nearly three years ago I was raped, so I have never had sex other than that one time. I have started a relationship with someone and I like him and he respects me, but I don't want to have sex. Do other women actually want sex after rape or do they just do it to move on? I ... (73 words)

My boyfriend has suddenly gone crazy over my male friend being at the party with me and now he is ignoring me! What should I do?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and half years. And I love him more than words can say. He has the potential to be an amazing partner, friend, lover, etc. But, he has put me through a lot in a short amount of time. Everything from cheating, disappearing, leaving ... (412 words)

Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the time for girls. my bf a... (674 words)

How can I make him see how right we are for each other?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing someone for the best part of 5 years, although it has been on-off for the last 2 years. Yes we sometimes argue and its obviously not going to be like the honeymoon period 24/7, but we have so much fun together and so much love between us. We just connect and ... (193 words)

I want to give him this letter now I've told him my biggest secret, but he is being weird about it. What should I do?

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20 February 2012 (F)

- Hi all. On Thursday I revealed my biggest secret to date- I was sexually abused by my cousin for 4 years. (23 years old now). I never open up about my feelings but I told this friend finally. It was extremely difficult and slightly harder because he is a male. He knows of my ... (313 words)

Were these the actions of a platonic friend, or does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

20 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and have a crush on a girl a year younger than me at work. We are both part timers at a restaurant, and our boss owns the bar next door. There was a party in the bar one night and being a dishwasher in the restaurant, I was not needed, but stayed to have some drinks out ... (175 words)

I lost him once before and I don't want to lose him again, but I'm not ready to lose my virginity either!

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started seeing this guy, only it didnt happen the way it normally would, I already knew him because we dated over a year ago. Then I bumped into him last week and he said we should go for a drink sometime and I mentioned that I was having a house party and that he ... (155 words)

I feel taken for granted, trapped in my flat and frankly bored.

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have always had an up and down relationship but great sex and alot of laughs for the first few years, he is probably the funniest person I know. Having been together for 10 years (bar a year and a half apart) I have always felt that I have made the majority ... (702 words)

Recent rocky relationship and now we have an ex back in the picture!

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for over 6 yrs, but for the past 12 mths it has been rocky, I have asked him to leave but he won't, he thinks.that we will get back to how we. were but I know we won't. I went out at the wkd and saw an ex, he told me that I was the one and that he ... (93 words)

My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took me to london on the weekend, we ... (675 words)

So with the new date, do I tell him about my ex and what about the conditions he puts on our dating? And why does my ex want to deter me from dating?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Topic 1: My Ex Recently I broke up with a b/f of over a year, we didnt have any sort of falling out, we simply cant/couldnt be together because of issues outside of our control. Since we both admitted that we didnt think we could wait like 10 years to be together (we are... (631 words)

Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically found out about their affair at ... (724 words)

How can I keep and increase the communication we share?

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - the this girl who I am chatting with on some social network, you see we started when a friend of mine introduced me to her, so we decided to go private to know each other well. ever since that day we've communicated wonderfully, talk about about everything, that has let us even ... (134 words)

Girlfriend is becoming fearful about moving with me even though I've done everything to make her feel secure

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20 February 2012 (M)

age - Hello everyone! My partner and I have been living in her house that she rents for nearly six months - unfortunately its going on the market so we have to move. However, fortunately I have my own home about 75m away so we're moving into that. It'll be an upheavale for he... (202 words)

My b/f says I will tempt him to cheat because I won't have sex before marriage

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i have aboyfriend i intend to get married to,am 25 years and want to settle.we slated adate in actober this year to get married.he wants to have sex with me but i want to have sex after legalised marriage.whenever we go out i came back late so i cant go back home i s... (79 words)

I'm concerned about the control issues and him making me feel bad when he should want me to feel pretty, and the jealousy he says he does not have!

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I just came home from a major surgery and the first thing my husband did was turn the tv on and start some porn he recorded (one of several shows he recorded on a night I was still in the hospital) He was saying something like "just so you know, I got bored, so" and by the time ... (752 words)

I'm getting tired of defending myself against boyfriend's thoughts that I might cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I began dating exclusively from the day we met. He calls frequently and tells me he can't live without me and if anything is a bit over-possesive. He always makes comments that imply that I'm ready to have an affair with the very next man that appears on my do... (132 words)

Now that I have the chance to get back with my b/f something is holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! See I was with this guy for about 4 years, we had a son but he treated me really bad. We both were just really immature about everything. Until one day i could not take it anymore, i called it off. I started seeing another guy and at first he was nice, but the ... (317 words)

He was abusive and I need to move on. Tips please on how to move on and forget him?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age - ModNote: no mention of charges laid against the OP so I am not calling this a crime. Instead I belive the Op was the victim from reading this account. I met this man in 1987... We have been in and out of love, or what I thought was love now I'm 53 and he has left me... hopefu... (709 words)

My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious about our relation... (875 words)

I love him madly. But he's starting to behave in ways that suggest I will get hurt. What are my options?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ModNote: out of compassion text speak was corrected. However the level of Text Speak orginally was more than is usual. Please next time - less Text speak? Hi everyone. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months now and I have known him since over a year. We became... (276 words)

I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would think oh he's just upset beca... (438 words)

Hot then cold then... Lukewarm?

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm slowly losing my mind trying to figure out if I should start moving on or if I still have a reason to be hopeful, because in the span of three weeks, this situation I stumbled into has gone from promising to frozen. So there's this girl on my club sports team, we see eac... (458 words)

If he has feelings for me why is he doing this?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys,i have been with my boyfriend fora couple of months,i hardly saw him because he was busy with work,travelling frequently.Anyway last night he sent me a text sayin: 'Hi,i i know its late but i have to tell you this cos i have been thinking about you.After a thorough... (101 words)

The new guy has made me question the last 7 years of my life. What do I do about my B/f now?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I leave? This is such a long story so I'll try give you short version. I want to start off by saying he is a good guy and with the right girl he could make her happy. We've been together for 14 years. I got pregnet with our 1st child at a very young ag... (877 words)

Why are women so competitive about other women's weight loss?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I am wondering why women are so competitive about other women's weight loss/body transformations. I lost 20 lb.s and worked really hard in the gym and am on a very strict diet. Some women are complimentary but to others it seems like a competiton. PS--About me: I am low ... (76 words)

Am I just not good at giving hand jobs, or what? Why does my B/f never ejaculate?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've given my boyfriend quite a few handjobs when were kissing. He always seems to enjoy it quite a bit, especially once i get going and he's breathing hard. However, he never ejaculates. Once his breathing gets really heavy, he generally slows down everything and I gradually ... (65 words)

I feel like I`m trying hard to be better but he`s still not interested in sex

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hopefully you all will understand the connection...I asked my boyfriend why we weren't being intimate with each other and he said I need to be nice to him so that he's happy when we are intimate. It was the first time I realized what an over protective girlfriend I'd been and ... (191 words)

Am I being unfair or not? He wants all the attention but calls me selfish.

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20 February 2012 (F)

age - Hi Aunt's.I'd like a little help here please. I have been seeing someone for about 5 years.we enjoy sex together but i have a problem with his selfishness in showing affection to me. He seems to think i should be doting on him all the time,while he has to do very little of th... (262 words)

My little sister is flirting with a guy I like. How do I deal with that?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay soo there this guy i school I hadnt really ever spoken to much before, but recently i started talking to him more because we have a class together this semester. He's a pretty cool guy, funny, really smart too. I also like the fact that he like sports as much as i do. But... (136 words)

Is it a phase, me thinking I could be gay? Could the suicide of my ex still be complicating my life right now?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly think Im gay. I've never been this is love with a girl. My mom says its just a phase and what Im thinking is love is really in need of friendship. My ex recently committed suicide and it took me a while to get over it but i smiled and was happy when I spent time wit... (72 words)

Seriously ! I do have the biggest crush on a guy four years older than me. What do you suggest I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm almost 17 and very shy person. I have the biggest crush on this guy from work who is like four years older than me. I have really talked to him, like have an actual conversation with him. I really don't know what to do. Everytime I see him or I'm around him I get re... (127 words)

He is so nice to me. But My friends talk him down. What do others make of this situation?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i was broke up for 3 weeks i begged him to get back with me he said no he didn't want a relationship. Then i stopped talking to him ignored him and then he was the one who was wanting to be together again he said he loved me so much he was afraid to lose me. ... (412 words)

Can I leave home and be OK with my Girlfriend? I'm scared to do so, but I am sick of the fights at home.

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im only 17 years old and i believe that i am gay. It may be a phase but so far i really don't think it is. Recently my parents and I had a disagreement with it all and they make me feel like Im nothing when I know Im better then what they think i am. I want to leave home, b... (118 words)

His ideas about sex differ from mine. He gets huffy when I don't want to talk about it. How to I keep him interested?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Short and sweet I hope:: I talk to this guy pretty regularly. Daily mostly. If we can't talk in person we talk on line somehow. The bad thing is we dont agree on sex because I'd like to think love happens before sex in most cases around my age range but it disappoints me that... (170 words)

How can I gain the trust and show her I care? She's been hurt in the past

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I really like. I mean I'm crazy about her :) But she's been hurt badly in the past and so isn't willing to chance anything :( I want to help her understand that I'm not like other guys. I want her to believe this because it's true. I would give ... (130 words)

How can I compete with my wife's new sex toy? It gets more action than me

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I got my wife a new toy. It seems the toy is getting more action than me. However, she has NO problem giving me oral sex. I seem to get more oral sex now and she seems to use her toy more. Is this normal?... (49 words)

Why does she still put me down? I just can't seem to do anything right in this relationship

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20 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - i am 38 and i am in A relationship with A woman that just can't take my advice without thinking that I am trying to change her or be controlling. I am A decent man that has had issues with addiction in my past and have gone through great lengths to change my old ways. I spen... (130 words)

What does he mean? He's says I'm and open book with no writing in it.

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I like this guy and he knows I like him but he never told me if he likes me or not so he started saying he likes some girl everyones saying he likes me and is trying to get me jealous. I didnt give any reactions and he goes Im like an open book with no writing in it what ... (64 words)

He delays fixing things around the house. What can I do with him? Yet he freaks if I call a tradesman!

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so frustrated with my husband. It takes him forever to get around to fixing things around the house. It's not that he's not capable. It's not that he doesn't have the time or money. It's not that I push him to do things every week-end. But for instance, the toilet... (365 words)

I know he doesn't love me but why is he treating me like that after all I been there for him?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My case is with a friend. He and I were co-workers, his girlfriend worked in the same place too. He liked to flirted with me and various people commented on that I never wanted to mess with him and do not pick quarrels with his girlfriend. He began to lose his money and she ... (493 words)

What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards everyone?

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20 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards their partners,children,family even friends as i know of a person just like this and i am finding it hard to understand how anyone can be like this towards anyone who has caused them no harm... (47 words)