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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can a woman propose to her boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In this day and age, is it completely out of line for a woman to propose to a man?... (19 words)

How do I bring up my bondage fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a soft bondage fetish, nothing extreme. I have read around on the subject of bringing it up and I realise that I have to start with fuzzy handcuffs etc. until she's ready. However, how should I bring up the conversation? I have been with my girlfriend for nearly two m... (59 words)

Is it a myth or truth that you see loved ones before you pass away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My uncle was recently diagnosed with bowel cancer after prolonged suffering brushing the problem under the carpet hoping it would go away he is 70 yrs old and had always lead an active life style he had surgery last week to remove it tonight i visited him in hospital and his ... (139 words)

Do you remember how/why you found Dear Cupid and did it help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Not a dating/relationship question as such, but just curious...Do you remember why/how you came across Dear Cupid and do you take that into account when answering questions? E.G. When you tell someone to move on/dump their partner, do you actually remember how you felt in ... (210 words)

Anyone know anything about aupair websites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. I would like to know if any of you have ever uses aupair websites? I would like to be an aupai, I've registerd to a site but I'm not sure if its worth it. Any advice? Did it work for anyone? ... (43 words)

All she can talk about is her b/f and it's wearing thin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I'm a 15 year old girl and am experiencing, 'issues' with my best friend. Around five months ago my friend got together with a boy that she really liked, and she's really happy with him. At first I was really happy for her, but now, not so much. As harsh as this so... (230 words)

He has a female friend who I feel is inappropriate.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and have lived together for a year. He is currently in Afghanistan with the military. He has a female friend who I feel is inappropriate. She often sends him pictures to his phone of little notes saying "love you... (475 words)

Could fate bring us back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you honestly believe if two people are meant to be together that they will meet again? Because I made a stupid, stupid mistake! I'm not going to go into what happened. It was down to miscommunication and things being twisted and misconstrued. Which is why it is more ... (199 words)

Will he lose interest? Did we move too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I got drunk 2 nights ago and went to a guys place. He's someone I liked, and have met a few times, hes come over, and we've talked before and flirted. He asked me over and we kissed, he rrespectd me and we didn't do anything that night except sleep. The next morning we ... (133 words)

He has a g/f, but am I reading his actions the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I’ve got a question concerning my friend. I’m a bi-curious guy so perhaps i’m reading into it to much, but this has been bugging me for a while now. Me and my housemate are quite good friends, but some of the stuff he does kind of makes me wonder. He has a girlfriend, and ... (227 words)

Is he just scared of being gay or is he just messing with my emotions for fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im not sure if im just going nuts or what but i swear my best friend is screwing with my head. he knows im gay and he knows im in love with him, but he has a girlfriend who he is on and off with constantly. when we're just chilling out or whatever he'll put his legs o... (294 words)

I really want to change my promiscuous ways! Please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was a very promiscuous girl, from 18-24. I would sleep withguys (oral sex mostly) without knowing them that well, it was REALLY easy to get me in bed. I couldn't form lasting relationships b/c of this. I didn't want to be with a guy i slept with already (b/c the excitement ... (446 words)

How can I get my buddy to stop bugging me about my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Dear cupid-ers! So, I have a question for ya'll I would ask my friends but .. Its about them really haha! So, Ive had a girlfriend for the past year and a half and i love her with all my heart, she is the one for me without a doubt and we regulary talk about our ... (680 words)

I think I may be pregnant with my married FWB's baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this isn't a relationship question but didn't know where else to ask I have recently three weeks ago finished with my fwb as I found out he was married with three kids now I think I am pregnant I keep on feeling sick and I'm really tired all the time I already have ... (83 words)

I think she only wants me on her terms and I've had enough now, should I tell her I don't want this kind of friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my friend are coworkers. She was my schoolmates for two years but we don't know each other very much. when she joins she has a boyfriend who is going to marry someone else they did not marry each other because of religion. I was attracted toward her right from the school ... (479 words)

He stopped contacting me after things got sexual, now we are talking again but is he ever going to ask me out again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a man pull back when you get physical with him? I have been dating this guy and I know that we are not exclusive ..but I did some sexual things with him. I noticed that he texted me less after that. He used to text and say good morning all the time. He has stopped ... (171 words)

Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She did!! and it was obvious she ... (418 words)

My boyfriend wants a 10 month break....how do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. The first 4 years were long-distance. It was very hard, but we all got through it. We have been together when we were 19 years old and 18 years old. We are each other first love. We saved money during the year and visited ... (873 words)

I had to leave my daughter with my ex in order to get out of the relationship and now it is so difficult to get to see her, is my ex's behaviour normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex for a year and half. we went through a lot together. we had a baby girl few months ago. i eventually realised that i have no friends left due to him alienating them all and few family members too. he always kept hold of my bank cards and never wanted to be seen ... (434 words)

Is it fine to casually date two women before choosing whom I want to be with? Does that make me a player?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - After a tough break up last year, I've been only getting out to start dating now. I met one lady at start of February, I've met her 4 other times now, even cooked her breakfast. I met another girl two weeks ago, that wouldn't work out. I met another girl this weekend, we spent ... (176 words)

I've been reflecting on my relationship, and I feel that although I love my B/f and want him to be happy, it feels one-sided, and I'm not sure I want to carry on in this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help to weigh up my relationship, please. I feel I put in most of the effort and it is starting to get to me. We've been together 18 months. It feels like i'm always the one suggesting things to do, like going to the cinema or out for the day; or making the ... (512 words)

I feel like my friends are avoiding me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4570 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:( We are 4 girls close friend sin... (922 words)

Troubled relationship with my mom is really getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm finding my mother really difficult to deal with. I just don't know what I can do for her anymore. She has no friends, no partner, she's 50% of the time very bitter towards everyone. Everyone is wrong and she is right. Shes always ill. I get tired of trying ... (675 words)

He wanted to know why I asked him if he had a girlfriend, should I tell him it's because I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - l have been liking this guy for 3 months now, his actions seems like he likes me too. He finds excuses to talk to me, l catch him looking at me and he once asked me 4 months ago if l had a boyfrend of which l said yes because l was dating someone at the time. Now am ... (130 words)

Is there something wrong with me because I'm attracted to innocent looking women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guy's, just a little concerned about my taste in women!, usually when i go out etc i have quite a strong attraction towards really innocent looking girls/women (quiet looking, really cute/doll/young faced) and while my friend's are after the "hot" one who i also agree is ... (132 words)

Is he gay? Is he into me? Why does he want to meet me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on a random social network. I am from California and he's from one of the southern states. I am crazy in love with him. We talk so much. We text every single day. He leaves me audio notes and video notes on my phone. Now he tells me he doesn't like the ways of ... (206 words)

What can I do to make sex happen more often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my gf for 6 months and for the first 3 months we had sex every day sometimes twice or three times. But the last few months we have been having sec less and less and I don't low why, it doesn't bother me if we don't have sex so often but it kills her and she ... (208 words)

How can I become a father-like figure to my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend and all would be fine, but more and more she keeps hinting to me that she wants me to be a father-like figure. It reached a stage when she gets irritated if I try to be cute with her (e.g. calling her cute names or trying to be silly and playful). She's not ... (179 words)

Help! I don't want another forbidden love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice! I'm falling for one of my professors and he is married! I'm in college now and I've never been in a relationship because I've always liked men who were old enough to be my dad (even older!). I don't find guys my age attractive and I only fall for ... (141 words)

I can't get over her past. it's too extreme for me to handle. But I love her so much.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I've been having some difficulties in my relationship with my girlfriend. I've been seeing a therapist, looking up similar stories, and reading books to understand her. The issue is all about her past, and it stresses me out to an extreme level sometimes. ... (1473 words)

I'm in love with my mom's boyfriend's son what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom's boyfriend's son and I really love eachother but don't know what our parents will say. They are not married so there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. What should we do?... (33 words)

Psychic says do not have sex in the next 2months. What will you do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A psychic told me not to have sex with my man until April. Hmm my man is a scorpio and I know how much he loves sex. How can I pull this off. SO far its been working because we are in a LDR and just ended a fight that lasted with a month of silence between us. We are back ... (295 words)

Should I go to a party in which my boyfriend's friend failed to invite him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's friend invites me to his wife's baby shower. Should I go? His friend stopped talking to him and answering his phonecalls for resons we both don't understand but he keeps sending me random messages to wish me merry christmas, happy Thanksgiving, invitation to a ... (120 words)

Why is my ex so spiteful to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through a tough break up we were together for almost a year and he cheated then broke up with me it has been almost a month and yes i have called. And text.wanting answers he blocked my number because i want my sons things back. He is telling his child that he cant ... (105 words)

I'm upset with her actions but I love her so much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and I have been dating for over seven months, and the majority of it has been long distance. Over the summer i fell in love with her and i knew that i wanted to be with her in college. While at college she went out with people like usual and i had asked who the ... (382 words)

Do men like females who are very experimental sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men like females who are very experimental sexually? For example, my boyfriend and I went shopping and bought a huge jar of pickles. I said that he should f*** me with one of them. (I'm not always quite so strange, I was 1/2 joking, 1/2 serious, and he laughed along with me) ... (159 words)

My boyfriend's cousin is getting married in April, and he hasn't invited me to the wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's cousin is getting married in April, and he hasn't invited me to the wedding. I'm not sure whether or not he plans to, but so far he hasn't mentioned it. The wedding is not too far away, so I assume if he planned on bringing me along, he would've mentioned it to ... (162 words)

My mother is constantly reminding me of my age and the fact that I'm single. I just want her to stop and to leave me alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I will be turning 26 this year and I'm single. Personally I'm ok with that. I figure as long as I'm living my life and enjoying what I do, the right guy will come along. I'm not in a rush But my mother on the other hand is constantly reminding me of my age and the fact tha... (309 words)

Does she want our friendship to progress or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i`m not sure what to do there is this girl i like i`ve known her for 5 years i`m 22 and she is 24 we both like each other but she allways says she wants to get to know me better and progress our relationship but then never takes action she constantly says things like lets ... (127 words)

Why doesn't my friend ever compliment me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my friend behave this way? I'm I overreacting? My friend I thought we were close doesn't compliment me.. She never tells me when I look nice or if she likes my bag, hair etc: nothing like that. Today I met up with her and a few other girls.. and we all looke... (191 words)

What is a "hell-bent" heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

27 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I was listening to the song by Lee Ann Womack, "I Hope you Dance". In the song are the lyrics: "Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin' Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin' Don't let some hell-bent heart leave you bitter When you come close ... (100 words)