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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I respond to the fact that everyone he know is commenting on our relationship? People I haven't even met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i be worried about this ?. I am dating this guy, and one of his friends sent me a message once saying " Hi. ( The name if the guy i am dating ) can't wait to see you again. I think he is in love ". This friend also sent me another message today saying " ( The name of the ... (319 words)

What's it like to have a girlfriend/wife who's a gamer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Gamer Guys: What's it like to have a gamer as a girlfriend/wife? Is it annoying, fun, cool, make it a happy relationship, causes fights, ect? I do think that girl gamer's are really hot. Because I'm a huge gamer and for years I've wanting to have girlfriend/wife as a gamer.... (51 words)

How do I know if I'm ready to have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have been talking to a guy that I known for a long time. He is 20 and I'm 17 and he's in college and I'm in high school but starting college as well. I can honestly say I have fallen for him he is like everything I want. But there is one problem I havr never had a ... (78 words)

How will it impact on a relationship if the man is a year or two younger than the woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey please help there is this guy i like a lot and he likes me and i know he is about to ask me if we should start a relationship but am afraid he is younger than me he is 19yrs old,am 20yrs old what do i do? he hasn't told me his age yet but am also afraid to tel him as i don... (115 words)

What is up with her behavior towards me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a lesbian and I recently met this woman that I'm now infatuated by. She knows I'm a lesbian. She hugs and kisses me, some times when ppl are around but especially if we're alone the hug may be a little longer than average I miss you good to see you hug. She also rubs on my ... (156 words)

I really want my crush to like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old guy and I really like a girl I met online. I get a little shy when talking to her and I'm always the first to say hi. She replies to me but she doesn't talk a lot. She only laughs sometimes so I really want her to like me but I don't want to seem desperate. ... (65 words)

My mind goes blank when I talk to guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, to put it simply, I have a crush on this guy whom I'm barely friends with. I'd like to get to know him better and maybe for him to know me better too, but I have a problem: I can't really talk to guys. (I think I bore them) Most articles I read online suggest "being m... (136 words)

Does he like me or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this mean he likes me? "he asked me if I liked you and I got worried he was going to tell everyone" Tell everyone what? Does he like me? Dislike me? He avoids me and completely ignores me :( ... (50 words)

I gave him a deposit but never bought the car, now he wants to keep 20% of the money! Is this legal or should I take him to court?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,i hope someone has a good advice for me in this case.I wanted to buy a car from owner but i did not have enough money.i saw the car and i talk to the owner about it;he ask me to give him what i have and i can bring him the rest and take the car with me after paying.i ... (151 words)

Too shy to ask my boyfriend to kiss me! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 13 and i am shy around my bf and i really want him to kiss me any advice???... (20 words)

Should I just ask for her number next time and contact her? She has my number but never got in touch....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, If you have a good convo with a guy you just met and he leaves you his number do you contact him? Just wondering cause I met a girl at uni last semester and we talked a while and she put my number in her phone (never contacted) and I saw her today talked again. I told ... (100 words)

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sick of my ex. Ever since we broke up he's changed! He used to be sweet, yeah annoying at times but he made the effort to get along with my friends and was nice to everyone. He dumped me after a 10 month relationship, of which only 5 were "official" and since then he seems di... (182 words)

Got a date but she's in control. How should I play this one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Iv got a 2nd date with this girl but she's in control of it. What i mean is that she works full-time and does some evenings and weekends. her job is obviously verry important to her. she is very busy and so has little time. she said we can go out in a couple of weeks ir so. ... (133 words)

2 months have passed and I've heard nothing, its over for good this time but how do I stop wanting to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need some man advice, yes I know the same age old problems in most peoples like, the opposite sex... So I will try and keep this brief and I am also aware that I will get comments telling me how he told from start and I am deluding myself, I know that. Just ... (819 words)

My girlfriend is so overbearing I cant even pick up a newspaper with an attractive woman in it! Now she has started commenting on my friend's Facebook too, how do I deal with her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys and gals, My gf is getting a little overbearing and insecure... She accuses me of constantly hurting her when i pick up a magazine or newspaper and theres an image of a beautiful woman in a suggestive or sexy pose. She snatches the magazine or newspaper and throws... (339 words)

Flirting advice needed!

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3 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you have to talk to a guy to flirt with him? What are some things that make a guy want to approach you? Any thing that has to do with flirting silently please let me know. I am really shy and I'm wondering if there's anything that I can do about it flirt wise. Please and ... (60 words)

How do I make myself look older? People tell me I look about 17!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is not a relationship question didn't know where else to ask I'm 25 but everyone tells me I look about 17 I'm almost 26 I'm going out tomorrow night on a date and I have nothing to prove my age do you women know any tips to make myself look older I wear eye ... (70 words)

How do I manage how I feel over his over zealous anxious checking up on me all the time?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, thanks for stopping by and reading this. I have been dating a man for coming up to year now. he has lots going on his life. Eg: he is a full time carer for his disabled sister, and has three kids from an ex that he takes a lot ( they don;t live with him). I only see... (489 words)

In real life I've never wanted him to kiss me. So is my dream telling me otherwise?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 18 and im having some confusing feelings. I see one of my mates twice a week (all-day) with a few of our other friends, but I was recently really annoyed by him and vice a versa. We sorted it out last week and that night I had a dream that was basically a repl... (219 words)

How can I cope and continue living with him, broken hearted but apart?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I have recently broken up with my bf. We have a joint mortgage together. After much soul searching and advice from a mortgage advisor, we have both been advised to stay in the property together for as long as we can. This is because neither of us can afford to take it ... (306 words)

My husband supports everyone else but me. Why does he do this to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2150 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age - My husband of three years will not take my feelings into consideration. Whenever there is a disagreement he will always take the others persons side against me. He will never defend me or stand up for me in any way. His sister and I do not get along and I told him that I w... (187 words)

My wife doesn't want sex any more. Can any one suggest what things need fixing to improve this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married 15 years. We have a miserable sex life and have for a long time. It started very early in our relationship where within a year we went from: "I have never been so loud during sex. Can we do it again?" to "Don't touch me. Go away." We have ... (1286 words)

Frustrated, straight, but considering an offer of a bj

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey I got a question. Im a 28 year old man living single and my job keeps me extremely busy and always on the travel. Over the last couple years I have developed a male friend shom I met over the internet from a town that is about 40 miles from where I live. He is an open ... (233 words)

No double standard - I just want one off sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like advice about meeting with a guy I met online. To lead up to this question, I must explain I've only been in long lasting relationships since I was 15. I've never really been single. My ex cheated on me last month and I'm still upset, but my horniness is driving me ... (183 words)

What does he want from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy for on and off for 2 years and we broke up about 10 months ago. I was completely heartbroken....This guy has hurt me so much in the past 10 months that we've been broken up. He went from breaking up with me to dating a new girl 2 weeks after we broke up to ... (168 words)

She is separating from her husband. When can I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone. I have been good friends with a woman for nearly two years. She is married with two young children. I have been divorced for five years with three children. Recently, my feelings have gone beyond the good friend stage and I have become attracted to her... (323 words)

I want to impress him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I wanna impress my crush. I really like him and want him to be thinking of me. I haven't seen him for a long while and I wanna leave him speechless. We always text and stuff so I know he is into me but l just want to look extra nice when he sees me. I need ideas of what can I ... (67 words)

I think about this guy 24/7 and although he's literally called me every name in the book, I still love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in this ldr for almost 2 years. We met on a chatline and instantly connected! Every time me tried to meet up,something would always happen on both of our ends, so although we had never seen each other we did skype and video chat and send pic which made things feel a ... (992 words)

I think my husband's behavior is strange for a married man but he turns it all on me and my "crazy insecurities"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

- How do you kill the old demons? I am an educated, confident woman in every area of my life except with my spouse. We've been together 7 years and most of those years have been good. We get along most of the time, have a fairly good sex life etc. My husband doesn't show alot of ... (518 words)

I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not seem unfaithful, but it is to... (176 words)

Is she ashamed of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

3 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - OK the background story... My friend and I had recently started dating, we were seeing each other for 8weeks. My previous relationship had just ended and I was actually still sharing the house (not the room, I was in the spare) with my ex gf and her sister and looking to move ... (397 words)

Want to go to the next level; don't want to sound desperate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had my boyfriend since December 12, of 2011. He even asked me like a month ago if I wanted to go to the next level (making out, kissing, etc.) I said yes... We haven't done anything yet... I need help! How p do I tell him that I wanna kiss without sounding desperate????... (55 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that it makes me uneasy I'm not able to visit his family with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why I always feel like my boyfriend is seeing someone else or has some sort of feelings for another woman. He told me he was heading home for the weekend and when I asked if I could join along he said no. He said he needed to spend time with his parents. It bothers ... (149 words)

My mind is set to leave him, but I have a suspicion that I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone... I'm in a stressful situation and I don't think I'm thinking clearly at all. I need some insight please...You see, I have been with a 35yr old man for two years, (I am 20) and he was the first and all that...I regret that so much now because I think I'm doin... (405 words)

He can't maintain an erection during sex now...is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

3 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why can't he keep his erection long anymore? is he cheating? Wow I've just been told my bf has been cheating on me. I asked him if he's ever cheated on me he says no. He says he loves me. But I'm not sure.. Am gunna have to investigate more. He say... (127 words)