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writes:I'm attending my first wedding, it's my cousins wedding. I'm 19 (almost 20) I'm a college student and i live at home with my family, so i'm not sure if i will be seated with my family? or the "singles" table. do they have "singles tables? haha i'm not a good dancer, i'm awful so i don't dance. will guys ask me to dance? or talk to me? if i don't want to dance what do i say? and what should we talk about? thanks!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (20 February 2012):
Hi there. Usually at weddings, you would be seated with your parents and other siblings.
I don't think there is a "singles" table.
When it's family, whole families (mum, dad and the kids), they would usually be seated together as much as possible. If they couldn't all fit on one table, well the others would be at the next table.
Guests are seated in either families or couples, and guests without a partner, all in together.
Friends of the bride and groom who are not married and are unattached, would be invited to bring a friend - if desired. A single guest doesn't have to bring someone. They can attend on their own if they like.
Your cousin's family might decide if there are a lot of teenagers to seat them altogether at one or two tables, as they would have a lot in common.
It really depends on the family of the bride and groom, how they want to do it.
Mostly people stick with tradition when it comes to weddings.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 February 2012):
 The singles tables aren't single in the sense that they have no partner but in the sense that they didn't come with family or a partner. As in individual people. Families and friends are generally seated together (as in people on the same invitation).
If a guy asks you to dance and you don't want to just say, "I'm flattered, but no thank you." Can't say what you should talk about! That's totally up to you. If you just stick with your family, I doubt anyone you don't know will approach you.
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