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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How long after the first date is the next one meant to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last saturday i went out on a date with a guy. he was going to see me tonight (friday) for the first time since then but had to work. We've been talking everyday. He says he wants to see me again. How long after the first date is the next one meant to be? or isn't there a time ... (60 words)

Is he gay? Bi? Straight? Or just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid funs, I have a situation that i really need help with. Here it is (sorry if it is long): I am 22 years old, closeted and straight-acting gay (its not really an act, as it is how I seem to be and i like to be, i really dont like femine-like gays). I don't want to co... (507 words)

How to ask out a girl I barely know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - 1-2 weeks ago I was going home with a classmate and in the buss he introduced me to this girl.. we met one more time after that in school and talked a little. So 3 days ago I wgo inoin to school and when I entered the buss I saw her waving at me(she was with 2 of her friends) ... (150 words)

Two housemates are interested in me- I have no interested in either perhaps because of my condition...What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a couple of problems I would like some help with. The first is this: I'm currently group house sharing with 4 people, two girls/two guys. My problem is that I think one of my housemates, an older man (he's 40, I'm 23) likes me. I'm not at all interested. He's... (473 words)

Torn between boyfriend and home

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has been quite a culture shock as... (327 words)

Can someone's hugs show how they feel about you? :)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) I'm friends with the boy I like and we always hug goodbye. Lately,his hugs have been different. When I hug him he holds me really tight and he grabs my head and pushes my head against his chest and puts his fingers through my hair. I was wondering if you can tell ... (81 words)

If after a date the guy hasn't contacted you for five days, but you know it went really well and that they liked you, would it be desperate for the girl to contact them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If after a date the guy hasn't contacted you for five days, but you know it went really well and that they liked you. Would it be desperate for the girl to contact them? Because I went on a date with this guy, it went really well just everything about it made it go smoothly. ... (207 words)

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something is telling me not to ... (159 words)

I had an abortion and am still grieving-but my boyfriend seems not to care, what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help to stop feeling angry with my bf about our abortion. I know readers might judge me for having an abortion, that's ok, I judge myself, I know I did the wrong thing, I feel guilty every day and regret my decision greatly. I'm trying to deal work on that myself, ... (377 words)

Would you believe a guy who had a one night stand but said he wanted a relationship with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How come men have one night stands with some women, and decide to have relationships with other women?. What makes the women that they have relationships with different to the ones that they have one night stands with?. I don't understand it. Also, would you be put off by ... (76 words)

Wondering if my marriage is based on a lie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey aunts and uncles, im so fed up at the moment, my husband lies to me so much, little white lies but im thinking if he can lie about something so simple, what else can he lie about. So hes been going to a martial arts class twice a week, so he says, i dont even know if he ... (446 words)

Have I lost my online friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this girl kind of. I know her online. She's a few years younger but it doesn't seem like it. We dont plan on ever meeting but we talk alot ~ often daily until recently. About 7 months back we had a kind of disagreement about my girlfriend of a month ~ reina. I'd told ... (458 words)

In a LDR, is it normal that my gf thinks I should call once every 2-3 days?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when your long distance girlfriend complaints that you call her too much? Calling her once a day is appearing too much, she asks for once call in 2-3 days. To me that is extreme. She gets angry when I do. We are both are very busy with work, but somehow... (119 words)

I lied to her online about my life, my looks! I really love her, so what can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) age 26-29 - Hello! I really don't know what to do. At the beginning it was all like a joke, I didn't use to have a serious relationship 'online'. So I've said why should I say the truth, I will say only lies. That's when I've found this girl that is everything for me. I've fallen in love ... (208 words)

Why is she flirting with me, if she has a boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in my class that I have a crush on! Shes so pretty and has the most amazing personality! I just met her about a month and a half ago. We talk in class and we kinda flirt. Smile back and fourth and she will complement me when I do a speech. Just makes me feel ... (589 words)

Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone pays you to abuse them, in all s... (158 words)

I would like to express my intellect and views more, with my bf! How do I do this and have him actually listen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'd have so many things to talk about with my boyfriend of 2 years. but why is it that i never end up having the kind of conversations i have with my friends?we rarely talk much...i feel somehow bad about this,as i thought we would be able to talk about everything under the ... (442 words)

Is it weird to get turned-on by things you're actually disgusted by?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, and I could really use some thoughts on it. Is it normal to be turned on by things you don't like? Like you get physically aroused, but mentally you don't like it. Heres an example, say you don't like porn, you think it's disgusting, but you've got turne... (72 words)

Confused with feelings for my current boyfriend and my ex! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi friends.... I am going through a problem these days. so wanted to share that with you... I am presently in a relationship with a guy. In the early phases of our relationship, everything was normal. He used to love me a lot and cared for me. but after 6 months of our re... (206 words)

My boyfriend is ignoring me, lately and I have no idea why! Any advice is appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age - Recently my boyfriend put me on ignore I have no real idea why, he then about a week later reached out via instant message and tried to talk to me by sharing a concern about his father's health and wanting to continue supporting my business financially by providing ink for my ... (275 words)

'Good girl' lusts for dangerously 'bad boys'? What is this?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I am the stereotypical 'good girl': I have perfect attendance in the college I go to, I dont smoke cigarettes, or do any drugs, they do not appeal to me. I guess I am smart; I am junior with a 3.5 GPA and I am completely interested in my double major: Chemistry and ... (279 words)

Is he using me for sex even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - this is a long story, everything i will mention is pretty important to the case but basically i just want a strangers point of view on what i should do... im 16 and i was dating this boy (j) in september, and i really loved him. sounds silly but ive been in many relationshi... (1071 words)

He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you some background information. ... (439 words)

Am I not attractive enough for him? Or is it just that he respects me a lot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had high sex drive and that kind of makes me feel weird about myself. My bf has a seemingly low one cause he doesnt not ask me for anything physical. Normally I would be the one taking the initiative to cuddle with him. Recently, I start to feel a bit low on my ... (213 words)

What did he mean when he sent this message? I don't know how to respond...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend sent me a message saying " I don't know if you still love me like i love you, but i hope that you do ". Why would he say that, especially when i told him i loved him in the message i sent to him before that?. It's worrying me. I don't even know how to respond, as ... (91 words)

I'm 17 and he's 27, plus I lied to him about being a virgin....how do I approach the sex situation?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks - we've met up about 3 times and i really like him, he seems decent and nice - baring in mind i usually have terrible luck with guys. The only issue is that hes just turned 27 and im 18 in a couple of months. There isnt a real ... (233 words)

Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too much sex. I am wondering if he ... (227 words)

Confidence plummeted since having a baby, does it ever get better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave birth to my lovely son 10 months ago. Problem is, ever since I found out I was pregnant, my confidence and self esteem has plummeted, and it's got worse since I gave birth. I'm only a bit heavier than what I was Pre Pregnancy, and I've got horrible gross stretch ... (152 words)

Should my bf stop texting and meeting his ex crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I decided to write a more complete story so that you all can have a better understanding. I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I even had to see a councillor. And he ... (1224 words)

What is the most romantic way to win over an ex who is dating someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - 5 days ago I dumped my girlfriend that I have had for 6 months. I wanted to be single and I honestly think about my ex a lot. I love her still but she is with another man. It stinks, to say the least. So after the break up I see my ex's tumblr full off posts relating to me. ... (221 words)

My girlfriend of 2.5 years told me she isn't really attracted to me anymore. Should I just give up and realize it's over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 2.5 years told me she isn't really attracted to me anymore. We have a 22 month old son together. In the beginning, we were inseparable but not so much anymore. She has gained a lot of weight since the baby as have I and we're both not that happy with our ... (119 words)

She is so confusing! What is she doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks to everyone who reads this. Basically, I was seeing a girl for a little bit and she ended up breaking contact with me after she said that she didn't want to see me again after not speaking to her on a night out with friends (she went with hers, I went with mine). T... (340 words)

He declined my proposal with the answer 'I see this happening in the future'. How do I show him marriage would work without being pushy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I would appreciate your views on my dilemma. I recently proposed to my boyfriend with a poem I had written myself. We have been together for 18months although do not live together at the moment. We have discussed living together but it's difficult as we live 30minutes by ... (172 words)

I just want to know, to anyone who has depression due to a chemical imbalance as well as past events throughout life... does it ever go away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys.. So I found out in October 2011, that I have dysthymia disorder. I have a really hard time talking to people other than my mom (who is my bestfriend despite a lot of shit she put me through when I was a child) about how I'm really feeling on the inside. I'm a freshman ... (333 words)

Pregnancy and the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Am twenty three years old and my and my boyfreind have been together just under ten months and making plans to move in together :) x and in septemeber we wa want to start a family x I'm currently on the pill but want adice on how i.e. your cycle changes when you stop taking the ... (99 words)

I've never had an orgasm. I'm afraid I'll have to pee if I have one!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never had an orgasm, I am sure of that. But from what I've read, I've been close many times. I always either stop myself (if masturbating) or my partner when I start feeling like I need to urinate because the feeling is too intense- it's not 'pain' per say, but it's an ... (130 words)

Weird tension between me, my boyfriend and my boyfriend's brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I made out with his older brother at a party. My boyfriend and I have now been dating for 6 months, but any time I go to visit his family with him, his brother is there and it's incredibly awkward. It's gotten a little better in the ... (126 words)

Why did she break up with me? Was it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Im a 16 and Febuary has been terrible. My team lost the superbowl, I got a ticket, I am jobless, my grades are dropping, drinking is becoming a part of my life, and on top of all that my girlfriend just dumped me. Her name's Caitlyn. Ive always had a think for the C's K's and ... (497 words)

My husband ogles other women right in front of me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I got married one year ago. We have been together for 4 years now. Since getting married, he ogles women. He is not in the chase anymore and is comfortable. He does this in front of me. We just went on our honeymoon (kids were with at the wedding) and it happened ... (157 words)

There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called to his body to come see us ... (183 words)

Do ALL guys watch porn?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this is a bit obvious to ask but really and truly do all/most guys watch porn? (And I don't mean constantly just even every once in awhile) Of course there are some individuals who don't of course, but if you're dating a nice, quiet, shy, kind, relatively (seems) ... (200 words)

Should I take my ex back if she ever wants to come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex were together for 8 wonderful years. We started dating at 14 and ended at 22. We are also eachothers first real relationship and first sex partners. I always had my group of friends but she only ever wanted to be with me. She would blow off her friends if there ... (581 words)

I want children, just not right now! B/f wants me to forget about education and have them right away

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone :)...... Just asking for some outside perspectives for the confusing mess iv got going on in my head right now! My partner is 35, I'm 22. He wants kids. Soon. I'm about to graduate in about 15 months. So he wants to start trying soon, so Ill graduate pregnant... (521 words)

What is harassment?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - If a girl breaks up with a bloke and stops communication and does not tell him exactly why, is it harassment to continue to write to the girl over email every few days to find out why? I mean if she does not answer, when is it considered harassment?... (49 words)

Why did my ex call just to tell me I'm a nice girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What did he mean by that? why did he call me? ? ? I loved my ex bf so much. We weren't just boyfriend and girlfriend we were friends aswell. We'd talk about everything and anything and could talk for hours on the phone and not run out of things to say. I believ... (223 words)

Just over 40 and never been on a date, need advice to help me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

24 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am just a over 40 and have never been on a date with a woman. I think finally, I am starting to conquer my anxiety and other issues, which tend to make me a hermit. I want this to work so badly because I want a little of fun in my joyless life. Trust me, I will never be... (96 words)

Can sex make your boobs smaller?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

24 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just began to obsessed with my boobs lately, I want it bigger, I see a skinny person with big boobs and mine is just too small, when I was going through puberty I think it was so big and I hated it. I always think it is always getting on my way until I turned 24, and I... (122 words)