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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's changed, and is there any point in being with a Bf who behaves this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So here's my problem... I'm 15 and have been with my boyfriend for the last 13 months. At first it started out and he was so perfect, but the last few months I've been having doubts. Everything he says annoys me, he's clingy he's turned all camp and he just doesn't know... (482 words)

She's cheated on me, hardly hangs out with me, and she's happy, I'm not, even though I love her.What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for almost 9 months weve been off and on several times. In October she cheated on me at her birthday party and then lied about it till christmas. she says she loves me and that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me but she barely hang... (119 words)

Why is it when you're not looking for someone, you find them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it when you're not looking for someone, you find them? I had this guy. We have a rich history and have been building up to a relationship for the past 6 months. I love him so much, if not as my bf, as a friend. I think he's the most beautiful person in the world. I tol... (329 words)

I'm feeling really pressured to lose my virginity!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so here's the deal.. literally everyone my age is having sex but me.. (I'am 16) I haven't done anything with a guy, all I've done is kiss, all the guys I've went out with, all want one thing! and when I don't give it to them they break it off. I feel so pressured into doing ... (160 words)

After being close friends for a while, he's now blanking me. Any idea why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help on a situation with a friend.. So i've been really close friends with a guy that i've known for about a year and a half. It's not really a normal situation though i guess, he's 37 and he used to be a neighbour of mine..i'm 17, and i did used to have a 'crush' o... (289 words)

Do you think I should end the relationship NOW or try and give it a go and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am moving to another country in two weeks to finish high school (a year and a half). My boyfriend and I agreed to keep the relationship during that time, but I just found out they are opening the perfect university for me in London next year and I really want to get in, the ... (396 words)

My "uncle" is my father and I have to keep it a secret

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up in a different city to most of my extended family, they all live near each other in one area. My mother brought me up as a single parent and we have had a turbulent relationship, as a child she would get frustrated and lash out at me, chasing me, pulling me round by ... (819 words)

My straight supposedly straight crush made out with me and is now blaming it on alcohol

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have had this crush on my straight co-worker for queit some time now. I always joke with my friends about my crush on him telling them how I would love for him to go gay for just one night. I say it out of sarcasm totally not expecting that to ever happen. We hang out ... (834 words)

I'm feeling really left out as best friend's wedding draws nearer

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been best friends with my friend for around 10 years. About 5 years ago she fell in love and soon they are getting married, I'm very pleased for them. Her husband to be has an old famly friend (girl) who has become very close to my best mate. Although we have planned for ... (268 words)

Does this mean he is over me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i think im going a little over board with this, it started out at christmas time. i got him a few gifts he said thank you and that was it he gave me nothing in return i was hurt but at least got a thank you so i got over it, now valentines just passed and once again i got ... (189 words)

Where can I meet people my own age to date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, just a quick question, when people say to meet new friends they should take up new hobbies i was just wondering where these things take place, i started college and met some wonderful friends but was hoping to find people worth dating, which i havent really met anyone ... (99 words)

Should husband and I share money with my family or keep it for our soon to be baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid Alot of people say pregancy confuses the mind and makes women think irrationally i like to think that in this particullary situation i'm not thinking irrationally nor am i being selfish . but i'd rather hear it from other peoples perspective if i'm .You see im 21 an... (732 words)

Pregnant and stressed out every day by boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm relationship and I'm pregnant my first child and he. Is stressing me out,I can't cope with at all.He not going with me anywhere where they is people and his parent do knowthat I'm pregnant and I'm six months pregnant,when I askhim when is he going to his parents he said ... (86 words)

Is he just being friendly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I used to like some guy were still mates but I still think eh doesnt like me more than a mate. Recently he like to me I will one hopefully buy you a bucnh of roses becuase he was joking aroud saying didnt u get my valentines day preent etc. Basically yesterday he text ... (90 words)

What should I do to get my normal social life back and why is he doing it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What should I do to get my normal social life back and why is he doing it? I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago becuz of his jealousy. We were together for 10 months and are each other's first love. He's been hostile towards me and accusing me of hurting his feeli... (325 words)

Do you think its time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been texting a guy for several months now. We have met 3/4 times. His texts are not consistent. He will text me every few weeks and will only ask to meet when he is out drinking.In the beginning he was making so much effort, texting me every day etc. The last tim... (147 words)

Why can't a married woman be a good friend to an ex-lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - we are coworker and she is married, i love her truely from the heart still i think about her 24hrs may be she will talk to my like a close good friend (not expected kisses etc) but close friendship as she earlier have with me . sometimes i think she uses me becoz after he... (243 words)

Why are you on DearCupid?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age - Someone asked me via PM "well you are here to help people" And someone else and I got to talking in message about that and I wonder... WHY do YOU post to DC? Are you here to help yourself? (or did you come to help yourself and stayed to help others which was what happe... (114 words)

Please help me become like a normal boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20year old boy,but i very much worrying for my habit,becoz i think ,i turned into gay feeling.,i nevr want this type of gay feeling,i get erect and attract when i see a cute guy,but i also interested in women also,i also excited ,when i see straight porn videos,many time i ... (81 words)

I feel like I'm competing with his dead ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriends ex-girlfirend died in Aug 2011 we met end of sept 2011 he was only with her 10 months she was really ill when they got together yet i am so jealous as i can compete with them if there alive how can i compete if shes dead. He tells me i am the most important p... (86 words)

Should I be tested for STIs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive just found out that my boyfriend has slept with 3 women behind my back, and now im worried that i could have an STI. what should i do? if i go to the doctor, what will he do?... (39 words)

Please tell me this is fixable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - good day, i am seeking advice and possibly comfort that there is a solution to this. I can`t move on, and i dont think i want to move on after the break up. I want to get her back! its been 4 or 5 days since she broke it off with me. i know everyone says you`ll find some... (359 words)

I am not a very good flirter and the guy I like is really shy.... what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have serious flirting issues. I have a new guy in my life and he is really sweet but his brother just passed and now he really doesnt seem to interested. He never texts me anymore. what is the best way I should handle talking to him? [Background information added here:] So I... (207 words)

Painful doggy style...any advice to make it better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together around 3 months. He's been wanting to do doggy style for a while, but when we tried it was extremely painful and tugged on the bit of skin between my vagina and anus. Furthermore, my vagina seems to get very tight in that position, s... (89 words)

Why is it that men stare at me all the time but almost never smile or speak?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - How am I to understand how a man feels when he looks at you if he won't even give you a little smile? Yesterday I was grocery shopping and passed a really good looking man in my aisle. When I saw him, he was already looking at me. He was alone. We exchanged looks and I smiled a... (268 words)

I'm new to online dating, how can I let this guy down nicely? Or should I offer to meet up anyway just to see if I was wrong about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just recently started to try online dating. A few people have requested contact but I wasn't really interested so I politely declined their requests. One guy who contacted me seemed like he might be interesting to get to know him so I said I would be interested in he... (178 words)

After having my sexual fantasy fulfilled, my desire for sex has burnt out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently one of my sexual fantasies of several years became a reality which I suppose is a good thing, however since then my sex drive has been almost zero which is really uncommon for me. I'm writing here because I'm really puzzled by it. I would have expected myself ... (129 words)

How do I make things better when he's ignoring me and being nasty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been on and off for nearly four years now and had a lot of ups and downs. We got back together a couple of weeks a go and he was being nice and treating me how he should and spending more time with me. But he cheated by kissing a girl when he was drunk on me ... (408 words)

Does any of this mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids I would like to partly provide follow-up to a question i recently asked, and ask for some advice This is the question i asked on valentines day: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-draw-my-ex-ldr-boyfriend.html ever since i asked that question, yesterday... (765 words)

Zero skills at dating women. How bold is too bold? Can I just ask out a women I do not know?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it ok to walk up to a total stranger that you find either attractive or interesting and ask them out? I am 23 and sadly I have practically zero skill when It comes to dating women any helpful advice would go a long way thanks a lot :) ... (51 words)

My new friend does not like me talking to an ex. Is he being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19, and stuck in a huge confusion. Here is my story, In Dec 2011 I broke up with my boyfriend and the next day there was this guy from my guitar class whom I became friends with. That friend and I became really good friends and he helped me when I wanted a friend to talk... (245 words)

Her ex-lover sent her a Valentine's Day card. Should I be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age - My S.O. and I are monogamous with each other, although she has remained friends (e.g., occasionally chats with) with some of her ex-lovers. I've been accepting of that situation so far... but on Valentine's Day, when we were together, she received an online Valentine's Day ... (81 words)

I want to go out with a girl my own age. Should I? Feels gut wrenching to do this to my LDR older Gf

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Right here goes. I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 years. My girlfriend is Thai so she lives in Thailand and I live in Australia. I visit her quite frequently and when I can and we speak at least 3 times a day. The problem is she's nearly 40 and I'... (201 words)

How can I identify and where can I meet women who will not cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and I have only had one girl friend who broke my heart, the reason why I dont date a lot is mainly because of that and I am slighty shy around the oppsite sex. Anyways here is my Question where can I meet women who will not cheat on me?... (54 words)

His texting to me is unpredictable. If he texts me again shall I just ignore him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been texting a guy for several months now. We have met 3 times. Anyway his texts are not consistent. He will text me every few weeks and will only ask to meet when he is out drinking. I text him back the other day, got one text back to which I replied and to date I h... (93 words)

I thought that we were 'meant to be'. Wrong, it seems. Am I capable of loving anyone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so almost 5 months ago I was in an on and off relationship that overall lasted three months. I felt I was in love with him but he was completely unstable. He broke up with me three times and I stupidly went back with him twice thinking we were 'meant to be'. I believed him ... (476 words)

I don't feel loved nor that I matter to him. What can I do to try to improve things? Because I do still love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together three years. In the beginning while we were dating it was the typical crazy gaga love. It was amazing, I felt like a million dollars and so lucky to have found the love of my life. We bought a house about six months in and everything c... (1229 words)

Broken Hearted. How do I get her to love me??? Or how do I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl I talked to online for a really long time. we spent forever together and i thought things were going fine. we hung out once and it seemed like it went well but she doesn't want me for some reason. she talks to me all the time and she's really nice to me but s... (107 words)

I don't know if I can really believe what he is telling me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so, I have a problem... Well actually I have 2 different situations that I need help with. I'm really sorry if this is long but I DESPERATELY need some advice! Well, my ex and I broke up 2 years ago. But I still love him so much. And he loves me too, we both say it to each ... (825 words)

One For Love & One For Money....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay......In a pickle. I have been dating a guy for 8 months and he's great...but...we have very different approaches to life. He is just getting back on his feet and really can't afford much of anything! I have financially been carrying our social life. Now, I am ... (307 words)

If I ejaculate after her menstrual cycle, can she get pregnant?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - if i ejaculate having unprotected sex after her menstrual cycle, will she get pregnant? ... (14 words)

If I tell my friend I have feelings for him, will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! :) I have a little problem. I really like this boy and I don't know if I should tell him. He's one of my friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Yesterday, I was texting him and I asked him who he liked and he said he doesn't know and I asked what do you mean... (236 words)

In love with friend of my bf of 5 years...but don't want to hurt my bf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have gotten myself into a huge mess and I'm hoping for some outside input please, and this could be a long one. Okay for starters prior to all this, my boyfriend and I had been together going on five years, we live together and all that. I love him, I really ... (650 words)

Bf does not pay attention to my breasts...but he does look at those of other women!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a wonderful boyfriend (we have been together for almost a year now.) Our sex life is pretty great except for one thing... I get upset because he doesn't take my top off during sex and doesn't pay attention to my boobs. I admit that i am small busted ( 34-b ) I'm tall ... (243 words)

I'm lucky to "get lucky" once a week...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for seven and a half years. During the past two months, he has been showing symptoms of hypothyroidism..such as hair loss in patches, dizzy spells, fatigue, and most concerning, lack of libido. We used to have sex at least twice a week, but ... (260 words)

I am confused in this beautiful relationship we have..Please advisee

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and in beautiful relationship with this girl (30 years old) I met her 14 months ago and like her so much and she is such a beautiful person and very supportive. She has done a a lot for me, we also have a healthy relationship. But.... I am not physically ... (159 words)

I'm tired of being the only responsible adult in this relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2.5 years. We have a 21 month year old together. We hardly ever get along. I feel unappreciated. I stayed home and collected unemployment even though I wanted to work so I can watch our son while she went to beauty school. I'm also a full ... (246 words)

Should I actively try to pursue a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't had a particularly stable childhood, I've moved schools 3 times since I was 13, but I've never been what you might call a loner; wherever i am I usually get along with other people and make friends easily enough. Recently though I moved into college and turned 17 and ... (195 words)

I am 15, and just found girl I really like is 13. Is this appropriate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. uhhm well, where do I start? You see, it all started out with a random friend request from a frape [EDITOR'S NOTE: frape: When a person leaves their laptop/PC unattended whilst signed into Facebook and other people change various parts of their personal page to humiliating ... (448 words)

My parents want me to break up with my boyfriend..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - First, i am 15 and he is 16. anyway, my parents have been talking to me lately about breaking up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for over a year! they want me to start dating other people because they think that's its unhealthy for someone my age to be in a relationship ... (200 words)

Never had a real relationship, but I love boys!

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16 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20 years old, never had a real relationship, but love boys! I recently (for 2 months i think) met a cute guy who i really like, but I find it hard to figure out what to do or how to act around him. Everytime we see each other, mostly only on drunk party's, he come... (143 words)