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female
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anonymous
writes: Hi,so my story: I have a pretty big crush on a boy i met a few months ago. When I run into him on parties we always hug and he is very flirty, but we never really talk about serious things.I am getting very interested in him because of this and I really want to know what he thinks about me. And of course get to really know him better!The problem is, I only see him on these parties, no other time. He's not the dating type, me neither, so asking him out is not an option. I don't even have his phone number.So now i'm really stuck.. How can I get to know him, without being too much of a pussy and scared of him..Does he even like me ? This is all so confusing and really stressy, I think about him all the time and feel this pressure on my chest by trying to figure it all out.please help me.. thanks in advance.. xx
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (19 February 2012):
Don't be scared and stressed out!
What's wrong with asking him to meet for coffee - or even lunch - next time you see him at a party?
You've nothing to lose - he can only say "no" and while that would be disappointing, he may very well be glad to you invited him. Give it a try!
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