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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do men find it more attractive when their partner swallows ??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for ten month and a half :) we are really happy together...we have been sexuallt active together for almost five months now and i went down on him last satyrdsy for the first time. He said he really enjoyed it but im not too sure but ... (65 words)

He's spending Valentines Day with his ex?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner has remained good friends with his ex of 10 years. This has always bugged me, but its something that he wants, they speak on a daily basis, either thru txt or phone calls, and catch up when time allows, as she works very long hours. Any way today is Valentines Day, ... (152 words)

Does he like me or is he just being nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy at my school. He's a Senior and I'm a Freshman. Every time I see him, he's usually looking at me. A couple days ago, we were both in our separate group of friends next to each other. My sister Kayla knows that I have a crush on him and she tapped on his ... (158 words)

Why are so many people ashamed of their virginity status?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know some girls who tell me in hushed tones that they are virgins and not to tell anyone, its too embarassing. I know girls who look down upon girls that claim to have sex as sluts. I know girls who wish they hadn't given it up that early. Why? First off, all these girls are ... (143 words)

Shouldn't it be obvious that I'm his Valentine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy i am dating sent me a message asking if i am his Valentine. Lol. Shouldn't that be obvious??. How can i respond to that?. He should already know that i am!.... (34 words)

He makes no real effort

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing my ex, again! I always go back because I am honestly still crazy about him. This will be the second time trying again. Everything goes great for ages, lots of texting and calls. And then when we actually organise to meet up he messes it up! For example, o... (233 words)

He doesn't want to celebrate V day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - is it weird that my boy friend isn't interested in celebrating on valentines ,,, you know go out ,,, he's like valentines is for kids ?by the way he's 23 ... (30 words)

I want to date a woman or genderqueer or transgender person but I'm very shy! Advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm pretty sure I am pansexual, but I've never been with a girl, a gender queer or transgender person, but I find myself very attracted to them. I am very interested in having a girlfriend or a genderqueer / transgender partner. But there is amall problem... I am... (104 words)

I'm going over my friends house for the first time he's a lot older and I'm scared, in case he tries something...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm going over my friends house on valentines day who's a boy and I've never met his family. I'm scared of what he is going to do and what we're gonna talk about. Were not dating, just real good friends what do I do if he says;' lets have sex' or try's something like ... (148 words)

Why do some guys behave like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, i am a bit perplexed with regard to the behaviour of some guys who i think like getting satisfaction from humiliating others. I met this guy three months ago, we enxanged phone numbers and he asked me to call him (so as not disturb me) the next day so as to arr... (364 words)

I get depressed when I see others are getting married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26. I keep seeing people my age or younger getting married and it's making me depressed. It bugs me that I"m not happy for the person but also because I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 6 years and I am sad because I STILL don't feel ready for that. we were long ... (421 words)

If he's gay, what does that mean for our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - When do you consider someone 'gay'? And how should it change my friendship with him? I have this good friend. Sometimes he and I hang out together, and sometimes him, myself, and my wife hang out. We've even taken him with up to amusement parks, lakes and stuff with our 2... (350 words)

Am I insecure or is he fooling me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so my boyfriend of two years is very nice. Hes kind to me but he knows i have issues with him having female friends (diff story-he cheated once before etc) . Hes very considerate about everyone so much so it kind of annoys me. Hes nice about everyone and i want him to just ... (336 words)

Just met his ex and she's clearly not over him but he can't see it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - What would you do in this scenario? I met his exGF of 12 years - they lived together all that time, no kids. I went with him to meet her. She is constantly wanting to see him and I've told him I'm not comfortable with that. Well she keeps asking so I went with him. We've ... (219 words)

My biological clock is ticking loudly, but after ten years he's still "not ready"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need some advice and would love to hear from others who have been in my situation. I've been with my partner for 10 years. I love him with all my heart. He's sweet, kind, patient, extremely intelligent and I know he'll make a brilliant father. I'm 29 1/2 now ... (470 words)

Shy and new to dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I really need your help, I am new to dating and everything and therefore I can be quite shy and not very relaxed when I go out with a boy. I went on a date last week and it was a little awkward at times, a few silences, I was trying my best to think of thin... (171 words)

Confusion between current and ex boy friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Im in a very terrible situation.Let me come to the point.My ex hurt me so badly that i decided to break up with him and he also accepted it and we were not in contact for almost 6 months.In the mean time,one of my colleagues loved me so much.Even i liked him as he ... (157 words)

How to figure out if my online crush is taken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy but I can't tell if he is taken or not. I know it's just online and I shouldn't get so involved but I sort of have a crush on him. He is friends with this other girl and they joke or say that they are 'engaged'. I know they really aren't engaged b... (296 words)

She seemed interested, but hasn't called back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys not been here in years but maybe you can help I'm 20 now and met a stunnin irish girl on friday night and she asked me out on saturday night unfortunatly I was at a restaurant with my parents so couldnt meet up so I flirted with text that night then done nothing sunday ... (218 words)

What is a squirting orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, this might be a really stupid question, but at least it will be short and sweet. well, actually, it's two questions. if anybody wants to have a go at answering, i would appreciate it greatly. ") 1. what exactly is a "squirting orgasm?" 2. what makes that kin... (60 words)

How do I be fair to my new guy? And get over my ex, but not lead-on the new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm nowhere near ready to date again. I'm still mourning the loss of this relationship (7 weeks of panic attacks and seperation anxiety--yes, I'm getting clinical help). Last Wednesday someone came back into my life out of the blue after a year of not seeing them (nothing ... (272 words)

My height has grown and I'm too slim. How can I put on weight in healthy way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am too slim how I can put weight ? Have muscles?my height has grown very well but I am very slim.....plz help here..I am new here... (27 words)

If the "I have to pee and it feels like you're stabbing me" pain during sex is g-spot stimulation, how can I cum and make it GO AWAY so I can enjoy sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't get it. I've been sexually active for years and have had sex partners of ALL sizes. EVERY single time, the result is the same: I use the bathroom before intercourse JUST IN CASE I wind up squirting. ...the first 2 or 3 minutes of sex feel great. After that, ... (392 words)

Guys if you found out your girl was an older virgin would it be a deal-breaker?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, if you found out that the girl you liked was still a virgin would this make you more interested in her, or would it be a deal breaker? If she's an older virgin at that.... (36 words)

My ex left me for his former ex. Now he wants me back. Can I trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and it didn't take long for me to fall for him. He was honestly everything I'd been searching for in a guy. He was also in the army, but that didn't bother me because I was still planning on sticking with him. Anyway, he was so lovely to me. He spoilt me rott... (402 words)

I'm 14 and have a major crush on a guy. Should I make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I feel like I'm in love with a guy i have barely talked to before. I just see him in passing every once in a while, but all i can do is think about him. I'm just so scared to make a move. What should I do?... (49 words)

At my age I'm wondering if I'm bisexual

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a question for all of you out there. I am a guy and as odd as this may seem, but I wonder if I am bisexual. Why? Well, I really like women, I find everything about them a turn on. Why the wondering? I like looking at pictures of men's penises. Hard or otherwise ... (116 words)

How can you tell if you're a good kisser?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been really weird by looking it up onlin... (123 words)

I don't want to hurt my friend and like this boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend was seeing this boy about a year ago and they were very close and pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend but they weren't actually going out. after about half a year this 'relationship' broke off, but they are still very good friends, but have no other feelings... (290 words)

Why is this woman appearing and disappearing from his facebook page?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I'm not really worried about this, but i'm curious about it. I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. After the night we first met, we kept intouch on facebook. I noticed that a woman had left a comment on his page saying " Hey, still on travels ? ". That was a few days ... (355 words)

What do you write in a valentine card to a boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. well, valentines is tommorrow. i have made a card and its all ready to go except for one small thing... I Dont Know What To Write In It!!!! My name is Becky and I'm 14 and he is Rhys and he's 15. Well, he's in year 11 anyway and I'm only year 9.We've been going out f... (112 words)

Wishing everyone on Dear Cupid a very Happy Valentines Day!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) age 51-59 - Happy Valentines Day 2012 I don't have a question... with the time difference I wanted to be the 1st to wish everyone on this site, whether you are a one time visitor or a regular, a very HAPPY VALENTINES DAY this year. If you are married, enjoy the blessing of your union... (327 words)

Long story about a crush that lasted longer than I thought

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you for reading this even after the title. I've been having a crush on this guy for over a year. Shortly after we met he started sending me frequent texts, asking me out, telling me everything about him, etc. Everything that made me think he was making a move on me. Sinc... (291 words)

I don't want to like her but I don't want to hate her either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this girl. My boyfriend used to really like her, before he met me. I started their school in September, and I met my boyfriend. We got together, and everything was fine. Then she started sending me these texts: ""WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF. YOUSLEPTWITH... (272 words)

Is it safe to say that I'm probably not his type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - does it sound like this guy would honestly be interested in me or that I'm his type? his last gf jokes around a lot, talks about things like farting and being fat. She isn't fat but jokes about it. She is quite outgoing and outspoken. He also has a huge celeb crush and is like ... (239 words)

Why does my G/f defend her horrible, abusive ex every time I say something negative about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my problem. I have been with this woman for over two years now. I love her very much. When we first met everything was going well. Shes been in a abusive relationship for nine years with her ex. She told me how he cheated on her multiple times with many women, he gave ... (272 words)

Everything is not good enough for him. How do I get over him and stop contacting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I stop contacting him? I have kept in contact with a man for 1.5 years. He has stated to me that he cannot have a relationship. Two times he dated other girls, so I know that he is not interested in me. I just kept hoping that he would like me and truly think that... (94 words)

I keep fighting with my girlfriend. I'm clingy, sad, and have put on weight. And I do not want to be alone. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep fighting with my girlfriend. I can't stop being jealous of every single little thing. I can't stop being clingy. I'm insecure about everything and I feel like I am going mad. I think it has to do with my infidelity and her plans to move in with her sister I feel like sh... (125 words)

Is there light at the end of the tunnel? This new relationship is a nightmare.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Three years ago, I gave up my career, left my two teenagers with my ex-husband(divorced 12 years), left my home, parents, and friends to move to the East Coast for a guy that I love. I moved in with him and his 10 yrs old son from his previous marriage. Life has been rough si... (226 words)

How can I explain to my parents that I am planning to move interstate with my 26 year old boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (26yrs old) and I have been living together for a year and are planning to move interstate within the next couple of months. I have not told my parents yet. The problem is my boyfriend works with my father. I cannot tell my father we are planning to move, be... (173 words)

Why does he get an erection every time we kiss? He says it's not usual for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when the guy I'm dating, who is 29 and I'm 19, gets and erection every time we kiss? And he says this has only happened to him once before in his past long term relationship.... (41 words)

Is it enough? He's only tell me that he 'likes me enough'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when the guy I've been dating for 7 months can't tell me how much he likes me, but only says "I like you enough"?... (28 words)

Why is he threatening to break up if I refuse to delete pictures from my FaceBook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two months just started saying that it's bothering him that i have a few pictures of my ex on my facebook profile. The pictures are just of prom posses which shouldn't bother him. (it wouldn't bother me at least) and there are a few videos with my friends and ... (180 words)

Is she just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl like a year ago. Actually we had dated a year before that but I blew her off becuase I didn't know what I wanted at the time.(I know I was an idiot.) Next year we started dating again but like 6 months ago she told me she was not interested in hanging out ... (132 words)

Old flame, old rumours ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have reacently been in contact with a guy I knew from late high school, we had been messaging one another on and off for about 6 months. We had said we would meet and catch up. Then I get a message from him that said he had heard a rumour about me that I had slept with a guy ... (106 words)

Is it a good idea to spend $5 at the school cafeteria to send an anonymous gift to my crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

13 February 2012 (?) age 26-29 - There's this thing going on at my school where if you have a crush on someone, you could spend five dollars at the cafeteria to send them an anonymous gift. I'm thinking about doing this for the guy I have a crush on but I'm not so sure, I mean I know he won't know that ... (90 words)