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writes:Sorry if the questions about Cody are annoying but the people of DearCupid are my only resource for advice that I take pride in and trust. So I know that y'all know what's right. Well anyways, Cody has a horrible reputation. Every time I mention his name to someone, they ask me if that's the guy in the rumors that went around school. I mean there are countless ones about him. For example, there's one where he had sex with a goat. I mean really??? Why would anyone believe that??? And another one is that he ate a girl out while she was on her period. I don't believe in these rumors but everyone else seems to. I really like him and would love to get to know him but I already know that the second we start goin' out, everyone's gonna talk about how he's "done" everything that the rumors said and rumors will be spread about him doin' stuff with me. What should I do if he asks me out? If I say no, what would be my reason why? I'm sure that if they ain't true and I tell him that that's the reason I don't want to go out with him, it would crush his heart and he would hate me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): A real person care little for the rumours of others and even less about those spreading them.
Why would pay the slightest attention to people who would sya ANYTHING like this about anyone.
And even if there is the slightest grain of truth to the rumours, your private life and the private life of this Cody is no one else's business but your, and his, own.
To hell with what other people think or say. If you are going to base your life around the will of others, you may a well start wearing a slave collar.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 Trintyhunter, if you like cody and he likes you, and you have your parents permission, then date him. Kids at school like to say lots of things. At the moment what they are doing to him is called bullying. As you say, these rumours are stupid. A goat! Really, what planet are these kids living on.My first boyfriend had problems like that. People always talking about him and saying stupid stuff. I don't care what people say, because I know as soon as I turn my back, they'll start saying stuff about me too, and very quickly they'll turn on each other.But I know it's not easy when you are at school to deliberately go and make enemies. If dating cody will make you uncomfortable, then no problem, don't date him, just remain friends. Just tell cody that you like him a lot, but you really aren't thinking of dating right now cause you want to concentrate on your books, or you don't fancy being tied down.You continue being his friend, he sounds like he needs someone like you to support him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): I feel for the kid. (no pun intended)
He sounds like a victim of Bullying. A group of teens targeted him and have, through gossip, tarnished this poor boys reputation/character.
How does his community let such ugly people get away with mistreating him? He now lives a life of isolation and is doing his best to overcome the lies I am sure.
I think he does needs friends. Good ones that will attest to the REAL Cody and his TRUE VALUE and WORTH as a fellow Brother to the Human Race that resides on this Planet.
Is that you?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 February 2012):
 even if the rumors are NOT true, if you go out with cody you will get a skanky reputation just like him just because you go out with him..... do you want that?
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