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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't understand why I am so caught on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What to do what to do... I met "Jeff" 10 years ago. We dated and had a good time. He dissapeared on me only to return a year later and we reconnected for a bit. Then he dissapeared, again. At the time both of us were party people and he espically an alcoholic. We have mutua... (319 words)

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I knew it was not a good start, bu... (1571 words)

I've compromised so much he now thinks he is always right!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes one thinks the best way of dealing with disagreements is by compromising, so much that you change a lot of what it is "You" in hopes that the other would do the same. It's like that Fergie song, "Meet Me Halfway", but what happens if one compromises so much that the ... (77 words)

I want my LDR b/f's family to accept us but I don't think they do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm writing this on my phone so I'm sorry for any mistakes. I've been in a long distance for four and a half years now. We've met before. Last year, we both told our families. Our friends already knew. Anyways. Last Christmas, I went to Canada to v... (306 words)

Gift for partner's mom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello aunts and uncles, my partners mother invited us for a birthday dinner at hers and i really don't know what gift would be appropriate for her.(we can't get something together as he has already given her a gift) please note she's in her late 60s, we're not very close or fr... (93 words)

Should I leave him to find an attentive man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - frist i want to say i love my boyfriend we've been togther for 4 years now. but things are getting wierd . like sex between us is almost nonextint and if we do all he wants is for me to go down on him . and if i dont drop every little thing im doing for him then he gets all mad ... (156 words)

Should I ask him why he is ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We had a fling, we're friends (or at least I thought we were) and recently he stopped texting me, if I ever try to contact him he never replies after the second text. The last time I saw him he seemed a bit weird and I didn't know why. The time we saw each other before that was ... (272 words)

Girlfriend withdraws suddenly from the relationship. Is she love avoidant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - (Sorry if this is too long. If you just want to know what I’m talking about jump to the last 2 paragraphs.) I’m in a (very) long distance relationship with a girl for about 4 months now and we’re planning to meet in her city in 1 month. She’s a lovely, beautiful and in... (516 words)

What at the signs that differentiate between being friendly and flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - during a conversation with a stranger (for example, at a place of work), what are signs a guy is flirting as opposed to just being friendly? what do you consider the stereotypical "weather" conversation? what kind of things would you do/talk about in each situation ... ? ... (55 words)

I like him. he's nice. I want to know him better.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I could do with some rleationship asking a guy out kind of way. I go swimming all the time and a lifeguard there I know from school. We don't ever talk in a full out conversation. But we both know who one another are. A week ago my friend came with me to the pool and she said ... (189 words)

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a good man but we drifted apart ... (165 words)

I am worried it is over.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so helpless and depressed and lost. I started dating a guy and we went out on a few dates..everything was going well now he has stopped calling. Before then we emailed each other a lot for a few months before we met (we had met online). Now he has completely stopped ... (204 words)

I'm so angry after breakup with boyfriend and I'm worried about how its making me act/feel

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My now ex boyfriend and I broke up because he was a compulsive liar.he had lots of warnings but inm the end he just couldn't change so I ended it. The problem I now have is my anger, I am furious with him for everything he put me through! For not setting me free before now! I a... (168 words)

I can't get the nerve to ask this boy out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - so i like this guy and i cant get the nerves to ask him out. for one all his friends are not the most nice people in the world. so i need help to get the guts to ask him out or even talk to him. if any advise please help me! :) !thank you! ... (80 words)

Friend wants me to come and spend alot of money for her birthday. I don't need the drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a dilema regarding a friends birthday. I have this friend, we'll call her Tanya. We're not close, just mates who see eachother once a month or so and usually thru mutual friends as I am very close with one of her bestfriends who also happens to be my flatmat... (545 words)

I want to give this guy my number but I'm afraid in case I misunderstand his signs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a boy i am interested in who works at the shop at the end of my road. He always makes conversation and i always catch his eye and he'll smile. I always get butterflies when i walk into the shop with the excitement that he might be in there but sometimes i get nervous ... (132 words)

Being told you're beautiful during sex, does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Just want to get an idea what the general consensus is on telling someone they're beautiful during sex. If during the early stages of seeing someone, they say you're beautiful, can this still be quite a casual statement, or do you think it's a loaded term and means quite a lot. ... (88 words)

How to leave an affair if you love the person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Yes affairs are wrong but if you fall inlove with someone and they feel the same and you determine it's not infatuation and what you feel is love. How do you stop seeing that person and leave them if you love them so much? But deep down you know you have to do the right thing ... (63 words)

My head is screaming that my boyfriend shouldn't treat me like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick background: Both 17, together 2 years. Boyfriends best friend Craig. Other close friend Jake. Me and Craig are close, like siblings. We all play Xbox together and my boyfriend is extremely horrible to me on it but completely different in person. For example, I don't... (304 words)

How do I change my man's perception of me of being a club/party girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need your help to get my man to commit to me like he was in the beginning. We have talked about marraige since we met and we know we both want. However, we have had some ups and downs which is attributed to long distance and me having trust issues with my man. I have issues w... (301 words)

Do I wait for someone who fulfills my complex needs or do I settle for kindness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm wondering if this is the problem: My ex was a true dominant male. I loved the feeling of the power he had over me, physically and mentally. He was simply amazing in bed. But in the end he just didn't want me like I wanted him. The new guy wants me like no one ever... (192 words)

Is it possible my boyfriend is too interested in my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for about 10 months now and recently I'v noticed something peculiar. Whenever he meets my mom, he really 'looks' at her when her back is turned. He even asked me about my parents sex life once when we were talking, he said it in a cas... (127 words)

G/f says she has an orgasm, but how do I know if she's just saying that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend don't have sex yet but do fondle and try to give each other orgasms. I dont have a problem with mine, but do get confused about her. She does like me touching and massaging her down there but doesnt let me do it continously. She says that it stops giving ... (118 words)

I was hurt by 2 guys I was dating. Was it because I think everyone is good?

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25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The key issue behind asking this question is to reduce my own vulnerability in not understanding the real intentions of young college going guys.I am a very sensitive and innocent girl. At times, it's very hard for me to understand the real intentions of people as they pretend ... (555 words)

I know this isn`t working but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my Boyfriend for just under four years now. We have been living together for a year and a half and we are now renting out first house together. But things have been going wrong in the relationship and i am thinking i should move on. At first he was kind, loving ... (557 words)

Broke it off with my LDR , but I want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I need some help guys. I'm in a long distance relationship of 2 years. I live in Thailand but my bf lives in the US. We had a fight a couple days ago and he called me a bitch. my response was: your such a bad liar! I told him we should break up because i'm tired of... (103 words)

Friend's boyfriend becoming too friendly, or over thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend and she has a son who is few days younger then my daughter she is 23 and her partner is 24 and i am 20 and have a partner anyways the question i am wondering is her boyfriend is a real jerk to her and old fashion and isn't effectionet anyways since i added him ... (176 words)

Is he too forward to be taken seriously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age - Dear users, I am new one here, I have a question. I just do not know what to think about mature man who hardly know me, we just wrote 2-3 letters to each other and he calls me "Hello, sweet thing" instead of my name. I find it too familiar. I think if a man is serious and resp... (123 words)

I don't want to move to another country if it's just going to lead to heartbreak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and my boyfriend is 18, we've been together for almost 18 months, and I was his first and only sexual partner. It's a very long distance relationship, and we've had our share of problems but we managed to work through them. He had been feeling unhappy with me (mostly ... (260 words)

If he wants sex he has no chance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - *We made out a couple of weeks ago (drunk). Told me he had feelings. *I stayed at his place (didn't have sex) *It was awkward the next week in college oddly *He jetted off to France for a week (student exchange) where apparently he DID THINGS WITH ANOTHER GIRL he just met... (128 words)

Friendly, or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job approx 3 weeks ago, in my first few training days there was a guy (cute and around my age) that came in; I was still kinda slow and clumsy at the time but he patiently waited, smiling, as I sorted things out. He came in again today and immediately remember... (241 words)

What would you do if a guy texts you but never calls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What would you do if a guy texts you and never calls. He doesn't ask you out consistantly. For example this weekend he has not asked me out for a date. He doesn't ever call. I really like him though and when we go out we have a really good time. All the guys out there: is ... (87 words)

Should I be more flirtacious or just find someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So ive never been in this perdicament before, ive only ever been in one relationship and it was toxic, there was a lot of cheating lying and heartbreak for me. Im still not completely over it but I am trying to move on. I recently met a guy and we text f... (204 words)

I know I love my boyfriend more than he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help guys. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I love him to death. But I'm pretty darn sure that I love him more than he loves me. He tells me he loves me, and I believe him. But it's not the SAME. I know everything can't be equal, but ... (288 words)

This is a dumb questions but .... does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so right before the Christmas holidays we went for dinner and we were really attracted to each other and ended up kissing a lot! We've been in touch but it's been busy with university work. Anyway last week we got talking again and he invited me to his house for a part... (174 words)

I'm getting tired of it, I really am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age - I was asking for advice concerning my ex we broke up in August remained friends he visits on weekends and has times he stays in the week I see our friendship like being on a roller coaster one minute fine then look out. We are nothing alike yes he is quite but has the wil... (289 words)

I'm too self conscious to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I havent had sex with my boyfriend yet but i'm worried about making a lot of noise during sex,like moaning and screaming and shouting lol.I'm also self conscious about my body.I really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to stop feeling embarassed.... (47 words)

Shouldn't there be more to life than this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Do you ever think that you should be doing more in life? I have in the past waisted so much time partying and being selfish, no that I am clean and sober I just feel as If I should be doing more than just working, crazy huh?... (47 words)

He doesn't have money for gifts so I asked him to write me a love letter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my name is Rosey. I'm in a long distance relationship of 3 years. I'm very grateful for having a loving man that truly cares about me. We plan on getting married after we both finish school. We are the bestest of friends and there never goes a day without us talking. ... (298 words)

Am I just a way to pass the time when he is bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well there is this guy and we met through school.(He now goes to a different school) When the summer holidays came round, was when we got talking, we met once that holiday too. We flirt and have a great time when we talk to eachother. But I relised that he only talks to ... (264 words)