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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't understand this girl! If I am an important part of her life, then why am I being treated like this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I would really appreciate your advice on this, but first some background: I am 30 and my girlfriend is 28. We started dating 3 years ago, we went out for two months then she left me for her ex. I subsequently found out that they had never split up. She moved in with him for ... (327 words)

When would be the time to forget about him and accept it's not going anywhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy and things went really well, we got along great and talked for hours about literally everything. He was so sweet and makes me feel like a schoolgirl, he kept holding me close and we kissed a lot this night!! We've met up a few times before this, but ... (252 words)

I knew he was a jerk before I met him but why does it hurt so much that he has moved on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so insecure like never b4. Please help. Before I met this guy I was confident. I met him 2 years ago on a chatline. We instantly connected. It took us a while to finally meet n person because he was emotionally and verbal abusive to me. So I would always hold back, bt ... (411 words)

I can't accept my friends faults and focus on her good points anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my bestfriend and i have always got along really well until recently. she's a stronger personality than me and i've always just accepted that normally. until now. my whole year is going through a period of stress at the moment because of exams etc and suddenly her faults have ... (313 words)

Is my husbands coworker acting inappropriately?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, My husband has a coworker who likes to act like one of the guys. They are in sales in a construction related business. Sometimes he will "ride" with her for the day, even though it isn't required.. While I understand lots of men work with women daily this woman just see... (376 words)

Wife and I haven't had sex in a year, she says go somewhere else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have not had sex in almost a year now and I do not know what's wrong. I try to talk to her about it but can't get any straight answers. She says she still loves me but that I should go find someone else who will not only love me but share sexual times with me. I ... (88 words)

Can't pick between two guys that I love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused and I need someone's help I been seen two guys just recently with the new one but I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 n half years now we have been off in on.. Been throw hell and back and between this time we had two babies and we have bills a house ... (167 words)

The guy I'm dating hasn't opened up to me in the slightest

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for 2 months and we see each other a couple of times a week, we always have a great time together, the sex is good, he is very physically affectionate, romantic, kind and seems very keen. Has introduced me to all his friends etc. I like him. Howe... (322 words)

Why does he stare into my eyes deeply?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i would be glad if i get answers to my question. There is this guy who i kn he likes me but i dont kn if he loves me. What i dont understand is whenever we are chatting, he keeps on touching my hands sofly and gently and gets very close to me and sometimes stare ... (96 words)

Is an emotional affair like texts, emails not cheating and more like porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am right now very numb... Two days ago I woke up and was going to paint getting ready for my long term bf to finally move in. He had slept over and left his iPad. I was looking at the furniture that we had been looking at the night before on it and then I glanced at his ... (248 words)

Is it taking advantage of a girl if you sleep with her because she's "easy"?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - So I know this girl who is really beautiful. Not only is she gorgeous but she's also "easy". You know what I mean by easy, right? She lets a lot of mates have their way with her. I mean, maybe she likes it too. If someone will get her a gift or buy her nice things she'll do ... (214 words)

My boyfriend's mom still buys his underware!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know some of you may find this question a bit ridiculous, but it's been driving me mad! My 27 year old boyfriend has never bought his own underwear. His mother buys them. She sends him boxers for every holiday. He has Halloween boxers, Christmas boxers, Valentine's Day ... (133 words)

Why did my g/f make me wait 3 months to sleep with her but she slept with a friend she hadn't even dated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes. Let me start off by saying I love my girlfriend and she loves me. She's 21 and I'm 29. The age thing rarely bothers me. (Only when she wants to go to her younger brothers for parties and such. He's 19 and I'm to old to be a house parties with 16 year old girls). ... (217 words)

B/f talks to too many girls on facebook and its starting to drive me crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend talks to lots of girls on facebook who are "old friends" as he says. i'm normally not a jealous person but this is starting to bug me as its in excess of 10 different girls, and the "chats" are quite overly friendly. they say things like "it would be lovely to see ... (115 words)

Girlfriend has jealousy/insecurity issues as well as personal issues. I want out but am afraid.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to break up with my girlfriend of nearly three years. We live together with her parents, and we are supposed to move into a new place on Thursday. I am not happy in our relationship because she is jealous and spiteful of me. Whenever I have a day off she gets angry ... (226 words)

He shows interest in me but then never follows through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've had feelings for for nearly 5 years now. So when he started showing interest in me a couple of months ago, I couldn't believe my luck. We kissed at a party and texted afterwards. Then he started to ignore me. People said he's shy with girls and that's why ... (175 words)

Why would my partner need a second sperm test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone please give me some advice, my partner and i have been trying for a baby for 1 year now, with no luck. My partner has had a sperm test but has been told he needs to do a second one, does anyone know why this might be. My partner is away with the army at the moment ... (68 words)

Are there any health risks in swallowing cum?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, are there any health risks involved with swallowing cum? please don't mention std's, because i already know that they're a risk factor, buuut i also know for a fact that the guys i've given oral sex to don't have anything. soo, other than std's, are there any ot... (66 words)

Pregnancy risks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, if you have anal sex and the guy cums in you, is it possible for any of his sperm to come in contact with your vagina (like, if it happens to run back out of your anus) and get you pregnant?... (46 words)

Hysterctomy blues...anyone suffering with them?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - HI Lady's.. Well I have been on this site for some time now, and recently had a TVH (Total virginal Hysterectomy) Im not getting hardly any hot flashes, but my appetite has got huge, my moods very erratic, and im aching like im about 80 most of the time. :( One min... (170 words)

He's sleeping on my couch and wants me back, but I want him to leave because I cant take it anymore! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was 15 when I had my first child and 25 when I had my second and last. Shockingly enough (and I say 'shockingly' because I know how people are), they are both by the same father. However, we did not stay together throughout that ten year gap. We were together from age 14 to ... (620 words)

He claims they are just friends but he has told me she is prettier than me, should he stop seeing her and stop texting her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I even had to see a councillor. And he advised me on what I should have in mind for my next bf. that year, I met this amazing guy friend ... (510 words)

Feeling awkward when I get intimate with my boyfriend, how do I get over this and get the passion back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some advice on how to get over feeling awkward when I get physically intimate with my bf, please. We've been togther 16 months and are now talking about moving in with each other. At first, our sex life was amazing....lots of lust! Over the last 2-3 months, that ... (598 words)

I know he is chatting to other girls but he denies it, is he cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend so much and we are mostly in on off relationship for 6months now..but for the past 2 months now we are in serious relationship than other 4months which when off on... but main problem is that i doubt him most of the time that he also flirts wit other ... (135 words)

Is this a problem? Or is it normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been reading alot of questions on here, and have only just realised i have a problem of my own. i am sexually active(safely), and everytime i have sex, if we are in missionary position or i'm on top, it feels good don't get me wrong, i get all the normal good feelings... (170 words)

PDA issues with my boyfriend, and jealous of his insanely beautiful ex! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so have this amazing perfect boyfriend I have been dating off and on since 8th grade(we're in 10th now). I love him to death, we were even each others first kiss. currently this time our relationship has lasted since 2 days before thanksgiving last year and I have recently ... (561 words)

I'm in a happy relationship now, so why wont my ex move on like I have done?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone i need to understand why my ex is still tracking my movements on the internet? we were together 7 years, its been over between us for 2 yrs but only stopped sexual contact 10 months ago. we have had zero contact except on 3 occasions via txt messages in regards to ... (295 words)

Do I give my ex yet another chance for my little girl's sake? Or do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi again... i seriously need advice. i come out of serious relationship of 4 years, 3 n half months ago, my ex is a recovering alcoholic, we have a little girl. he is desperate to get back with me and he is going to this council session every week that seem to be helping him ... (161 words)

An argument over opening doors has led me to question my feelings for him, am I being crazy or over-sensitive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for just over a year. He's 46, I'm 43. I will admit, I have ignored some small "yellow flags", but there are many, many good qualities about him and I also know that there is no "perfect", that I, myself, am not perfect and I feel as though ... (435 words)

Is it just too soon to start a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This shouldn't be this difficult. I broke up with the ex January 2nd. The last 3 weeks I've had a really nice, sweet, caring guy in hot pursuit. I've told him several times that I'm in no shape emotionally or psychologically to get into anything right now. He does everything I ... (158 words)

How do you stop feeling lonely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you stop feeling lonely, when you are constantly surrounded by the happiness of others? I have been single for almost 4yrs now and for the most part of that I have been extremely lonely. Everything I do in life is with couples, I sit there at work and daily listen t... (196 words)

Do you think he is going to live up to his promises?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya Just need some advice please on a current situation... I have a lovely home and a lovely boyfriend who loves me completly - however, he has 3 children. I have told my boyfriend what I want out of life and he has always said he will do it with me - these are buying a ... (302 words)

What can delay a period other than pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I read on the internet that you can miss periods for a few months after stopping the pill, and I was just wondering how accurate that is? I stopped taking the pill around the 10th of December, and had a period (or withdrawl bleed). I then got another period around the 18th/19t... (234 words)

Premature ejaculation.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - What can I do to prevent quick ejaculation?... (8 words)

I want to know what I might be suffering from before I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - please help me.i have small pimples or swellings on my outer and inner labia.when i sratched one,a little like fibre came out and it dried and left a scar on me.i also have developed slihgtly itchy skin and eyes.when i checkout my pants,they have a thick yellowish liquid that ... (73 words)

He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex husbands and get on with one ... (145 words)

I met someone else, so how do I let him down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy towards the end of last year but then we stopped talking, it just fizzled out. But about two weeks ago he contacted me again and we have been flirting and planning to go out with each other sometime. The thing is, I met this guy but I figured he was out of my ... (222 words)

Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more than likely attracted to me. ... (147 words)

I gave him oral sex on the 4th date and now he has stopped contacting me, are my fears of him never contacting me again correct?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that getting physical too soon especially if you are just dating and the guy is not your boyfriend is not the best way to go. However, I have been on 4 dates with this guy and on the fourth date gave him oral sex. I said some stuff that may have sounded that I wanted to ... (150 words)

He claims his chatting with his ex was harmless, but it really hurts me. Who is in the right here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, and I love him dearly. A few months ago I found messages on his Facebook between him and an ex. The contents upset me as they were flirting, although nothing too major. I told him how I felt, and he admitted it was wrong. I have ... (157 words)

He can handle longer sessions.....so what am I doing wrong when he finishes quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Not really sure how to ask this.... sometimes my boyfriend will cum two or three times in a row and we can usually go at it for like an hour. othertimes it only last like 10 minutes. am i doing something wrong when its only 10 minutes? his body can def handle longer sessions... (66 words)

Why am I so heavy on my feet when I walk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I can remember, I've had knee problems. I only found out a year and a half ago that I am flat footed also. I did some research and found out that my knee problems may have stemmed from my flat footedness. However, what I am really wondering is, why am I so heavy on ... (172 words)

Have we broken up or are we still in a relationship? Should I ask him what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had always arguments and he always ended up calling me names. But I always tolerated but recently I am so intolerant to his behavior so I said I want to break up with him. He said he is ready too. But after a while he called me and said he couldn't imagine ... (213 words)

I don't want to bring this up as it will start another fight, but the affection and romance has gone from our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I am 24, he is 27. We live together. In the beginning (first year and 4 months), he was always extremely lovey dovey. Always sending cute texts every day, always telling me how much he loves me, etc etc. Whenever he would leave for ... (395 words)

Starcrossed lovers with a disapproving family....what can we do to ensure we stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is like a Romeo and Juliet kinda situation.... Ok, so basically me and my gf have been going out secretly for a year and a bit. It's a long distance thing, we live an hour away. This is all secret. However, recently her elder brother confiscated her phone and looked... (299 words)

I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a guy friend of hers who she's kno... (270 words)

I wish my B/f saw me as one of those ideal girls in dude movies with "big boobs/skinny waist/big butt/slim thighs", instead of the cute girl next door

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I always feel so insecure about my body, it's so stupid... I even get really nervous and anxious when watching movies with my boyfriend, especially the type of "dude" movies where lots of perfect boobs are shown. I never say anything in front of him, but I just feel so terrible ... (313 words)

We are so different but I have a huge crush on him! How do I get the courage to talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone I really need help,there is this guy in my school, he's soooo cute and adorable, i dont really know him that much i just see him around the hallway and in gym class but not in the same class. he's white and i'm black (weird right), he's an IB student( which me... (180 words)

My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would occasionally IM but nothing big. ... (346 words)

I'm not sure I trust my ex when he says he isn't using drugs anymore, we have a 10 year old I want to keep safe!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

23 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, new here. Question about addiction. My ex-boyfriend and the father of my 10 year old had, when we were together, a big drug problem. We split up 3 years ago. He used to smoke cannabis every day (had 'come downs' when he couldnt get any) spent most of our money on cocaine... (397 words)