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My rich, famous and good looking husband is deceiving everyone! Its obvious that he's cheating on me, then why this show that everything's fine?

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Question - (19 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, *sabellablaze writes:

On my birthday we left for Hawaii and my hubby announced this trip as 'Family vacation' on twitter(11th Jan) but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday,instead he wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together!

whats this nonsense???

After marriage just in 2007 it self i saw pix of him sitting very closely with three blondes at a restaurant,all who wear scantily dressed,midriffs showing and later one of those blondes was sitting on his lap while he was shirtless and showing his wedding ring to the camera and another blonde was kissing him on his cheeks.He got himself pictured as well.

Same year at his work tour i saw him (in a video)that he was repeatedly kissing a brunette who was quite younger than him in age, on her cheeks,hanging out with her,eating lunch with her and that girl also jumped into his arms while he kissed her head and held her in his arms.

I have seen pictures in which he was seen with a blond girl, with whom he was cuddling from behind, had his arms on her chest and neck, kissing her head at an almost empty restaurant and was laughing and joking

He was also pictured intimately with his close friend,head tilted,touching her head,his hand on her waist ,in a parking lot of their workplace in the dark of 5 years (who is 7 years younger than him and with whom he used to sit beside at his sessions,talking to her,holding her hands,even gave a pic of her in a magazine who's guest editor was my husband)

Then in June last year thrashed her publicly on radio for being a **** and the 10 men he knows. she slept with. And who she must be sleeping with while he’s talking and was in a sexual affair with her other wise how did he know that she sleeps around when they were in different sections at their workplace?That same interview he mentioned me saying what he put me through while he stopped breathing after he overdosed on drugs 6 years ago,how much his in laws care for him.

In public and on twitter he always shows or maintains that he’s such a family guy, hes a family man through and through.like hes a stand up family man.

When I go to watch him perform he kisses me in the crowds only when he can get down from the ramp way and when lots of people are seeing and when he can't get down from the ramp way i am supposed to sit backstage.

He says family time is so important and so valuable and he needs time with family so he took break from work for 3 weeks, and writing such things’ mean who is his family and then he cheats??

He will purposely mention me he did this with me he did that with me and this image has made his reputation spotless like nobody actually believes that he can cheat or cheats.

We had to act in a documentary where we had to act out a few kissing scenes or scenes showing husband bonding with his family(real) but when the whole scene was shown everyone had one thing to comment that our chemistry looked contrived, boring fluff and unnatural.

why is he doing this???

why is he deceiving everyone and himself?????

hes rich,famous and good looking.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (21 February 2012):

Anonymous 123 agony auntWhy are you waiting for the inevitable to happen? Its like walking on eggshells all the time, every day. If you are so sure that the marriage is about to end, then why dont you snap it yourself rather than waiting for HIM to throw it in your face? If he cares for the child, at least the child will be well provided for, so that's one worry less

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A female reader, isabellablaze United States +, writes (21 February 2012):

isabellablaze is verified as being by the original poster of the question

he will divorce me because he will never continue with me when he has so many girls

but he does care for the child,i know that.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (20 February 2012):

Anonymous 123 agony auntYour husband uses you and the "happy family" facade to his advantage because he is a public figure and it goes well with his image that is on display for the public. He lives for the camera, for the shutterbugs and for publicity, he's treating his life as a soap opera and you are the trophy wife. That is your purpose in his life. He will never divorce you because it goes completely against his "image" as a spotlessly clean, ideal family man.

The ball is in your court now. Why haven't you considered leaving him? Why are you even asking why he hasn't divorced you yet? If you know what he is up to and that he has a bevy of girls lined up, then what are you waiting for? I honestly don't think he cares much for you or the child so he will never do anything in your favor keeping both of you in mind. He's just keeping up with his squeaky clean image in front of the camera and living his own sweet life behind it, with no regard for you or the baby whatsoever. If he did have the slightest concern, this is not how he would be behaving.

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A female reader, isabellablaze United States +, writes (20 February 2012):

isabellablaze is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Why doesnt he divorce me?

is it because he stays out of road most of the time,and that he cant take care of his 3 year old child alone?

or that right this moment where none of his "girls" are reliable enough to marry him and raise children with him???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012):

Well, what did you expect marrying a celebrity? They get more a** than a toilet seat. You have two options, either stay with him because of the money and jet set lifestyle, or leave him and start taking care of yourself. But, since he is rich you will get a good portion of that if you divorce him, so there is really no reason for you to put up with him anymore. Good luck!

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