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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you answer questions honestly even if you think it maybe about YOU or YOUR situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Me again...I have an over active mind! Lol! Here goes... Have you ever read a Dear Cupid question and thought either:- A)OMG its about you and your situation? Or ... B)You know the person who asked it? AND...if either...did it affect your answer? (I'm i... (250 words)

I feel like damaged goods because I won't be able to have children and haven't talked with him about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - well i do love my boyfriend just a few things on my mind and i need some advice. Firstly, christmas time i bought him a ear ring and hes only worn it a handful of times do i ask if he liked it? its niggling at me a bit More importantly on numerous occasions he has said t... (363 words)

Does temperature affect the size of your fingers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a quick little question thing. I tried on my mates ring because he told me it was too big for his middle finger which is the one it was meant for so he wore it on his thumb and he told me to put it on to prove a point that it was just too big in general but it fit my ... (130 words)

Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense.... (44 words)

I'm so shy, I don't think that I will be able to start talking to him and I also have a feeling like he is also too shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - It a very long story but I'll try to make it as short as I can. There is this guy in my college that I really like. He already knows it because my friend asked him on facebook what he thinks of me and he said he thinks i'm nice but he doesn't know me too well. He does many ... (182 words)

I feel love for my dad's cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What do i should if I feel love for my dad`s cousin and she is eight years older than me?... (20 words)

Should I stick with him or let him go and sort my head out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do.. I think my ex has messed up my head. I can't feel feelings and sometimes they're the opposite feeling I am supposed to have. I've had 3 family members die in 3 months and I've hardly cried and when I told friends they've passed I laugh and I feel ... (200 words)

Why do I feel so upset about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Me and this guy friend (at least i thought he was) were FWB for a while, which ended badly for me. I really did like him and i've never been into the whole FWB thing but i just went along with it. After a while i realised who he really was, which was a total pig basically, who ... (240 words)

Can you explain how a guy dates many girls at one? Are there any feelings involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I guess this is a question for guys. Why do some guys like to date many girls? I just don't understand how and why they do it. How about the feelings? Do you like one girl better than the other one and so forth? or how do you manage this? Do you wish one of them would ... (96 words)

I'm afraid this model-gorgeous girl will steal my thunder at my wedding!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I know this is gonna sound childish and all but here's the thing: I'm getting married in a few months. It's gonna be a very intimate ceremony with just my fiancé and I plus the witnesses and a bunch of friends. Problem is, my fiancé's witness is married to a really ... (141 words)

How do I get my husband to give me compliments again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have scared my husband away from giving me compliments because as he says he would give one and i would question his answer or get upset cause it wasn't what i wanted to hear. i guess i did do that and i guess i did it for a long time. Long enough to make it that he will not ... (591 words)

How should I cut her out of my life without falling out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

- I feel like one of my good friends does not make an effort to be my friend and Im thinking about burning bridges with her. Weve been friends a while now, about 7 years. To be fair to her, she does work full time and have 2 kids to bring up and is married. I also have a child ... (334 words)

Am I suffering from male jealousy, or friendship jealousy, or am I right in not wanting this relationship to continue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has this gay male friend. He and her were friends before we even started dating. I kind of have no problem with this, but he is a little over the top. Like dancing around in our house wearing nothing but short-shorts and being a typical 'flammer'. I have nothing against ... (372 words)

Is going to the gym scary?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyaaaa, Well, I've got to a stage in my life where my body isn't going to go any slimmer and as in 6th form (college) we stopped having P.E lesson even though it wasn't exciting I still had fun and its you know exercising! I wanna start going to the gym and I'll be hon... (251 words)

How can I make him see that he is disgusting and needs to lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for almost 25 years and we have 4 children. When we got married I weighed 135 and he weighed 180. We looked and felt great. We did alot of outdoor activities. Now I am at 160 and he is about 310. He is fat! I can hardly stand to look at him. To ... (406 words)

He has issues with my past and we are apart, but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and i have been having a rough situation. We was together for five months. We broke up n then get back together. We had an amazin relationship. But he has anger inside because of my past. I really do love him even though we bearly broke up again nd got in a big fight he ... (199 words)

Starving for more in our sex life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I got married this last october. I love him more than anything but I knew from the begining that we weren't sexually compatable. This is a problem we've been dealing with for over a year. We've talked many times about what we can do to make it beter but it always ... (183 words)

Is this wedding invite a sign that he wants something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a crush on this guy for sometime, and I have been invited to his family wedding. Its 4 months to go. It will be around 200 guests and very family orientated. We have been more than friends for a while, but not into a relationship enough to call it "friends with ... (134 words)

My boyfriend impregnated another woman... what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - good day, please advise on my problem. I have a boyfriend of 3 years that i love so much and we have a baby 18 months baby boy, we had our ups and downs in our relationship but we always talk about them and solve them. I just recently found out that he might have Impregna... (248 words)

She used to have affairs with married men. Is she dating material??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this really beautiful girl a couple months ago. She seemed nice and sweet too. Almost too good to be true! I asked her to lunch and surprise to me she said yes. We sort of started a relationship. I mean not too serious yet. Just movies and dinners and walks. I take thi... (253 words)

How can I manage my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so ... (250 words)

Why is he looking at sites with girl's underwear???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I'll probably be raked over the coals for this one because snooping is such a big invasion of privacy and betrayal of trust but here it goes. My boyfriend of four years has been over my apartment recently and he uses my laptop when I go to work. A couple of days later ... (259 words)

I feel sometimes that I treat my girlfriend like a comfort blanket.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a very self-oriented person who enjoys my own and other people's company, striking a balance between these two depending on how I feel. I love other people's company, but only when it suits me. I am the most important person in my life. My girlfriend, on the other han... (241 words)

Is there still a spark there with him???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age - I have been in touch with my ex boyfriend, now married. It was a bad breakup and we started to finally talk and be friends again. Well one night I get two phone calls from his wife telling me not to talk to him or text him again. I didn't pick up. It was valentines night and my ... (129 words)

His sweet words to me, so romantic, well, he's used them before with his past girlfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend was very romantic when we first got together. he used to send me loonggg text messages telling me how he felt about me and how he had really fallen for me and i loved it. as we got further along the line these messages died down, though he still sends them ... (189 words)

She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends always just say I'm a bad guy w... (453 words)

I don't want to be that jealous girl but I still feel so jealous and insecure. How do I get over this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I need some help or advice to get over my jealousy. I am with a guy, we have been together 2/3 months officially. We were seeing each other earlier in the year but it didn't work out as he had just come out of serious relationship but then we bumped in to eachother mon... (311 words)

My girlfriend is worried that we aren't compatible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlsfriend and i have been speaking and she says we dont have the friendship factor. we have been together 8 months and she is worried that were not that compatable. there is hardly any convosation when we are together. what can i do... (44 words)

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, what's the best thing to do so she will leave us alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf's ex gf, what is the best way to have her leave us alone? My bf and I have been back together for almost a year now (we dated 1 yr and a half back then, and broke up) When we were together the first time he talked to his ex here and there, I found out and was not happ... (437 words)

How to start a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I really have no ideas for how to pursue relationships with women. I can never seem to get past acquaintance or friend... Any advice appreciated.... (28 words)

Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play poker on Friday which is fine ... (651 words)

I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even discussing in having a baby. But ... (180 words)

Liking a friend's ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really.like my friend's ex-bf. They have broken up many times when they dated and got back together. They broke up again and now my friend has a new boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her that I like her ex. But i want to tell her I like him but don't know how. And if me and her ... (83 words)

My boyfriend never calls and it's starting to bother me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this isn't a life altering issue or anything, but it's starting to really bother me. My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time together and we text every day. We rarely talk on the phone- maybe once a week. When we talk, and the conversation comes to an end or he gets ... (130 words)

I keep dreaming he's cheating, how can I make the dreams stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep having dreams of my fiancee cheating on me! It normally happens if we argue and don't resolve it that night, but yesterday it happened randomly. It starts with some girl in bed with him, and me being really hurt crying, etc. and him telling me he doesn't really care (wh... (110 words)

I was trying to be friends with my ex, then he started yelling at me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i was dating this guy and we dated for about 3 months then we broke up and we agreed to be "friends" as almost every couple do and then about 2 weeks ago he text-ed me saying shut up because i said hey sup then we went on and he just kept swearing at me i still can't stop ... (96 words)

Should a married woman accept a drink from a man at a bar?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1894 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Do y'all think it's OK for a married woman to accept a purchased drink from a man at a bar? My wife often goes out with her girlfriends. Sometimes they sit around a table like a bunch of hens cackling for hours - men run for the hills. But other times, some of. The girls will ... (403 words)

Pregant and feel alone and lost .. want advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Need helpful advice from anyone. Feeling very lost, I'm 24 and six months pregnant. I didn't want to pregnant, and I feel awkward when anyone talks to me about it. My boyfriend of five years is very happy about the whole thing, but he doesn't seem to understand how I feel. I ... (113 words)

After our good living together trial period, everything has gone downhill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so im having a big issue here and im looking for advice or peoples opinion on what they think. So, one day after being tired of being alone, and also needing a place to stay, i decided to look online to try and find a compatible match for my situation. This was pretty much a ... (563 words)

If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as natural that a spouse would ... (85 words)

I can't imagine leaving my family to move to be with my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a US Marine and is currently stationed in Hawaii and I am in NY. He is done with his contract around the same time I am graduating from college. He has asked me to move to North Dakota with him about half way t... (289 words)

Where do 30-somethings go on dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all.. I m back in the dating game at 32 and have met a new guy so far we have been out for a drink but i am rubbush at ideas at what things to do next.. cinema, meals ?? but then what? i want to have some fun and interesting ideas but i'm in an idea rut ! Please can you ... (73 words)

What should I do if he doesn't respond to my messages?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend sent me a text message this morning saying that he loves me, and a couple of hours later, he called me, but i missed the call. He didnt leave a voicemail message. I couldn't get back to him until a few hours later. I tried to call him but there was no answer, and i ... (213 words)