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writes:ModNote: The OP has implied that this question could have more detail added - the OP is welcome to add that details as follow ups to this question, herein, to assist others to answer this question. The reason for him not liking me was mostly my fault. I used to pretend I didn't like him and he seemed very upset about this. Then all of a sudden I told him I had a crush on him once he got a girlfriend. He told me he saw me as a friend and didnt expect this. I was crushed because I thought his feelings for me were the same. He even told me that he may have gone out with me last year when I had pushed him away due to fear of rejection. His relationship with his girlfriend didn't last long. While they were going out and afterward I made the big mistake of showing my emotions publicly, as well as him seeing me cry multiple times. He thought I was just doing it for attention and I guess was also confused by the fact that I appeared to not like him once, then like him the next. We have stopped talking after this. I feel like I jumped too fast and then ended up hurting myself in the process. He's also very stubborn. I still want to pursue him, but I know he's a little awkward about the whole situation. My lack of experience was the result of my own demise. I want to bring our friendship back and get him to realize how badly I feel about this. I still like him. How can I make him see that I've changed since then and am the right choice? or at least bring our friendship back? or what's your idea about the whole situation? Should I just forget about the whole thing
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (23 February 2012):
 HI
I would try to be his friend again first, maybe write him a letter apologising for the confusion, and if have upset him, and if he dont want to be more than friends you would rather that then not be speaking as you miss his company.If he agree's to trying as friends again, be just that, be the best friend you can be, and over time he may just fall for you in the process. :) dont push things though, just stay cool .
Mandy xx
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