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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I lied to my boyfriend but now that I have come clean and am telling the truth he doesn't trust me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I lied to my boyfriend about my online- activities prior to us moving in together. When he found out, I denied it, then I changed my story and told him what I was doing (emblishing the facts as I thought it was what he wanted to hear), I then took that back, and said I was ... (173 words)

Surprise 50th birthday party and his wife didn't invite his Mother, how to deal with her!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys I have a situation which isn't about a relationship, it's more a family situation and I was just hoping you guys might be able to help me. My brother just turned 50 years old, and his wife put on a surprise birthday party for him, and she didn't invite our mothe... (270 words)

Would I be considered a ladies man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Do I sound like a ladies man to you at all? I'm 18, a senior in high school. I know perfectly how to treat a woman, if she was my girlfriend, would treat her like a queen, or like the best the women in the world. I never had a girlfriend before, but I have some friends that are ... (108 words)

I've been hurt and don't feel like dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way? is it normal? did it happen to you too? I have no interest in guys or relationships. My ex really hurt me. He cheated, lied and dumped me and asked to remain friends and of course I said no. It seems like everyone around me is looking fo... (232 words)

How do I approach my classmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really interested in this girl in my college; we're together in a class of only 15 people. The problem is that we haven't even talked yet. And that's what makes it so difficult. It's very difficult to get the opportunity to talk to her because the class is so tiny and s... (159 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy the whole school year. He's not a typical jerk, and he's a real genuine person. I got him out of a lot of bad habits, and he made me a happier person. We haven't dated because 1) I'm barely allowed (real restricted) 2) I have no time. I'm trying to focus on ... (183 words)

My married lover is flirting with another woman in front of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old female and I have been with this guy for almost 9 and a half years. He is my colleague and we still work together. However, when I met him, he was already engaged to be married, and although we loved each other, he still got married a couple of months later. ... (302 words)

I have a bad boyfriend but just can't seem to leave him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been thinking about splitting up with my boyfriend but just can't seem to leave him. We've been together 3 years and have a 1 year old. We moved out in the last few weeks and argue all the time. He never wants sex and I want sex whenever we can. Obviously I wouldn't keep ... (658 words)

Long distance romance gone wrong....before it even had a chance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, here's my agony of the day: I met a great guy online (Okcupid). By great, I mean that he's highly attractive to me, has the same fundamental interests, religious views, and hobbies. Even a similar smile! I know this isn't love, but I'm smitten. We messaged bac... (229 words)

I've made it clear I'm not interested but he won't leave me alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A youngThis guy at my church asked me to be his girlfriend.. And now he won't leave me alone:(? So this guy at church started messaging me.. I asked how he got my number he said he got it from my friend at church. He said he thinks I'm really cute and would love to ... (221 words)

How to avoid pregnancy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am new to this so sorry if I'm doing it wrong. Anyways, I am currently 19 years old and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend of 8 months, but I am terrified of getting pregnant... I know about condoms, but those arent always effective. Please help! P.s I hav... (72 words)

Why did boyfriend's face go numb during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's start with I am overweight! However I've been with my boyfriend now for over a month and we have sex everyday at least once, mostly two or three times sometimes more and it's great. However last night we had our first argument and he was solo mad with me and rather ... (195 words)

Why am I still feeling the way I am for her? Does she feel the same way for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm not entirely sure of my question yet, it'll probably come to me as I explain my situation though. Bare with me, please. Anyways, this entire ordeal began about three years ago, summer time. I had made a friend at school, and we'd become closer and close... (680 words)

If a married man and a woman have an affair, can the woman be blamed as well?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age - If a woman and a married man have an affair, is it the woman's fault as well? Obviously, it is the man's fault, but is the woman to blame as well as a home-wrecker? I have heard the defense of the woman saying "It was his choice to go after me, I didn't pursue him!" ... (63 words)

A married millionaire spending time and money on a young beautiful model: Is it possible this relationship is NOT cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) age - Hello, I am writing on behalf of a friend with who came to me with her concerns the other day. I tried to respond best as I could, but I wanted to tap into the wisdom pool here to see what I could tell her further or better. Basically, my friend is a 70-year-old woman who ha... (321 words)

Scared of having sex as I'm not sure what to do... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, I really need some advice. The thing is I've been dating this guy for about eight months now and he wants to have sex and I just keep telling him that I'm not ready but the truth is that I'm really scared of sex and I don't know what to do. Please help!... (57 words)

Not feeling a physical attraction...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently separated, divorce should be final in a couple more months. I met someone on an online dating site and we've been on four dates. This is the first man I've dated since my separation. My problem is that he's perfect for me in every way-kind, sweet, respectful, ... (160 words)

Help!!! How do I let him down gently without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys, short story this really sweet and caring guy and I met a while ago, we started talking, flirting, texting, hanging out etc, and now his feelings have grown stronger for me, while mine have done the opposite. I have realised that my heart is just not in it and th... (132 words)

Breaking down signals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is one of those times where your stuck trying to analyse everything to figure out what they mean... but it's driving me insane, so I guess I'm looking for opinions to see if any of this is means that this girl likes me or not. I met this girl at my local swim team ... (445 words)

How can I explain to my friend he's just not worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - God I'm so worried for my friend. We've both dated the same guy but she's the more recent. He dumped her a month ago and he keeps changing his mind about how he feels for her. Just the Other day he went for a walk with her, said he loved her and made her cry (he tries to guilt ... (202 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend and I'm confused. Please help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now and in that space of time we have had to go through alot to name a few, me losing my job, his mum visiting for 3 week (i didnt meet her, she traditional) and he went away for 5 week. when he came back he made the ... (174 words)

I want my boyfriend back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get my Ex-Boyfriend want me back? My boyfriend broke up with me last Saturday when I called him and asked is that you don't want to be with me anymore and he simply said 'no' and said he had to go. Then he removed his relationship status off FB but didn't put up ... (1606 words)

Why did he suddenly start ignoring me after a night of affection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I've really liked this boy at my school for nearly a year now, but we haven't spoken much. I became friends with him in september as he seems like such a lovely, funny guy. Last night i was at friends party/gathering and i spoke to him quite alot, we flirted(but he flirts w... (276 words)

My boyfriend behaves badly with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone what should I do in this situation I have been in a casual relationship for 11 month now anyway he treats me very badly he doesn't text me much or ring me or come and see me apart from when he wants the obvious he wants me to sit around waiting for him till he ... (167 words)

Why don't I love my brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts! I'm having a problem with love. Not romantically though. My problem is I don't really love one of my brothers. I have 4 sibs. 2 brothers and 2 sisters. (All halves two at each house.) I love my first born brother and used to love my 2nd brother. Then I got my ... (151 words)

Is he serious or he is not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all I need to get some good advise from you guys here. First of all, I get to know this guy online. He is 30, myanmar, Virgo and I am 34, Chinese, libra. We met each other after chatting online for 10 days then we decide to meet up. After meeting up, he text me "... (302 words)

My girlfriend doesn't tell everyone we are dating and has some flirtations with male friends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend stays out regularly and sometimes comes back as late as 4am. Sometimes she goes to see a friend who has a flat a few miles away. I work full time so I generally feel tired as I don't sleep so well when I don't know where she is or what time she will me back. ... (590 words)

I always swore I wouldn't put my children through what I had to face as a child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I could do with some sturn honest advice as I'm feeling a little annoyed with myself. I'm in my 20's and have been with my boyfriend who is in his 40's for 4 years. We live together and have talked about marriage. The problem I have is my jealousy of him spending time at... (307 words)

I really want to give him head. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm 19, I've been seeing this guy for 5 months, he's 23. I've known him for a year now, but only started taking it further in Sept 2011. We've been through our ups and downs, and we do communicate a lot, he's very straight up with me as I am with him, we tal... (254 words)

Why does he think going on dating sites is "nothing"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have officially broke up with my bf of 4 years a few months ago but the feelings are still there and we still love each other a lot. We broke up because the future for us would be very tough together. I also found out that he's been on dating websites and sex dating websi... (439 words)

Am I wrong for wanting a female to play with as my husband can't have sex often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband has health problems so we only make love about 2 times a year i give him oral sex about once a month. i have a dildo and i pleasure myself with it all the time. im wanting another female to play with am i wrong for wanting this. i love my husband more than anything ... (82 words)

I want to spend time with my new boyfriend at school but I don't know if he wants to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i have know this guy for like 4 yrs and we started dating 2 weeks ago, but we havent actually spent time together at school :/ and i want to but i dont know if he does and im a yr 2 mouths older then him, could it be because of that? or is he ashamed of me? i really need ... (70 words)

B/f says he wants to marry me but talks about this girl every day

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I have been together for a little over a year. We have come to our "plateau" in our relationship. But he will not communicate with me at all. He thinks I do everything wrong and he does everything right. I want to just sit and have a heart to heart but he refuses. ... (173 words)

I'm not into incest but I'm sexually attracted to my cousin and it's freaking me out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problen that's been really bothering me now for the past year and a half that I don't know how I can get myself out of. I'm sexually attracted to my cousin and it's scaring me. I'm sure there are many others in my position who feel the same and I'm sure many tolerate ... (552 words)

Should I cut off my friendship with him? He's acting different now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I are recent friends. Sometimes I kid or joke around with him and enjoy his company. Sometimes by the way he acted I felt like he had feelings for me. He even told me something about having thoughts and feelings towards me and I kind of freaked out because I was ... (155 words)

I can't believe anything he says anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little things. I've given him se... (630 words)

How do I ask my boyfriend what his future plans are with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So Im wondering how I ask my boyfriend if we are working towards having a future together or if this all we are goin to do. I don't want to feel like I do all the things I do for him like cleaning his place all the time when there is no future for us. I'm happy to do things f... (171 words)

I regret being so shallow about a guy's height

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I turned down an opportunity to be with a guy who was committed and a good person. The main reason I walked away because of his height. He is 5 ft. I am the same height and petite. All I can think about is the life we could have had together. But he has a new gf now. ... (92 words)

Is too much sex bad for my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have shared a brilliant and adventurous sex life. I have a very high sex drive and he has always been able to keep up until recently he is turning me down more and more. I initiate the sex I'd say 4 times out of 5. I am still ... (198 words)

A guy I recently met just told me he is being set up with the gorgeous daughter of a family friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hey so I met someone recently, let's call him 'M'. Anyways we hit it off great, we oovoo every night and we text most the day. When we hang out, which has been once officially since we met about a week ago as he moved in with his dad (which is closer to me). It was good, we... (417 words)

How can I learn to overcome homosexuality?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid, quick question. I think I might be gay but I don't want to be. Nowadays when people say they are gay everybody jumps up saying its ok and that you're born that way and we don't have a choice and stuff like that but I don't think I believe that. I'm not trying to st... (211 words)

Why are men who don't like a certain kind of woman accused of being gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've noticed something over the years and even more so recently that I find to be rather unsettling. It's true that a lot of men like to go to strip clubs, look at porn with famous porn stars in it, and ogle women in public who resemble someone you would typically see in ... (150 words)

Why does my cousin treat her boyfriend so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my cousin treats her man this way? is so sad? My cousin treats her boyfriend really badly. She actually treats him like her slave. He's not allowed to talk to other girls. She's constantly arguing with him. She's dumped him a million times already but he goes begg... (184 words)

Will I have to choose between a girl and my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try and keep this as short as possible. During high school, I had a massive crush on a close female friend of mine. We were good friends for a few years but I was never able to tell her how I felt, for two reasons. The first being that I was afraid she would reject me ... (352 words)

Is he really considering a relationship with me or just playing games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age - My ex and I have done one of those off and on long term relationships. Due to a family crisis, I was out of town for part of the last two years and his last words to me were harsh and I could not contact him. Last year, he started contacting me. For eight months he has expr... (582 words)

So how do I improve my life? Dad's a gambler, family is at war. Feels like dad ruins my life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I start..? This is mostly a rant. My parents divorced when I was one because my dad had and STILL HAS serious gambling issues. My dad isn't mean to me, he's really cool and since I was young and spent every other weekend with him he always bought me nice toys and let ... (694 words)

My Gf gets depressed and implies I'm holding her back. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for over two-years now. We had a bit of a rocky start, and we've taken a 3-month break from each other before. But that was a long time ago. For the last year or more, things have been great. We get along well, we always have t... (525 words)

I want to better this world, not date. what's the best way to react to prying personal questions on dating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so here it goes, ever since I was very young I always knew what I wanted in life and that desire was to better this world in some way before I died. At a young age I could comprehend what death was and that eventually every living thing has to die at some point. Gr... (237 words)

Does persistence become annoying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Simply put.. when does persistence become annoying? i had class with this girl and on the last day gave her my number but nothing came of it. We talked the other day and I mentioned that she never texted me. She laughed and such but still no text. I feel like I should make ... (94 words)

How can I make sure he doesn't reject me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

5 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so its so close to Valentines Day! I'm having guy problems. There's this guy Kris. Hes a year younger than me but way taller than me. We like each other but not enough to date. We used to hold hands and he would put his arm around me but then he started dating this really ... (182 words)