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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can a boy in college around pretty girls stay a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, okay, so this guy that I'm not actually officially dating, but we have been a thing for almost two years is away at college. which is kind of why we're not together. He tells me he is still a virgin, but I don't believe him because he goes to parties all the time... (133 words)

What should I do in order to give this un requited love some closure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, it all started when my friend (male) and I became a bit more than friends. We were friends and confidants but that little game we shared (sexually) made us a little bit more. I fell in love with him but he didn't. He came from a break up heartbroken b/c his GF left him ... (248 words)

Is my girlfriend easy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend told me what she did before we met telling me how she let a guy fuc` her in the as` on the first night .she tell me this when we are fighting as she know it hurts me. she just told me she had 4one nightstands a guy told me she was easy .but she tell me she not a ... (89 words)

I'm not sure I understand what his message meant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy i am dating sent me a message today saying " I will feel the same about you no matter how long it takes until we are together again. All my love ". We wrote to each other earlier in the week, saying that we loved each other and missed each other, even though we saw ... (224 words)

Is pool or bowling a good idea for a second date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having a second date tomorrow, and I am short of inspirational ideas, thought of two, take her to play pool/billiards or go bowling. I will then take her for food she said she liked when we met last week. Is pool/bowling a good idea? Please help folks! I'm no... (86 words)

How do I make friends? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved to a new school and I am already having problems trying to make new friends. There is one girl who is one of the most popular girls and I have someone rubbed her the wrong way and I guess she doesnt like me. The other day I was chatting with a group of the ... (155 words)

I miss my bestfriend! But he isnt speaking to me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I am having a problem with one of my best friends. we haven't spoke with each other for 2 days and this is why...so everday before school me and my friend hang out.(we usually just walk around and we don't have any classes so this is the only time we see each other) well ... (328 words)

My life feels out of control so am I controlling the only thing I can..my emotions for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help pleeeease =/ Me and my bf of 1.5 years have been having a few issues, mainly with him saying that he thought I was cheating on him because of a certain misunderstanding. Either way we somewhat started to move on and yet I wasn't really happy. However I think t... (263 words)

My husband says I ask too many questions! How do I deal with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for a year and my hubby says i ask too many unecessary questions?. he gets irritated. the problem is i dont seem to know what is ok and not ok to ask? eg, we went grocery shoping and he asked me to pick items. i asked him how much he had/wanted to sp... (167 words)

After three years it feels like he's not that into me any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I have been feeling like my bf isn't really that into me anymore. We have been dating for almost 3 years now and we also live together and I guess were both just in our "comfortable stage". I feel like I'm starting to become more of his roommate then girlfriend. He used ... (373 words)

Why does everything get messed up but he keeps coming back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this fella and we have a weird relationship. We're really good friends but we fight so so much and we're like this uniffical couple aswell. We fall out all the time, but we Always work it out. He always comes back. We be great for a few weeks and then we go back to ... (116 words)

I can't give up on either my partner or my mother. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - During the process of thinking about my own relationship it has made me think about the other close relationships I have. I would be grateful to have some help with this. My partner and I have had promblems with communication and trust and many other areas, so much s... (846 words)

Could I be the father of my wife's baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my wife didnt see each other since december 2011 and last january 2012 i went to her place and we got sex and now feb 2012 she was saying that she's 7 weeks pregnant.. can you please tell me if i am the father of that child on her womb?... (52 words)

The affair has ended but I can't get over it and I'm afraid I'm going to tell his wife

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - First I want to say a big thank you for the help I've had here in the past. For starters I have been having a on/off affair for around 5 years however I think its safe to say we are over. But I just can't get over him he's all I think about he's all I want. But la... (208 words)

Where can I meet someone special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have just broke ot off with my fwb I was sleeping with him for almost a year I now know why I satyed with him so long he treated me horribly I think it was because I'm so lonely I'm only 25 and I'm a single mum to a 4 year old son I don't go anywhere to meet ... (111 words)

Does my boyfriend winking at me mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend winks at me a lot, and sometimes raises his eyebrows at me lol. Does this always mean something sexual, or can it mean something else too?. We haven't had sex with each other yet, by the way. I stayed at his house once though, and he didn't try to touch me. We just ... (56 words)

Does this spot mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Earlier today I found a spot on my clit in my vagina. It's not too big but it's noticable. It isn't sore or annoying or anything, but I'm wondering if it might be anything serious? I only found it today. I do have sex with my boyfriend but every time we do we use a ... (84 words)

How can I wriggle out of this dating situation safely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with a certain guy for the past few days, kissed him and have found that we have no chemistry. He is incredibly caring, wonderful and protective and I know he genuinly feels for me. However, I don't enjoy kissing him. In fact, I think it'd be more sui... (371 words)

Girlfriend always dreaming of having sex with other men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 22 year old, and i've been with my girl friend for the last two years, and lately maybe i didn't notice before but every night she is dreaming about some different guy she having sex with, when ever i ask she tell me, but if i don't she leave it alone, just wanted to know ... (106 words)

Why doesn't he contact me if he loves me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex left 2 month ago. he said he loved me and that would never change. he has not been in contact for 5 weeks now, no phone call or text message. why does he do this if he says he loves me.... (43 words)

Is making love different from other sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Tonight I met my lover, who is a married woman. We have been together 2.5 years. I am not married and she has told me in the past that she does not plan to leave her husband. She seemed very eager to see me. She gave me a very thorough and naughtier than usual blow job b... (207 words)

How can I tell him I don't want to get involved because of my depression and not being over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently split up with me, and I've also been to the doctors (at last!) and found out I have depression, so need tablets and counselling. Someone I know, who I've not spoken to very much before, has told me he likes me. When he first said that, I said I liked him ... (204 words)

Met a guy whilst wearing coloured contact lenses, will he think I'm fake if he finds out? What do guys think of girls who wear coloured lenses?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Honest answers from guys, I don't care if they are hurtful I need to know a truthful answer. What do you think of girls who wear coloured lenses? Do you not care so much, think they're fake, find them attractive.. what? Because I met this guy whilst I had coloured lenses ... (282 words)

Should I tell the guy I've been seeing I met someone else and gave my number to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy not too long ago...He is Asian/chinese and I am a Latin/south american. He is younger for 8 yrs. Our schedules are very different..I work nights and he days, we see each other everytime we can make it..can be like 2 o 3 times at month. Our relationsh... (507 words)

He has asked me out and I like him, but I'm very shy and worried about my studies! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. Well, recently I've been kinda dating this guy. The reason I said kind of is because my best friend told him that I liked him, and he likes me too. So then he went up to me and asked if I wanted to go out with him, I really barely know him (because we didn't talk muc... (430 words)

Maybe I do lack empathy but has my girlfriend's moaning gone beyond the norm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

- My girlfriend and I have been together 3 years, living together for one. We have good times, we have a healthy relationship in most aspects, but by god there is a problem. She moans and whinges and goes hysterical on a fairly regular basis. For example, she complains abo... (682 words)

I feel like I don't deserve my girlfriend because I'm constantly thinking about dating other girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I do not deserve my girlfriend. I consistently have thoughts of what it would be like to date a different person. I constantly tell some girls that I wish I could date them, but that that would involve me breaking up with my beautiful angel. The thing is, I love my ... (94 words)

How can I start to talk to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello there~ So.. Since December my mother and I have been working out things for me to start Online classes. We went to the place where I'll be picking up my work online every week once a week. And it's about 2hrs-3hrs away since I take about 3buses. The thing is ther... (250 words)

Why was my partner checking the text messages on my mobile phone? She has no reason to doubt me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Well I guess this is a common issue and has been answered many times before but here it goes.. Last night I found my partner going through my mobile phone text messages. Well I found that my phone light was on and it was clear she had just put it down on the table. I asked ... (291 words)

Why on earth would my partner keep a bottle of 'Dick Lick' from a previous liaison. Eugghhh!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age - I have struggled with trust with my new partner for some time. We managed to put to bed the things that were troubling me (and they were NOT small I can tell you). All has been good but I have now discovered two more things that are making me concerned...should I be? Firs... (201 words)

I'm married and she has a boyfriend but I cannot ignore my attraction to her, how do I ask her out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a new lady in office. She is 38 and I am 26. She is really very cute and hot at the same time...rare combination but yes she is. I have been wondering how to ask her out and what subjects could I talk to her on to attract her towards me. Really confused, as I'm ... (111 words)

Complicated FWB arrangement..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We started being FWB about six months ago. We had just met a few weeks before and were getting to know each other and then one night we ended up sleeping together and have been a few times a week ever since. When this whole arrangement started I didn't want anything more than ... (144 words)

After 10 years he left me to marry a girl his parents approved of! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, My boyfriend left me after 10 years of love. He is my neighbour and has got married with a girl of his family's choice (the reason for our breakup). Now, he is very happy with her. But it is very difficult for me to see them together even after 4 years of their... (140 words)

I had sex with him, now we're thousands of miles away and I cant get him out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to one of my friend's birthday party and there was a guy that I had a thing with. We don't really know each other but had a few talk at couple of parties. He was actually one of the guys who threw the party. Anyways, that was actually my last party cuz I had to leave my ... (369 words)

I don't see a very strong connection between us, but am I reading too much into this at an early stage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've become quite skeptical as far as relationships go. I recently just met a guy. I've actually known him for years but we never connected before. He's about 5 years older than me, I'm not used to dating older men. He's extremely kind and consistent. By consistent I mea... (213 words)

Does my guy friend like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey aunts! So, i have this friend who is a guy and I think he might like me but I'm not sure so please help me. You see, everyday at lunch, he lays on top of me and most of the time it is on my chest. And when he does, he grabs my arm and cuddles with it. So to my other friends ... (152 words)

My crush didn't bother wishing me on my birthday today and neither did he take me bowling like he had said. Should I text him and ask if the plan's still on or just not go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my birthday was today and my my crush didn't say happy birthdaydidn't text call or anything. He and I have been talking for over a long time. He knew it was today because he even suggested to take me bowl but I am sad because my day ended and didn't hear from him. What ... (80 words)

What can I tell my best friend to get her to realize how strong me feelings are for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago, I told one of my best friends that I like her. It was kinda awkward and I had no confidence when I told her. Before this all happened, I used to think about her a lot. But now, she's all I think about. From the moment I met her, I knew she was special. I ... (116 words)

I'm going to meet my girlfriend's parents but I cant tell them that I met my G/f online! What do I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, basically I have been with my gf for 2 years, and I'm ready to meet her parents. However the main thing is to explain how we met. It's complicated, becuz we met online and that's not cool for her parents, so I need an idea on how we met. She lives 2hrs from me, in a medium ... (129 words)

How can I give my boyfriend pleasure without actually having sex?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - can someone tell me how I can make more pleasure my boy without sex?we don't have sex I am virgin. in my country it is not normal before merriag have sex.but my bf want this and i can not please help me and tell me can I make more pleasure without sex?... (52 words)

Valentines day card help...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! I am making a valentine's day card for my boyfriend of 8 months. I also got him shoes from Aldo's that I know he wanted to get. My problem is the card. Since I am making it myself I hope he will like it better than something I just bought. I just need some ideas. So far I... (196 words)

I love him, but he loves her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this former friend who likes this other girl with a boyfriend. He likes me as a friend, but I love him. We've stopped talking to separate. Should I try to become his friend again so I can eventually move up to his lover?... (45 words)

Heartbroken! I liked this girl in my school for a really long time and I found out she already has a B/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm going to keep this short and sweet. I liked this girl in my school for a really long time. We have been friends for a while too. A couple weeks ago, I was going to ask her out on a date. I walked over to her to ask, and in the conversation she was having with her ... (177 words)

He's twice my age, has children and has asked me out. I've accepted but where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh my gosh. So today at work I was talking to the man who is twice my age and who I am interested in and he has admitted to being attracted to me as well...., and he asked me on a date!! (Reminder: he has been married for 18 years and currently in the middle of a divorce.... (250 words)

Is our relationship worth salvaging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I got in a fight about a month ago. Things haven't been working too well for about 6 weeks prior, so I told her I wanted to take a break. She asked me why, I said that the relationship was hurting me and I needed some space. She agreed. About week passed... (193 words)

Why do I seem to prefer alone time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for a couple months now. It was going really well for about a month and half. We both wanted to see each other all of the time. The problem is that my girlfriend is still acting the same way but I feel a little different. I find myself wanting to ... (248 words)

Am I doing the right thing in giving Jake the silent treatment to make him man up and come talk to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is kind of a long story (sorry in advance!) I am good friends with my roommate's boyfriend and his two roommates ( the two households hang out together a lot). One of them (let's call him Jake) and I started talking. My roommate had told me that he was the kind ... (452 words)

Why does he retain his 'memory box'? And I don't like the fact that he moved. Is there a solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of one yr, are perfect, but as usual there are some down falls; first, he has a ' memory box' and he's very protective of it I should say, he told me about it, and asked me not to look thru it, and of course by him asking me not to look thru it, I'm going to ... (318 words)

I didn't really care that much, but now I really like her and I am pretty sure she's over me...How do I ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well the basics of my problem is that there is this girl that I have sat next to in one of my classes all year and we talk all the time but only in that class and earlier this year I was 100% positive she liked me a lot but for some reason I didn't really care that much but now ... (123 words)

Creative Valentine's Day Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok....Valentine"s day is just around the corner... My partner and I have been together for 7 months (we are an older couple). We have been through hell and back since just before Xmas due to some curve balls, but are on the mend. My partner has made some poor choic... (128 words)

I told him I'm a virgin, but I've done things with guys...it turned him off

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So.. I've been dating this guy for a week. Im a virgin. He's not. He asked about my past, I had done some things and it totally turned him off. But, I was completely honest with him because I didn't want to lie to him. What do I do?... (49 words)

Does nipple sensitivity decrease with age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

9 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question regarding nipple sensitivity. I am 27 and I have noticed that for over a year now, my nipples have become less sensitive( I have natural breasts, I don't take any medications or pills and there is medically nothing wrong with me). Prior to this I could get ... (125 words)